After 6 years, Ren Jiaxuan (Selina) finally ushered in the second spring of "love".
Not long ago, the media photographed that she and a boy wearing glasses went to the supermarket to shop, and the boy took the initiative to carry his bag. While the two were walking, Selina seemed in a good mood.
Just when netizens speculated, Selina generously admitted her new love affair, writing: Spring is warm and blossoming, and my spring is also coming.
As the relationship surfaced, the mysterious identity of the boy was exposed: the other party was 7 years younger than her, in business, and the two were in love.
In fact, since the end of last year, there have been media photos of her dating with her current boyfriend. The boyfriend also often sends Selina on business trips, and the two hold hands generously, and do not shy away from the eyes of others.
After falling in love, Selina's state is visibly getting better.
In her live connection with Ella, the whole plain face was also praised by Ella for being beautiful. Selina jokes that "a woman in love is the most beautiful", and sure enough, sweet love makes people radiant.
Selina has revealed on the love variety show before that she hopes to find a smart and humorous boy who can talk to herself, can accompany her to do what she likes, and hurts her, preferably a vegetarian identity.
The current boyfriend is an outsider, and the work and rest time is similar to her, which is in line with Selina's previous requirements.
Boyfriend gives love and security, Selina is willing to let go of the past a little bit and believe in love again.
After all, the previous burn experience and failed marriage were nothing more than a nightmare for her.
She and her ex-husband Zhang Chengzhong have been in love for 3 years. At its sweetest, the two show their love in a high profile. Zhang Chengzhong proposed marriage at the concert site, and Selina was moved to tears.
And 5 months later, an accident nearly ruined Selina. She and Yu Haoming were filming "I Have a Date with Spring" on the set, and the two were seriously burned due to a mistake by the demolitionist.
Selina's burns ranged from up to 54 percent of her body, reaching grade 3 burns, with her legs being the most severely injured.
Because rehabilitation requires medication and cannot get pregnant within a year or two, Selina mentioned breaking off her marriage contract with Zhang Chengzhong, but he insisted repeatedly.
In 2011, on Selina's 30th birthday, the two had a grand wedding. At the opening eighty-eight tables, the good sisters Hebe, Ella and sister are bridesmaids.
Looking back at the scene at the wedding now, Zhang Chengzhong didn't care much about her.
Details don't lie. When the emcee said that the new person stood up, Selina, who had not yet fully recovered, wanted to hold Zhang Chengzhong and stand up with strength, but he directly threw his wife's arm and stood up by himself.
After marriage, Zhang Chengzhong did not say that he took care of Selina, did not even deal with the feces of her pet dog, and repeatedly revealed his "dislike" for Selina in the show.
Ironically, Zhang Chengzhong specially published a book "God Has Chosen You: 90 Days of Hell for the National Girl Selina", held a new book launch, Zhang Chengzhong once again unveiled Selina's scars in public, won sympathy, and earned a lot of money.
He wrote in the book: "You have suffered, and God has chosen you in particular, because everyone knows you, knows that you are timid, love beauty, love crying, afraid of pain and optimism, and God frightens you and forces you to show bravery." ”
Obviously the closest person, he did not understand Selina's pain. But whenever there was any other choice, she didn't want this bravery either.
In the intimate relationship that was not satisfied in marriage, Zhang Chengzhong "stole love" more than once outside, and even the media filmed the picture of him kissing others.
After 5 years of marriage, Zhang Chengzhong's attitude toward Selina ranged from love and indifference to "disgust" at the beginning. On March 4, 2016, the two announced their divorce, which was not surprising.
Selina's beautiful vision of love disappeared from these 5 years of married life.
At the low point of her life, Zhang Chengzhong did not help her. Selina participated in the marathon, and finally reached the finish line, and when she wanted Zhang Chengzhong's encouragement, the other party only said 4 words: Don't hug me.
The failed marriage became a thorn in Selina's heart, leaving her devastated. Participating in "Daughters in Love", Selina has superficially come out, but when dating Zhang Xuanrui, she is avoiding and denying herself the whole time.
When the two sparked, Selina smiled and said, "You may have a bad brain, so you may like me."
Zhang Xuanrui plucked up the courage to confess to her: Because it is you, I came to this show. Selina advises him not to waste time, that he is not worthy of love.
But time heals a person with a strong heart, and in the process of accepting herself, she also learns to let go.
In addition to love over the years, Hebe and Ella have never abandoned her. After Selina officially announced her relationship, Ella sent her blessings as soon as possible.
In Ella's latest interview, she was asked about Selina's status: "She can fall in love again like a 16-year-old girl, the whole person emits pink bubbles, really precious eh".
Since 2010, after the three-person year announced that they would not disband, they were still good sisters in private. In the 20 years since their debut, they insist on celebrating their birthdays together every year.
At a charity event last year, when Selina was asked if she had sent birthday wishes to Hebe, she blurted out: There is no way to imagine life without Hebe.
Flowing girl group, iron S.H.E. By September of this year, they had been debuting for 21 years. For the post-90s generation, S.H.E is not only a singing girl group, but a spiritual idol.
They have grown from young, innocent girls to confident and resilient women.
The "tomboy" Ella was the most changed of the three, she was the first to become a mother, had a husband who loved her, and had a happy marriage.
Look at Hebe again, his career is thriving, he has held concerts, and he has become a music mentor.
Selina's career has also improved this year, she made a new MV, challenged to star in the horror movie "Head Seven", which will be released next month, which is expected to be expected.
Women who have experienced great winds and waves have long understood that love is not the whole of life. Selina has a colorful life, opens a company, gives interest classes such as floral art, watercolor, golf, etc., and does a lot of things she likes.
Other female celebrities are afraid of aging, but she is very calm, and sees the wrinkles on her face as a kind of pride.
Selina has been pampered since she was a child, ghostly and ghostly, and she always has a sweet and cute smile in front of the camera.
Before the age of 29, his career was smooth, and life was always full of unknowns, falling from heaven to hell in just a few seconds.
When encountering a low point in life, someone is quickly defeated and collapsed. There are also people who are depressed and still can hold on to it and fight against fate.
She once said that she was like a tree, experiencing wild storms, rooting deeper into the soil to absorb nutrients and energy, waiting for the sun.
In the future, it may be better to have someone to accompany her, and it is not bad to continue to walk alone.
The 40-year-old Selina, who is no longer a weak princess, is independent and tenacious, and greets the storms of life with a braver and more confident queen posture. Meet new love because she is always worthy of being loved.