Jon Chan has received the license!
This morning, some media filmed Chen Qiaoen and her boyfriend Ellen, accompanied by several relatives and friends, appeared at the Daan Household Office to register for marriage, and Chen Qiaoen himself was even happier at the scene: "I am married!" ”
After the relevant news was released, Chen Qiaoen's agent came forward to confirm that the two had a stable relationship and indeed completed the registration this morning, while denying the claim that "Fengzi got married".
And for the fans who have always cared about them, Chen Qiaoen and Allen were able to cultivate the right results in a wave of doubt, and printed the sentence:
Love is a show, love is not.
01.
The calendar flips back to 2019.
At that time, Chen Qiaoen and Allen met because of the recording of love observation variety show "Daughters in Love".
In this variety show, the two are not optimistic, and are considered to be a pair with a script, even at the end of the variety show, Chen Qiaoen agreed to Allen's pursuit, which was questioned by netizens as a show.
After all, Chen Qiaoen is not a vegetarian, she is a dazzling spotlight, a powerful actress with a good look and a work, she can easily deliver feelings in the lens, not off-camera.
But as it goes in Wild Roses of Paris:
"I've met a lot of people who made me have a fever and I thought it was love and it burned out everything. Someone sent me chills and disappeared into my life. Someone made me warm, but it was just warmth. Only you, let my body temperature rise by 0.2 °C. ”
Coincidentally, Alan was the one who made Jon Chen's body temperature rise.
Perhaps at the beginning, it is indeed because of the hot head, the two began to have more warm intersections outside the show:
She and he would go shopping together to eat hot pot and walk hand in hand;
She would send his picture in the New Year, and he would send her the rose of her love on Valentine's Day, making her sigh that what was received was a rose, but he was a sunflower;
Occasionally there are rumors of breakups, and he will also stand up and firmly tell everyone that they are fine;
Love celebrates one year, and has two more;
Whether it is a birthday or spending time in the hospital when sick, they have each other's presence around them;
......
Gradually, the body temperature tends to be normal, the love reveals the most real appearance, and they see each other's hearts clearly.
Jon Chan has changed.
She no longer called Alan Mr. Zeng, but her husband.
With her left ring finger, she began to wear a diamond ring symbolizing marriage.
After realizing that the body heated up when they met, it turned out that true love was sending a reminder signal.
Fortunately, they were all perfectly received.
02.
Of course, the doubts about Jon Chan and Allen will not end with the two officially receiving their licenses.
In the eyes of those who sing their praises, the decision to join hands in the palace of marriage and stay together for a lifetime is too hasty to know each other for more than two years.
What they don't know is that true love doesn't look at time, but at timing.
Take the recent big S and Gu Junye's "Number Strange Edge".
According to the younger sister Xiao S, the sister Big S and Gu Junye separated when they loved each other the most, and then one did not marry, one flashed marriage and divorced, went around for decades, and finally decided to accompany each other for the rest of his life after a phone call.
I have to say that this plot is very idol drama, but it also proves the importance of timing in love from the side.
For example, when attending the event on the same stage a few days ago, Hou Peichen publicly ridiculed whether the phone number was the same as the "best former representative" - Lin Xinru and Lin Zhiying.
Many people may not know that 27 years ago, the two had a relationship that lasted for three years.
In 1994, 19-year-old Lin Xinru fell in love after collaborating with Lin Zhiying on the film "School Bully".
The combination of the two like a "golden boy and jade girl" has received many blessings, and even Lin Zhiying's father has publicly hinted in the show that Lin Xinru is the only girlfriend that Lin Zhiying brought home to see her parents.
However, love has many twists and turns, and lovers have many tribulations.
Before falling in love, Lin Zhiying became a popular student in Taiwan because of the movie "Whirlwind Boy" and the song "Seventeen-year-old Rainy Season". After falling in love, Lin Xinru also became popular across the taiwan strait and three places because of the TV series "Huan Zhu Gege".
It's good to be popular, but the timing is not right.
Long-term long-distance love, so that the distance between their body and soul, more and more distant, can only be scrawled in the end.
And now, the two can read thousands of sails and have their own families in the same frame again, just as Lin Zhiying sang in a song written to Lin Xinru many years ago:
"I don't regret being loved by you, I just regret not being able to love to the end, a short period of happiness, it's enough to have it." 」
Some people, possession is a luxury, love is enough.
04.
These people, these emotions, remind me of the "be aesthetics" that have been very popular on the Internet recently.
There is a sentence in "Xian Cai Sigh":
"The Buddha said that there are eight sufferings in life, birth, old age, illness, death, love and separation, hatred for a long time, can not be asked, can not let go, the most bitter is not to ask, can not let go." 」
And this can not be sought, can not put down, is the attraction of the so-called "be aesthetics", it makes people who have felt it, it is difficult to calm, it is difficult to forget.
But "be aesthetics" is poignant, and in the end it is not as moving as "happy ending".
We all know that the former is a passer-by, and the latter is the real returnees.
Those missed feelings, and the inappropriate timing, are telling us that it is not the red light that hinders the progress of love, but the wrong person.
Just like Selina.
In early March, Selina was photographed walking back to the hotel with the man holding hands. Shortly thereafter, Selina herself generously acknowledged her new relationship on Weibo:
"Forty-one flowers for women, lucky love is budding, cherish each other at the same pace, small love eat melon." Spring is in full bloom, and my spring is coming. ”
Between the lines, there is a joy of the arrival of "spring".
Anyone familiar with Selina knows that she has lived through a disaster and a failed marriage.
But she was strong, neither the disaster nor the marriage, defeated her, she was reborn, patiently waiting for the real time when spring came.
Finally, at the age of forty-one, she waited.
The boyfriend is smaller than Selina, and the two have been together for more than half a year, but the boyfriend's intimacy has made every day of the half year infinitely stretched by happiness.
Recalling the opportunity to decide to be with each other, Selina smiled and revealed that it was because of coriander.
One day, her boyfriend came to Selina's house for dinner, but because of the weather, Selina had difficulty buying the coriander she liked to eat, and just when she was about to give up, the boyfriend ran all over the supermarkets and finally bought selina's heart-warmed coriander from the noodle stall owner's wife.
The boyfriend's actions unloaded Selina's defenses, and she said with tears:
"It's called the weight of coriander, and coriander is very light, but he has a lot of weight in my heart."
The timing was right, and the aroma of coriander was smelled by those who liked it.
05.
At the end of "Daughters in Love", Chen Qiaoen decided to follow his heart, and after walking towards Alan, he once said a sentence:
"Love has not given up on me."
In fact, it is not that love has not given up on you, but that you have not given up on love.
At the end of the article, I wish a lover who still believes in love, looks forward to love, and waits for the opportunity.
Eventually become a family member.