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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
In a hundred years of life, among all living beings, how many people have given tolerance and forgiveness?
Does this open-mindedness and tolerance stem from true love, or is it persistence in vanity and materialism?
When bursts of fragrant fragrance waft around you, can you turn a blind eye and walk hand in hand with your lover through the end of the world?
A century ago, in this hot land, a legendary marriage story was quietly unfolded.
Ye Tong, who was once a dazzling golden actress in the film industry, wrote an extraordinary story with her unique understanding and persistence in marriage.
A simple girl meets a wealthy son
Back in 1980, 17-year-old Ye Tong was a high school girl from a poor family, and in order to supplement her family, she often worked as a part-time model.
By chance, Ye Tong learned from a friend that a nearby advertising agency was recruiting models, and she went to apply with the mentality of giving it a try.
The scene was crowded with people, all of them were beautiful girls dressed up in fashion, only Ye Tong came casually wearing a pair of jeans and a T-shirt.
Looking at those competitors with outstanding temperament, Ye Tong thought that he should be out of play today, but when he was about to leave, he was keenly noticed by a man.
The man was none other than Chan Kwok-hei, an assistant producer at an advertising agency.
Among the people with exaggerated cosmetics taste, Chen Guoxi was attracted by Ye Tong's unpretentious temperament.
Through the crowd, he carefully looked at this pure and elegant girl, and finally selected her to be the model for this advertising shoot.
Chen Guoxi was born in a wealthy family, but there are some differences with people's impression of "rich sons".
He is low-key and casual, and what is even more commendable is that he has a pair of fiery eyes and can identify talents in the vast sea of people.
Rich sons favor simple girls
In this way, Ye Tong was photographed by Chen Guoxi and started his acting career.
In the following time together, Chen Guoxi appeared in Ye Tong's field of vision more frequently.
The two went from being strangers at the beginning to getting acquainted with each other, and their feelings soon sparked.
Not only that, Chen Guoxi also took special care of the young and ignorant Ye Tong, and even tried his best to help her with some small problems during the shooting.
In the end, Ye Tong was impressed by the kindness and thoughtfulness of this rich son who was 9 years older.
In 1982, Ye Tong participated in the filming of the first film "Youth on Fire", and she was nominated for the Best Newcomer Award at the Hong Kong Film Awards, which undoubtedly made her highly motivated and gradually fascinated by her acting career.
Career take-off and climb the peak
Two years later, with the full support of Chen Guoxi, Ye Tong starred in a film "Seven Days of Love", which won the Best Actress at the Academy Awards in one fell swoop, opening a new era in his career.
Since then, Ye Tong's acting career has become smoother and smoother, and she has starred in many film and television dramas one after another, and her career is booming.
And the foundation of all this is based on the relationship with Chen Guoxi.
In 1988, after 8 years of love, the two finally tied the knot in the romantic capital of Paris and entered the palace of marriage.
Ye Tong, who has just passed the door, is as beautiful as a flower, and he is very affectionate with the husband of a rich son, and he is often envied.
Whenever the two of them attend various occasions, they always hold hands, which is more than sweet.
Ye Tong also often passed on a shy look to her husband when receiving awards on stage, which made countless people envious.
However, just as this marriage entered the ivory tower and matured and stabilized, a surprising scene began to play out in the dark......
Her husband cheated, Ye Tong was silently tolerant and tolerant
After marriage, Ye Tong's career continued to be popular, and she and her husband Chen Guoxi often traveled from place to place and lived separately.
Slowly, Chen Guoxi's flowery nature began to be exposed, and first the intimate photos with Anita Mui's former agent Wang Minhui were photographed by the paparazzi.
Then, in the corner of a shopping mall, he made out and kissed a woman about 30 years old.
Some netizens suspected that the two also went to see the mansion together, suspected of wanting to live together.
Faced with the scandal of her husband's successive cheating, Ye Tong was surprisingly calm and self-controlled, not only did she not divorce in anger,
On the contrary, he has always been considerate to excuse her husband: "It's all the peach blossoms' fault! I won't throw away that marriage easily." "
even staged a show of affection between husband and wife outside, and Chen Guoxi's behavior was reversed.
