In recent times, the "happy events" in the entertainment industry have been very intensive.
First of all, Selina and her little boyfriend officially declared a relationship, and the two went out shopping with ten fingers, which was very sweet.
On the other hand, Chen Qiaoen and her boyfriend Ellen registered for marriage and were blessed by the whole network.
Have you found a pattern?
These couples, the man's age is younger than the woman's age, is a typical sister-brother love.
A few years ago, many actresses liked the type of Uncle Yuppie, and in the past two years, the tastes of female stars have long changed.
The uncles have become a thing of the past, and the brother who pounces on fresh meat has become the mainstream.
Like Selina, she had a marriage before she met her current fresh meat boyfriend.
Her marriage partner at that time was Zhang Chengzhong, who was 9 years older than her.
Zhang Chengzhong fell in love with Selina in 2007, and Selina's career was also developing well.
But Selina suffered an almost devastating blow due to accidental burns from filming.
Selina did not want to delay her boyfriend, but Zhang Chengzhong still chose to accompany her and held a wedding in 2011.
But the two were together for only five years, and the marriage came to an abrupt end.
Later, Selina mentioned in the interview that her marriage with Zhang Chengzhong was only a superficial happiness, but in fact, Zhang Chengzhong was not so good to herself.
Zhang Chengzhong hardly cares about the housework at home, and many times it is Selina who takes care of it herself.
Moreover, Zhang Chengzhong often reported gossip after marriage, and was also photographed by the media, and he kissed a strange woman late at night in a nightclub.
Not only that, Zhang Chengzhong also published a book on Selina's post-burn treatment process, using Selina's popularity to make money.
They also made public their daily privacy, without the slightest regard for Selina's feelings.
After Selina bravely divorced, she began to concentrate on her career.
He reunited with Ella and Hebe, the good sisters of the former S.H.E group, and held a concert to commemorate the seventeenth anniversary.
At the end of last year, he also released his own new song "The Road to Beauty, I Want to Be My Own Master".
Nowadays, he is in a sweet and passionate love with his little boyfriend, not only writing on Weibo, "Forty-one flowers for women, lucky love is budding" such a poem full of girlish heart.
And shopping with her boyfriend all the way, the whole person is very brisk and comfortable.
In fact, Selina was first in the same place with Zhang Chengzhong, and she also saw his reliability and steadfastness.
But time has proved that the so-called love is only the appearance, and the seemingly mature uncle did not give Selina timely care and consideration.
So much so that Selina, after walking out of this failed marriage, once questioned herself.
When participating in "Daughters in Love", she even said:
I don't believe love can happen to me, and if a guy says he likes me, I feel like that person's brain is broken.
But now when she meets her fresh meat boyfriend who is 7 years younger, Selina has stepped out of the shadows, more because of the healing that the man brought to her.
Just like the man will compare the scars on her body to the scales of a mermaid, so that Selina can see the light on her body again.
Therefore, no matter how rich and mature the uncle's experience is, it may not be more than the emotional value brought by the younger brother.
In the popular love roundup "Semi-Acquaintance Lover" at the beginning of the year, Wang Ziwen also said such a golden sentence:
When I was in my 20s, most of the love I talked about was ok; after 30 years old, I had the ability to live better and then talk about feelings, which would be more pure.
When Wang Ziwen first went to Beijing to work hard, he was also helpless and had no resources at hand.
Riding on the gossip boyfriend Wang Shuo, with the support of the big guys in the Beijing circle, Wang Ziwen's star path is much smoother.
Wang Ziwen fell into the storm of termination with the former company, and Wang Shuo came forward to pay 100,000 yuan to help her solve it, and also sent a book written by himself.
The reason why she can get the role in "Addiction Again" is because this IP is Wang Shuo's novel, and she can star in Xu Anhua's "Auntie's Postmodern Life", which is said to be because of Wang Shuo's back and forth.
Later, Wang Ziwen's career gradually developed, and his relationship with Wang Shuo also weakened.
Especially after acting in the "Ode to Joy" series produced at noon, Qu Xiaoxiu of the Ghost Horse Elf made Prince Wen more famous, and her value also rose.
In the past two years, Wang Ziwen has returned to everyone's attention, that is, he participated in the variety show "Suddenly And Then Moved".
Wu Yongen, the guest of honor on the show who dated her, was several years younger than her.
Wang Ziwen and his initial relationship has always been a state of temptation.
Until she revealed in the show that she had a 7-year-old son, Wu Yong'en did not reject it, but became closer and closer to Wang Ziwen.
Even after the show, Wang Ziwen and Wu Yongen are still very affectionate, and the two are still in the same frame as Dior's activities.
