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In front of the camera, Chen Ruoyi's eyes were already so red and swollen that it was distressing, and her eyes were full of endless tears. Even though she bit her lips desperately and stared at them hard, she couldn't stop the tears from pouring out like a spring.
However, when she recalled the countless grievances and setbacks she had encountered in the Lin family over the years, the deep grief in her heart could no longer be suppressed, and she couldn't stop crying.
"If I could start all over again, I would rather choose not to marry Lin Zhiying!" Chen Ruoyi said with tears in her voice, her tone full of sincerity and pain. She poured out the pain that had been hidden in her heart for many years, as if the bitterness of these years had been released at this moment.
In the past years, Chen Ruoyi has never told any outsiders about her marital troubles. As a wife, she knows the difficulties of being considerate of her husband, and it is her duty to bear everything silently.
However, in the face of the indifference of her mother-in-law and husband and the misunderstanding of the outside world, she really couldn't hold on anymore.
Even her closest friends didn't realize that Chen Ruoyi was living such a lonely and helpless life. She looked exhausted in front of the camera, her once bright eyes and white teeth gone.
Instead, there was a face that had been weathered, as if all these years of hardship were deeply imprinted in her eyes.
For most people, marrying into a wealthy family is undoubtedly a dream come true. However, for Chen Ruoyi, she would rather never set foot in this seemingly gorgeous but cruel world.
During the time when they first met, who would have thought that Lin Zhiying would hide such a dark side behind him, he was simply a living "mom boy".
And Chen Ruoyi also failed to foresee that she would have to endure this fire-like pain and torture for several years.
To understand why Lin Zhiying became a "mom boy", we have to delve into his family background. Lin Zhiying has been regarded as a baby bump in the family since he was a child, and the excessive doting he received as a child undoubtedly shaped his later childish personality.
His outstanding appearance and talent made him the pride of the whole family, and his mother was even more obedient to him. Growing up in such an environment, Lin Zhiying gradually formed a mentality of refusing to grow up and evading responsibility, and only longed to be cared for and pampered forever.
Mother Lin deeply understands her son's nature, and after tasting the bitter taste of divorce, she devotes more love to this poor lone seedling and regards him as the center of the world. She feared that her son would encounter any danger or accident, and protected him as tightly as an iron bucket.
Therefore, when Lin Zhiying stepped into the showbiz to show an unrivaled demeanor, Lin's mother was full of vigilance about his future wife.
In the eyes of Mother Lin, Chen Ruoyi is just a little-known little model, with no characteristics, and she can't even detect what unique charm she has to match her noble status as a "heart baby".
However, the fact is that it was Chen Ruoyi's pure and flawless temperament that deeply moved Lin Zhiying and prompted him to firmly decide to marry her However, in the hearts of the Lin family, Chen Ruoyi has always been the "small role" who tried to cling to the powerful and take advantage of the situation.
They firmly believe that the reason why Chen Ruoyi approached Lin Zhiying is nothing more than for his fame and wealth, trying to realize his ambitions through this relationship. Even when Chen Ruoyi became pregnant and the news of the two being forced to get engaged was made public, the Lin family was still stubborn and did not change their opinion of her in the slightest.
In their eyes, Chen Ruoyi will always be the "third party" who is good at drilling camps and pretending to be a tiger.
In 2004, Chen Ruoyi participated in an auto show as an up-and-coming model, where she met Lin Zhiying, who had become a hot idol star at the time.
The two fell in love at first sight, and Lin Zhiying became interested in this young, simple and lovely girl, and Chen Ruoyi was also attracted by Lin Zhiying's professionalism and courtesy.
At first, the outside world was skeptical and ridiculed about their relationship. After all, Chen Ruoyi is just an unknown little model, and there is a huge difference in social status and identity between Lin Zhiying.
It is generally believed that Chen Ruoyi wants to use this relationship to become a celebrity, gain fame and fortune, however, unexpectedly, Lin Zhiying treats this relationship very sincerely, he seems to have found the simplicity and purity that Chen Ruoyi longs for in his heart, and not long after the relationship was exposed, the media exposed the news that Chen Ruoyi was pregnant.
Everything went smoothly, and the two parties quickly entered the marriage hall and became a legal husband and wife.
For Lin Zhiying, who has already become a legend, Chen Ruoyi means the last haven of tranquility in his heart. When his career was at its peak, he encountered troughs one after another, and the tormented years of being questioned, it was the appearance of Chen Ruoyi, a woman, that made him regain his love and hope for life.
Her pure and gentle temperament deeply defended this tired superstar, and became a solid backing for him to move forward bravely and firmly. However, the life after marriage is obviously not as good as he envisioned.
The outside world's doubts and criticisms of Chen Ruoyi have never stopped, and she has to bear the burden of various gossips alone, and even the harsher reality from her in-laws, and she has never really regarded her as a member of the Lin family.
