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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
Have you ever wondered what kind of life journey this once popular female star has experienced?
Does her story inspire and inspire us ordinary people?
Xu Jinglei, a girl from an ordinary working family, eventually became one of the most popular actresses at the time with her talent and hard work.
But her life path has not been smooth sailing, and while her career has taken off, she has also experienced many twists and turns.
Let's walk into Xu Jinglei's life together, feel her joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and explore her inner changes.
Childhood: A well-behaved girl under a strict upbringing
Xu Jinglei was born in an ordinary working family in the 70s of the last century.
Her parents were ordinary workers and did not live well-off, but they were very strict with their daughter's education.
Since she was a child, Xu Jinglei has been required to be well-behaved and obedient, and not to act willfully.
Her parents would often harshly criticize her for any small mistakes and ask her to maintain good academic performance at all times.
In such an educational environment, Xu Jinglei gradually developed a humble and polite character.
Although her life is not rich, Xu Jinglei's parents have never given up on educating her.
They hope that their daughter can get a better future through her own efforts.
As a result, they often accompany Xu Jinglei to do her homework after work, and encourage her to study hard and strive to be admitted to a good university.
Under the influence of such education, Xu Jinglei gradually showed her versatility.
Not only did she excel in her studies, but she also had an excellent talent in music, painting, etc.
Seeing these talents of their daughter, the parents strengthened their determination to let Xu Jinglei receive a better education.
High school years: versatile acting talent
In high school, Xu Jinglei's talent was fully displayed.
She not only maintained excellent grades in her studies, but also frequently appeared in various literary and artistic activities in the school, showing her outstanding acting talent.
Xu Jinglei is good at all forms of performance, whether it is recitation, singing or dancing, she can complete it with ease.
Her classmates were amazed by her talent and called her "the star of the campus."
In such an environment, Xu Jinglei gradually developed a confident and generous character.
Instead of being as humble and polite as she was as a child, she began to dare to express her thoughts and opinions.
At the same time, she also began to think more about and plan for her future.
In the end, among the many choices, Xu Jinglei decided to enter the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy and started her acting career.
This decision is undoubtedly an important turning point in her life, and it also marks that she is about to enter a new stage of her life.
Wang Shuo period: A female star whose career took off
After entering the Beijing Film Academy, Xu Jinglei's acting talent has been further developed and exercised.
She excelled in her studies and frequently appeared in various performances inside and outside the school, gradually accumulating a certain popularity.
It was at this time that Xu Jinglei met Wang Shuo, a famous writer at the time.
The two hit it off at first sight and soon fell into a passionate relationship.
Under the guidance of Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei's career began to flourish, she has starred in many film and television works, and has won wide acclaim for her excellent acting skills.
This period can be said to be the most glorious moment in Xu Jinglei's life.
Not only has her career developed by leaps and bounds, but she has also achieved unprecedented happiness in her love life.
Her relationship with Wang Shuo also became a major topic in the entertainment industry at that time, attracting widespread attention and discussion.
However, the romance didn't last long.
Due to the big difference in the lifestyles and values of the two parties, the two eventually chose to part ways.
Xu Jinglei took the initiative to break up this relationship and began to face her life independently.
This was undoubtedly a difficult decision, but Xu Jinglei finally chose to bravely walk out of the haze of this relationship.
She began to re-examine her life and began to make new plans and choices for her future.
The Independence Period: Difficult Self-Exploration
After breaking up with Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei began a difficult journey of self-exploration.
Instead of relying on others as she used to, she began to think and make decisions independently.
Xu Jinglei in this period can be said to be full of struggle and confusion in her heart.
On the one hand, she needs to face the development of her career, and on the other hand, she also needs to find her life direction again.
This kind of pressure and anxiety made her heart full of uncertainty and vacillation.
In order to find her own direction in life, Xu Jinglei began to experiment with various lifestyles.
She has had romantic relationships with Huang Jue, Huang Lixing and others, but these relationships ended in failure.
She also tried to devote herself to public welfare, but in the end she chose to continue to focus on her acting career.
In this difficult process of exploration, Xu Jinglei's heart has experienced some turmoil.
She began to reflect on her past and tried to find a more independent and autonomous way of life.
This kind of exploration and reflection has undoubtedly made her heart richer and more mature.
In the end, after experiencing these struggles and confusion, Xu Jinglei found her own direction in life.
She began to focus more on her career development and tried to approach life in a more independent and autonomous way.
This transformation has undoubtedly made her heart more resilient and calm.
Current life: Xu Jinglei facing positively
Today's Xu Jinglei has stepped out of the haze of the past and began to actively face her current life.
Instead of being bound by her past experiences as she used to, she began to look at her life with a more tolerant and rational attitude.
In terms of career, Xu Jinglei still maintains excellent acting strength, and appears in film and television works from time to time.
She also began to try to participate in more public welfare activities, hoping to give back to the society in her own way.
At the same time, she began to focus on her personal life and strive to find a more balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.
In terms of inner world, Xu Jinglei has also become more calm and confident.
Instead of being haunted by past experiences as she used to, she began to look at her life with a more tolerant and rational attitude.
epilogue
She also began to try to reflect on and summarize her own experience, and tried to find some inspiration and gains from it.
In general, today's Xu Jinglei has stepped out of the haze of the past and began to actively face her current life.
Not only has she maintained an excellent performance in her career, but she has also become more calm and confident in her inner world.
This transformation has undoubtedly made her life more colorful, and has also made her a model of women worthy of our learning and reference.