For female celebrities, when their careers first start, they often need more than the help of external resources.
Those who can give these are often the big guys who already have strength and status in the circle.
But if you have achievements in your career, you don't need to rely on men's help, choose "downward compatibility", find a younger brother who is shallow in qualifications, but has both good looks and spoils himself, it is easier to get simple happiness.
In this regard, Zhang Yuqi and Wang Ziwen are a bit like each other.
The object of Zhang Yuqi's talk in the early days of her debut was almost a rich man.
In 2008, because of Wang Zhonglei's introduction, Zhang Yuqi became acquainted with Wang Xiaofei.
At that time, Wang Xiaofei had not yet experienced the career crisis brought about by the beautiful Jiangnan, and was one of the famous "four young people in Beijing".
Zhang Yuqi took the initiative to pursue Wang Xiaofei, compared An Yixuan to Become Wang Xiaofei's "legitimate girlfriend".
And she also got substantial benefits from this relationship:
Wang Xiaofeihao threw a huge amount of money to the movie "Sword Laugh" to vote for the advertisement, and supported Zhang Yuqi as the heroine.
After the two parted ways, Zhang Yuqi took a "big step" in her feelings and directly found an uncle director to marry.
And this director is the nobleman who made her career move forward rapidly, Wang Quan'an.
The two received a license in 2011, and when they got married, Wang Quan'an was 46 years old, while Zhang Yuqi was only 24 years old, and the age difference between the two was very large.
Even so, Wang Quan'an brought Zhang Yuqi's resource bonus, which was visible to the naked eye.
A "White Deer Plain", let Zhang Yuqi become red again, and the beautiful and desired "Tian Xiao'e" has become a classic role in her acting career.
Zhang Yuqi's status in the circle has also risen, and she has also won the nomination for the best actress at the 62nd Berlin Film Festival.
Zhang Yuqi's career is in the ascendant, but her relationship with her husband Wang Quan'an has undergone dramatic changes.
First, Zhang Yuqi angrily kicked Wang Quan'an's car door on the street, suspected of a marriage change, and after more than a year, it was reported that Wang Quan'an was involved in Huang's arrest.
When Wang Quan'an was released from prison in 2015, the relationship between the two people came to an end.
Zhang Yuqi turned her head and took a new uncle: Yuan Bayuan, who was 14 years older than her. The two had known each other for more than 70 days and had a hurry to get married.
But this relationship is more bloody than the previous one.
Although after getting married, people who claimed to be Yuan Bayuan's ex-girlfriend came out to complain that they had given birth to a daughter to Yuan, but they were abandoned.
But Zhang Yuqi did not care about the voices of the outside world, not only raised his daughter with Yuan Bayuan, but also gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses for Yuan.
And the final ending is even more surprising:
The family dispute between the two directly alarmed the police, and Yuan Bayuan also accused Zhang Yuqi of cutting himself with a knife.
After a place of chicken feathers, Zhang Yuqi and Yuan Bayuan divorced.
With two uncles with a huge age gap, after two failed marriages, Zhang Yuqi's attitude towards feelings has also changed.
In the past two years, almost all of them are fresh meat brothers after 95.
Li Shanxi, who studied violin with him, appeared on "Daughters in Love" and was touched by various surprises carefully designed by his brother.
Li Shanxi hid from Zhang Yuqi and personally went to learn her favorite dishes from the restaurant master, and after Zhang Yuqi knew, the girl's heart was about to overflow the screen.
After separating from Li Shanxi, she quickly took the younger Zhang Mohuai.
The two not only embraced each other warmly on the street, Zhang Yuqi also took her little boyfriend to participate in the Sohu fashion festival.
With her younger brothers, Zhang Yuqi's whole state of being also became more free.
With Zhang Yuqi's current position in the circle, there are indeed not many men who can compete with her.
If you look for Gaoli, you still have to tiptoe, inevitably tired, and maybe become the passive and weak side of the feeling again.
If you let yourself reluctantly "low", and spend most of your efforts, in turn to support the man, such feelings, but also prone to cracks.
It is better to put aside the eyes of the outside world and be emotionally free and willful.
Falling in love with a young brother, securing emotional value, and allowing yourself to have a youthful state is something that is difficult to buy for expensive skin care products.
Female celebrities in the circle, there is no shortage of money and no lack of appearance, even if people reach middle age, why can't they have the qualifications and rights to free love?
Greasy uncles, has long been not the best solution for 30+ and 40+ actresses to choose the destination of life, they are fully capable of allowing themselves to have better love and a more free life.