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Xu Jinglei was born in a scholarly family with a strong academic atmosphere and profound cultural heritage, and her father had a rigorous style and academic attitude, and his education could be described as meticulous and in-depth analysis.
Since childhood, Xu Jinglei has been forced to devote a lot of time and energy to long-term learning, including reading, writing and other training, and these hard experiences have undoubtedly laid an indestructible foundation for her to become a "talented girl in Beijing" in the future.
Xu Jinglei, who has been brilliant since childhood, won many honorary awards at a young junior high school stage. She has an inseparable obsession with art, and is determined to constantly pursue her own perfection with her otherworldly appearance and extraordinary intellectual talent.
After being admitted to the Beijing Film Academy as she wished, her artistic path was further expanded and extended, and she gradually showed her ambition and heroism.
During her time at school, Xu Jinglei was like a phoenix nirvana, and the artistic atmosphere exuded from her body became stronger and stronger. She has a wide range of fields, including literature, painting, and calligraphy, each of which is meticulous and original.
In her spare time, she often sits there alone, engrossed in her creations, sometimes indulging in the sea of words, sometimes splashing ink, and depicting the inner art world.
This unique temperament soon attracted the attention of Mr. Wang Shuo, a giant in the cultural circle of Beijing at that time. Mr. Wang Shuo deeply admired Xu Jinglei's fresh and natural bookish atmosphere, so he specially tailored two film and television masterpieces full of literary and artistic atmosphere "You at the Same Table" and "The Story of Wind and Snow".
With the full support of Mr. Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei became famous in one fell swoop and quickly emerged in the film and television industry. Her outstanding talent and superb acting skills made her quickly rank among Zhou Xun, Zhang Ziyi and others in the same period, and became a high-profile film and television star.
What's even more amazing is that Xu Jinglei not only occupies an important position in the film and television industry, but her literary and artistic talent also shines, she practices calligraphy diligently and unremittingly, and has won the championship in various calligraphy and painting competitions many times.
Her calligraphy works have been highly praised by many famous calligraphers and painters, and even gave birth to the world-renowned "Founder Jinglei Font". Despite being only 19 years old, Xu Jinglei has already shown great confidence and courage.
In this year, she met Wang Shuo, an authority in the literary circle of the capital at that time and a married person, and the two immediately started a sensational relationship.
Facing the wife of the well-known writer Wang Shuo, the young actress Xu Jinglei boldly and bluntly questioned her: "We have come so close, why have you not made a divorce decision for a long time?" This brave and direct statement reveals the unique courage and youthful vitality of her age, and also clearly shows her unique desire for possession of Wang Shuo.
According to people familiar with the matter, the scene at that moment was undoubtedly extremely tragic. Mrs. Wang and Xu Jinglei fought in Wang Shuo's private house, like a vivid realistic version of the drama.
Xu Jinglei's passion for her husband has gone beyond the boundaries of reason, and she completely ignores Mrs. Wang's feelings, she only hopes to stay with the love of her heart.
In the face of the anger of the main room, Xu Jinglei did not retreat, but more firmly defended her position. She resolutely defended her desire for exclusivity over Wang Shuo, even at any cost.
Young people are often prone to enthusiasm and lack thoughtfulness, which is exactly what Xu Jinglei showed back then.
This scene vividly depicts the bold, perceptive, and impulsive side of Xu Jinglei's character. Although she has now transformed into a bright star in the literary world, she still can't hide the demeanor of the fearless young girl who dared to challenge authority.
After the emotional entanglement with Wang Shuo came to an end, Xu Jinglei quickly threw herself into another high-profile love triangle. In this turmoil, in addition to her old love Wang Shuo, there are also two protagonists - popular actor Wang Xuebing and Li Yapeng.
There are various versions of rumors about the details of this relationship. The most bizarre statement is that the three of them have had many fierce quarrels in order to compete for Xu Jinglei's heart, and even turned into physical conflicts.
It is said that at the filming site of a certain TV series, Wang Xuebing and Li Yapeng actually had a big fight, fighting for life and death, and the scene was chaotic.
However, the veracity of these rumors has always been disputed. Xu Jinglei herself did not make any response to this, and the three parties were also secretive about this past.
But it is undeniable that this incident did cause huge social repercussions at that time and became a hot topic for the people of Beijing after dinner.
However, what makes people laugh and cry is that at the end of this fierce dispute, Xu Jinglei did not hesitate to abandon Wang Shuo, and quickly ignited a new love affair with Wang Xuebing! This fiery relationship did not last long after all, and then a sensational farce of "flowery male stars competing for wind and jealousy" was staged on the set.
At that time, an eyewitness told us about the thrilling scene: Wang Xuebing and Li Yapeng fought openly in order to compete for Xu Jinglei's heart, and the two sides went back and forth, fists and feet, almost to the point where they could not stop it, although they were forcibly stopped by the staff in the end, but the grievances between the two did not dissipate.
After this farce, Wang Xuebing quickly withdrew and threw himself into the arms of "Fan Bingbing". The swimsuit photo of the two is still widely circulated on the Internet today. Li Yapeng chose to let go of the past and pursue higher goals, and finally succeeded in establishing a deep relationship with Faye Wong and achieving another leap in life.
