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Spring is coming, and many stars are starting to fall in love.
Like Hua Chenyu, Guo Qilin, and Zhang Jiunan, who dared to date and fall in love with girls without marrying his ex-wife, I don't want to bless them when they fall in love, I just want to bless Selina.
On March 3, there was a gossip media exposed Selina and the man holding hands back to the hotel, and then, the Taiwan media reported that after Selina friends confirmed that the boy who was photographed outside the hotel with Selina was her boyfriend, and his friends praised him for his cute personality, looking like the big boy next door, and the evaluation in the circle of friends was quite high.
To be so highly evaluated by Selina's friends, I guess he is a very reliable boy.
On March 4, Selina generously acknowledged her love affair on her personal Weibo, and she also gave a poem: Forty-one flowers for women, lucky love is budding, cherish each other at the same pace, small love please eat melon. Spring is in full bloom, and my spring is coming.
Selina generously admitted to the relationship, which made people very emotional, as one netizen said: "Bitter and sweet, really, happier than my own love." She has experienced so much, I especially hope that she can have a good home, she is our little princess who will always love. ”
We all want Selina to have a good home, because she has been through so much along the way. SHE is the memory of too many of us in our 80s and 90s, Selina looks like a little princess, a little girl, but seriously, she is very strong, from experiencing burns to divorce, all the way, she is the hardest one in SHE, and the strongest one.
Remember that she once talked about whether she believed in love in "Daughters in Love", she said: "I have the courage to divorce, why don't I have the courage to believe in love!" I believe in love, I have always believed, but it is another matter that I do not believe that love will happen to me. ”
I was really poked by her at that time, she said that she believed in love, she always believed, but she felt that love would not happen to her. Now that she has finally let herself take this step, there is also a suitable boy with her, you will feel so relieved, there will be an old mother marrying her daughter suddenly relieved feeling, sincerely relieved, sincerely hope that she can get happiness.
Selina has been divorced for six years, now she is 40 years old, what is wrong with women 40, women 40 is still a flower, women 40, as long as you are excellent, you can still have love, your spring will still come.
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She is a "phoenix in the fire"
We knew Selina, we all started with SHE, and the impression was always that she looked like a little princess, wearing a floral dress, and her appearance was very sweet.
When I was in middle school, a lot of my classmates had SHE on their desks, and we talked about which girl we liked the most, they sang "Rainforest", they sang "Super star", they were so dazzling on stage. I've always thought selina should have a good life, but who expected that a fire in 2010 destroyed Selina, and she had 54% burns on her body, and she had severe burns of the third degree.
Ren Dad said that when he was told that Xuanxuan was in danger, he subconsciously asked "is there a danger to life", and as soon as he learned that there was, he immediately numbed himself to the soles of his feet. But can you panic? No, just let yourself calm down and then keep praying to God. This is a kind of faith in people's hearts, you don't know if it is useful, all you can do is pray.
After arriving at the hospital, Ren Dad did not blame the crew, because Ren Dad knew that "things have happened, and there is no point in blaming what has happened". No, my daughter's pain will not be reduced or less. Only calmly face everything and solve problems one by one.
Ren Dad is really a person who has experienced great winds and waves, and he is also very educated, and he gave his daughter the strongest support at the critical time. Suddenly you can't be chaotic, you can't complain, you can only be calm and calm, you have to be able to bear it, because your daughter is still suffering from all the suffering, even life and death are unknown.
Selina used to be a girl who loved beauty, her skin was so smooth, she could be sad for days if she bumped it, but after experiencing the fire, she had to do a long rehabilitation, during which she was destroyed over and over again, and every day she experienced the same pain of death, over and over again, but the scars on her body were still shocking.
She has been holding on to herself and applauding herself, but some people say that she is selling misery sympathy.
Selina really went through a lot, and those sufferings were beyond what we could imagine.
Ren Dad once said in the letter, "On the first night of staying in Shanghai, he calmly told Ah Zhong, although you are already engaged, I think Xuanxuan is now unrecognizable, and it is no longer the original Xuanxuan, let's cancel the marriage contract." Ren Dad can accept the dissolution of the marriage contract and does not want to bring trouble to Ah Zhong, but Ah Zhong is inseparable and has feelings and righteousness.
In 2011, Selina and Zhang Chengzhong held a wedding, but in 2016 their wedding ended, we thought that the love that had experienced the kiss of fire could last a long time, but we did not expect to be able to carry reality at all, Zhang Chengzhong once admitted that when he first saw the photo of Selina's burned leg, he felt sick and wanted to vomit, saying that it was not like a human leg, it was a dark purple and dark red honeycomb.
In July 2015, Selina said in an interview: "I don't feel like I'm an unattractive woman myself, but I'm now an unattractive woman."
Zhang Chengzhong was later photographed dating a hot girl, and he only came to say: I am also a man with normal needs.
Well, you're a man with normal needs, so why did you have to marry Selina at the time? Obviously, I can't stand it, why do I have to pretend that I can accept it. We can always hope to get the support of the other half when we are most physically vulnerable, but if the other half keeps hitting you, you will become very inferior, and you will feel that your whole life is dark.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is not love, Selina is also very calm, I let you go, since you hate me, we divorce it, there is no need to tie together.
When divorced, Zhang Chengzhong also said: "It is a pity that I can't share the same pain, that feels a bit like I owe her in my previous life, so when she was at the big hurdle of her life, I appeared." I felt that the mission was over and that time had come. ”
Quite a sigh, maybe at that time, it was just to block the mouth of yo-yo, and after a long time, the true face was revealed.
I have always felt that a girl like Selina is worthy of being loved, she has experienced so much, but still does not give up on herself, seriously upward life, I see an upward force in her, if you really encounter misfortune, what to do? Want to complain? Or should we cross the past and live well.
Selina gave us the best demonstration.
Selina divorced her ex-husband, three years empty window, she did not dare to let herself go to love, and then went to participate in "Daughters in Love", she also did not dare to let herself fall in love, she said that believing in love is one thing, but feeling that a girl like herself is not worthy of being loved, she does not believe that love will happen to her.
We really can't look down on ourselves too much in many cases, you have to believe that there will be people who can see your good, there will be people who understand you, and you are also worthy of being loved.
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Many people are prejudiced against divorced women, thinking that if a woman is divorced, there must be something wrong. In fact, divorce is really nothing? Why is there a divorce? Divorce is because two people can't live a long time, is it not inappropriate or insist on being tied together? People who dare to divorce are brave because they dare to end a relationship and start a new one again.
Recently, there is a variety show about divorced people, "Spring Day Delays Departure", this show is particularly meaningful, what happened to divorced people, divorced people can also start love again.
Many people are not only prejudiced against divorced women, they are also prejudiced against 40-year-old women, thinking that women are not worthy of love when they are older.
What I want to tell a 40-year-old divorced woman is: whether you have love or not, please let yourself live beautifully and dashingly, don't despise yourself, don't define yourself with "someone loves", someone loves is the icing on the cake, no one loves us to be good. When you encounter love, boldly let yourself love, don't care about the eyes of others, don't feel unworthy.
In fact, you deserve all the happiness, as long as the person identifies you.
Bless Selina, hope she is loved, wish she can be happy.
Today's topic: After divorce, will you still believe in love? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.