Couples are estranged and do whatever they want, and each is happy
In fact, the husband and wife have long since drifted apart.
Ye Tong is often alone when he is at home, while Chen Guoxi is often idle outside, dating and watching movies with all kinds of beauties.
Once, he even sneakily led a middle-aged woman in her 40s into a movie theater box to watch a movie, and then it became even more intimate and hot.
Although Ye Tong did not directly witness the scene of her husband's cheating, the photo evidence was irrefutably placed in front of her.
Anyone who encounters this situation will choose to divorce, but Ye Tong is calm, she thinks:
"If the other person is willing to lie to you, that is, he is still nervous about you, then it is worth continuing to operate. "
Yes, Ye Tong was not ignorant, but deliberately ignored her husband's cheating behavior.
She still seems to have a glimmer of hope for a return to the heat of her marriage.
So, whenever she was upset, she would invite her friend Lin Li to go out for a drink and relax.
In this way, the husband and wife drifted apart, each doing whatever he wanted, and was happy.
Idol plot The reason why insiders envy it
Ye Tong's situation and her decision to choose tolerance undoubtedly surprised many people.
However, insiders may be able to get some clues.
In fact, when Ye Tong was young, he was favored by countless fans and idol stars.
For example, Leslie Cheung once commented on Ye Tong as "I love Ye Tong the most".
Back then, Ye Tong had a bright future and unlimited scenery, and was known as "the peak of his debut".
She has outstanding personal charm, is known for her gentle atmosphere, and has solid acting skills, which can be described as a collection of thousands of favors.
That's why some people say that if you are extremely pampered, you must be convinced.
Perhaps, Ye Tong was influenced by this idol complex to make such seemingly contradictory judgments and behaviors.
In fact, Zhao Yazhi has long spoken highly of Ye Tong's behavior: "A woman's nature is really great, and she can sacrifice a lot of things for her family." "
The hand of the son, where is the grass green at the end of the world
Time flies, time passes.
Ye Tong, who is now 60 years old, is still happy and optimistic despite the ups and downs of the world.
At the beginning of 2023, she appeared in the stage play "Dead Man's Mobile Phone" with a new look as a producer, which won unanimous praise in the circle.
Subsequently, she frequently posted her latest life status on social platforms, and devoted herself to her new work with full enthusiasm.
In the latest photo, Ye Tong, who is wearing a black dress, is full of happiness between his eyebrows.
Compared with the immature and youthful appearance when she was young, she now looks more calm and introverted, wise and calm.
It is conceivable that after so many ups and downs, Ye Tong's perception of marriage must be the same as when he was young.
Marriage is just a stage of life, and the key is to have the company of each other, children and daughters, and mutual support.
Ye Tong may have this idea in mind, so he chose to stick to it and be tolerant.
If you are not careful, you will get old, but your marriage will still be evergreen.
Not abandoning is not the same as letting things go, but defending the dignity of love in a special way.
Now, she and Chen Guoxi have gone through half a century of ups and downs hand in hand.
Thankfully, despite the many thorns and bumps along the way, they eventually stayed together until the end.
This hand of the son and the feelings of the end of the world at this time are really moving.
In this way, Ye Tong's life went from ordinary to dazzling, and finally returned to ordinary as usual.
But her life has been full of vicissitudes, but she has written a legend and a good story.
There is an extraordinary marriage legend in this world because of her, which teaches people what true tolerance and tolerance are.
epilogue
What kind of indomitable courage and open-mindedness do you need to write a marriage legend?
What kind of pure and flawless character and wise wisdom do you need? Ye Tong made a powerful interpretation with his own life.
Perhaps, tolerance is not a simple identification of right and wrong, but a kind of persistence and tolerance for each other.
Because marriage is not only an ambiguous love, but also a commitment that needs to be guarded and passed on with a lifetime of painstaking efforts.
One person is walking on thin ice, but two people can support each other and walk through life hand in hand.
There is no greatness, there is only mutual affection, there is no brilliance, only the ordinary world.
Let's bless Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi, and wish them to be with them for the rest of the year and walk hand in hand through the end of the world.