However, Xu Jinglei was not discouraged by this. During the directing of the movie "Letter from a Strange Woman", she took a fancy to the hot young actor Huang Jue, and carefully planned a scene full of temptation.
As expected, Huang Jue soon fell under the charm of Xu Jinglei, and the two were even photographed by the media wearing a couple ring to travel overseas.
After a short relationship with Huang Jue ended, Xu Jinglei finally found the soul mate who could accompany her for the rest of her life - Huang Lixing. The process of the two meeting and falling in love is picturesque and enviable.
At first, Xu Jinglei fell in love with Huang Lixing at first sight, when they were filming the movie "Du Lala's Promotion" together, and often sparked on the set, Huang Lixing's outstanding talent and calm personality deeply attracted Xu Jinglei, making her have a strong interest in this young man, and with the deepening of cooperation, the relationship between the two deepened day by day, and soon after, Xu Jinglei bravely publicly admitted her relationship with Huang Lixing on social platforms, and affectionately praised him as her "true destiny" This decision undoubtedly requires great courage and determination, because Xu Jinglei has always been a "talented woman in Beijing" in people's minds, and every word and action will attract widespread attention.
However, it was this incomparably firm courage that made Xu Jinglei find this sweet love that lasted for 14 years. With the passage of time, Huang Lixing won Xu Jinglei's extreme trust with practical actions and obtained her wholehearted entrustment.
He gives Xu Jinglei an unparalleled sense of security and a wide range of freedom, no matter what she thinks or decides, he always supports her with all his strength and never interferes too much.
It is this respectful, tolerant and loving way of getting along that has allowed the lovers to go hand in hand and go through the long years together. While Xu Jinglei enjoyed the freedom of life to the fullest, she also found Huang Lixing, a trustworthy confidant.
In the bits and pieces of daily life, Huang Lixing showed his thoughtfulness and meticulous care for Xu Jinglei. He has never been addicted to tobacco and alcohol, but whenever Xu Jinglei longs for a good wine, he always takes the initiative to avoid it, so that she can share a happy time with three or five friends.
When Xu Jinglei devotes herself to artistic creation, Huang Lixing will silently guard her and give her the deepest respect and support.
This magnanimity and incomparable trust made the relationship between them deeper and deeper. Although the relationship has lasted for 14 years, Xu Jinglei has never taken the initiative to bring up the topic of marriage, but Huang Lixing has never asked her for any form of "status", and has always understood and supported her lifestyle.
As a talented "talented woman in Beijing", Xu Jinglei has unique and advanced insights and practices on life and marriage. She once frankly said in a variety show that she plans to undergo "egg freezing" surgery, and may choose to reproduce offspring through surrogacy in the future.
As soon as this remark came out, it immediately aroused heated discussions and controversies in all walks of life.
Regarding marriage, Xu Jinglei also has a very open and forward-looking attitude. Although her long-distance love with Huang Lixing has spanned 14 years, and the relationship between the two has long been widely recognized by all walks of life, Xu Jinglei has never taken the initiative to mention marriage.
This "talented woman in Beijing" has always firmly believed that marriage will only become a kind of bondage and shackle for a freedom-loving person like her.
Because of this, Huang Lixing has never asked Xu Jinglei for any form of "status". He interpreted his understanding and support for Xu Jinglei's lifestyle with practical actions, quietly waiting by her side, giving her the tolerance and freedom she needed.
After the baptism of wind and rain in the journey of life, Xu Jinglei still adheres to that maverick attitude to life. Although she has gradually faded out of the impetuous focus of the entertainment industry, she has not been stumped by the distractions of the world and has lived an unrestrained and free life.
For most of her life, she spent most of her life silently, immersed in a corner of her studio, devoting herself wholeheartedly to her creation, or leisurely walking along the forest paths, stopping to admire the flowers blooming on the side of the road.
Occasionally, she will laugh at herself, laughing at herself as a "professional tailor and amateur actor", which makes people sigh at her wisdom! .
"I never fantasized about being a superstar. Today's harvest has already exceeded the expectations set at the beginning. How shallow and ignorant is to put too much emphasis on fame?" Xu Jinglei confided so frankly.
In fact, she bravely challenged conventional wisdom and showed her own unique outlook on life, and this spontaneous lifestyle is undoubtedly truly wise and foolish.
Looking back on Xu Jinglei's life history, she has experienced countless glories and setbacks, which are enough to be recorded in the long river of history. From the young girl who was full of energy at the age of 19 and dared to challenge Wang Shuo's original match, to the "love master" who caused a sensation later; From the glory of being known as the "talented girl in the capital", to finally choosing to retire and live a low-key life.
All these ups and downs all show her unique personality charm as a "talented woman in Beijing". She dares to express emotions and has the courage to pursue herself; She opposes worldly bondage and pursues freedom; She is talented and has an endless love for art.
It is this unique temperament that makes Xu Jinglei attract much attention and praise in the cultural circles of Beijing.
From ordinary origins to brilliant blooms, from the fanaticism of youth to the peak of admiration, Xu Jinglei's life has experienced countless changes, but she has always adhered to the purest ideals and beliefs in her heart, and has written a legendary chapter carrying dreams and courage.
Her extraordinary life will surely bring endless thoughts and inspiration to future generations.