In a popular variety show called "Mother-in-law and Mother" in 2020, Chen Ruoyi officially appeared in the public eye for the first time as Lin Zhiying's wife. It was expected to be a great opportunity for a wide audience to gain insight into their real family life, but the appearance became the trigger for the situation to deteriorate further.
As soon as the show was broadcast, it presented a fierce picture of the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother Lin unabashedly commented on Chen Ruoyi's dress in front of the camera, and her tone was full of condescending arrogance and contempt.
What's even more excessive is that she openly criticized Chen Ruoyi's cooking skills and gave a comprehensive denial to the table of delicacies she carefully cooked.
In the face of these naked provocations, Chen Ruoyi always kept smiling and responded with a humble attitude. In front of the camera, she showed the image of a wise and gentle wife, but she was under huge psychological pressure behind her.
The most shocking scene occurred at the end of the show, when the whole family was sitting around talking and gathering in a harmonious atmosphere.
This problem undoubtedly brought great trouble to Lin Zhiying. As his wife, she should be his closest confidant, but Lin Zhiying seemed hesitant and embarrassed, which made the atmosphere instantly deadlocked.
In the end, he gave a helpless answer: "I will try my best to take care of both of you at the same time".
This ambiguous response is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Chen Ruoyi. It turned out that in Lin Zhiying's mind, she could never replace her mother's supremacy in his heart.
After the show was broadcast, Lin Zhiying's personal social account was instantly attacked by angry netizens' messages, and many voices accused him of being an out-and-out "mom boy".
If we want to explore the source of Chen Ruoyi's indifferent treatment after marriage, we must go back to the days when she was questioned before marriage. The public generally holds the view that Chen Ruoyi is a cunning woman who hooked up with Lin Zhiying only because she took a fancy to her fame and wealth, in a vain attempt to enter the upper class society.
Although Chen Ruoyi has the most sincere feelings for Lin Zhiying, in the eyes of the Lin family, she has always been regarded as the "little three" who took advantage of the situation and pretended to be a tiger. If it weren't for the news of Chen Ruoyi's pregnancy being made public, I'm afraid their relationship would never see the light of day! .
After marriage, Chen Ruoyi is facing unprecedented life pressure. She went from a simple model to a household name overnight, shouldering countless expectations and requirements.
However, no matter how hard she tries, she will never be recognized by her mother-in-law, whether it is cooking, dressing, or housework, she will be blamed and belittled by her mother-in-law for no reason.
What's even more distressing is that in the face of her mother-in-law's unreasonable accusations, Chen Ruoyi always chooses to compromise and tolerate again and again. As an outsider, she has almost no say in the Lin family. It is conceivable that over the years, she must have endured countless grievances and buried many dissatisfactions deep in her heart.
After all, she longs for family harmony and does not want to exacerbate conflicts.
However, as time passes, this repression will eventually converge into a painful knot. Especially in front of her husband Lin Zhiying, Chen Ruoyi was even more helpless. As a "mom treasure man", Lin Zhiying always obeys her mother's words, and rarely stands up for her wife.
In contrast, he seemed to care more about what his mother thought of him.
In the climax of the variety show, when Chen Ruoyi raised the difficult question of "If I fall into the water at the same time as your mother", Lin Zhiying's inner struggle is clearly visible. He couldn't directly express who he would save first, and this ambiguous attitude undoubtedly brought great harm to Chen Ruoyi.
After years of psychological depression, it finally broke out completely in that variety show. When Chen Ruoyi heard Lin Zhiying's vague words and didn't dare to say bluntly and chose to save herself, her heart instantly fell to the freezing point.
As a wife, she should have been of the same heart and mind as her husband and shared joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but the actual situation is that Lin Zhiying's mother has always been above her, and her importance is far beyond imagination.
Such a fact is like a basin of cold water, ruthlessly extinguishing Chen Ruoyi's beautiful expectations for marriage for many years.
After the show was broadcast, Lin Zhiying's response on social platforms was as sloppy and perfunctory, which made Chen Ruoyi feel desperate. As lovers, they have long lost the mutual understanding and tolerance that they should have.
The marriage was like a farce, with a fragile foundation.
When she was young, she was fascinated by this hot idol. However, in the end, she became an "outsider" of the Lin family, and she could never be fully respected and recognized.
Now, Chen Ruoyi has completely lost confidence in this marriage. She began to reflect on whether her life choices were wise. Perhaps, she does not have the qualifications to enter the upper class, but is more suitable for living a plain and real life.
After all, what she longs for is to spend ordinary years with Lin Zhiying, not to start a contest of wisdom and power with her mother-in-law.
Chen Ruoyi's tears carry all the grievances, pain and depression she has endured over the years. If the heavens could give her the way to re-election, she would rather never marry this "mom bao man", so as not to suffer such torture.
Marriage should be the happiest thing in life, but after marrying Lin Zhiying, she tasted endless bitterness.