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About the author: Yang Humie, born in 1998, was influenced by her grandmother when she was a child and liked to read the Red Chamber, and many articles were published on the Internet.
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Xing Xianyan was born with a bad hand. Her family was poor, her parents were "drunk people", and her aunt Lady Xing's attitude towards her was snubby and perfunctory.
Xing Xianyan was able to turn the tables against the wind and get a fairly good ending, completely relying on himself to keep walking and repairing. Whether it is a person or an essay, she has the understanding of being self-taught.
Some people say that Xing Xiuyan's ability to grow an orchid-like character in an unbearable family environment is mainly due to Miao Yu. I don't agree with this view. There are too few people who can enter the Eye of Myo Jade. If Xiuyan hadn't accumulated a steady psychological strength by herself, Miaoyu wouldn't have taught her to read from the beginning; she had a natural wisdom root, which made Miaoyu willing to intersect with it.
Xing Xiuyan's self-esteem level developed well, and there was no trace of inferiority in her. Most of the people who worship high and low in Jia Fu are low in self-esteem, and there is no independent and complete self-esteem system in their hearts, either they do not bother to prove themselves or they do not disobey their hearts to please others.
Xing Xiuyan is poor, preferring to pawn clothes to maintain his own expenses, saving the next month to subsidize his parents, and never complaining to anyone, not begging or asking.
Forty-nine times in the "Glass World White Snow and Red Plum", the rich ladies in Jia Mansion are all dressed in gold, jade, beads surrounded by greenery, and poor Miss Xing Xiuyan:
It is still a home-made old dress, and there is no snow cover.
It is reasonable to say that poor women in the circle of wealth and nobility, in such an "embarrassing" situation, will inevitably have all kinds of bitterness or resentment in their hearts, or feel disgraced and withdraw from the world that did not belong to them.
But Xing Xianyan did not have inferiority, nor did he have a posture of arrogance and pride, but still talked and laughed with everyone, and watched the scenery and composed poetry.
She would not imitate master Miaoyu's approach, confined to her own small room, waiting for others to take the initiative to visit; gao leng was actually defensive, and friendliness was attack. In fact, Xiuyan's heart was far clearer and healthier than Miaoyu's.
Xiuyan's family was slightly cold, and he came to Beijing with his parents to join his aunt Lady Xing. Lady Xing's identity is awkward, coupled with her own ignorance and ignorance, and she is not respected. Also a guest of the Jia family, Xue Baoqin was surrounded by people in front of him, and Xiu Yan was like a transparent glass man.
Wang Xifeng calculated to arrange xiuyan to live with Yingchun in Zilingzhou. Yingchun has always been weak, and the mother-in-law and servants in the room are all arrogant and unreasonable, and the slaves are big bullies. Yingchun couldn't even take care of himself, and he didn't have time to take care of Xing Xiuyan.
At first, Xing Xiuyan was treated coldly, and even suspected of being a thief; this reminds me of the "Golden Powder Family", Leng Qingqiu returned to her mother's house due to an emergency, and was mistaken by the Jin family to go back to discuss how to divide the property with the mother's family; Ping'er's shrimp whisker bracelet was lost, and everyone also turned their suspicious eyes to Xing Xiuyan, who was from a humble origin.
Poverty is the original sin, and snobbery is an instinct of human nature. It is said that all beings are equal, how many people have really done it?
As soon as bad things come out, prejudice arises; "first respect the robes and then respect the people", and the poor are often looked down upon. Poverty brings people low self-esteem, which may accompany them throughout their lives. To be humble, it is necessary to have inner strength and independence that most people do not possess.
Xing Xianyan really can afford the evaluation of "the first-class person in the book", she is self-sufficient, keeping poverty in the rich world, and living a fully abundant and blooming self.
Sister Feng's mouth was poisonous and her eyes were poisonous, and after some observation, she learned:
Xing Xiuyan was a man, not like Lady Xing and his parents, but a gentle and painful person.
Tanchun gave Xiuyan a jade pendant, and she put it on without saying anything. Xue Baochao admonished her not to make up extravagantly. Instead of getting angry or arguing, Xiuyan laughed and said:
"My sister said so, and I went back to pick it up."
People who live without entanglement and have strength in their hearts will not show the kind of appearance that cannot be stretched outward. Her heart was clear, Tanchun kindly gave her a jade pendant, she would not twist and squeeze to refuse, just wear it; Bao Chao warned her to be cautious, then take it off.
She is poor but not sour and has a good attitude. As the days went on, Baoyu, Daiyu, and even sister Feng, who was not very kind, all had blue eyes on them.
Qingren Tu Ying called her "Learning and Nurturing" in "Dream of the Red Chamber on Zan Xing XiuYan Zan", and what she wrote "seems to be an ordinary color, thick and light by his ice and snow" is even more unique.
People who have not yet awakened are trying to grasp foreign objects and try to prove themselves through external objects. Externalism can never attain true perfection, and only inner energy can promote the perfection of the individual.
Xiuyan is spiritually rich and awakens early. Poor but confident, she will not be like many cold children, shackled by her fragile self-esteem.
In front of the rich and noble lady, she will not be indignant and jealous of anyone, nor will she show the embarrassment of being helpless and cowering, nor will she be ashamed and self-absorbed from the outside world; she will act properly and never shy away from her origins. After everyone touched Xiuyan, they all saw that this was a gentle and detached, elegant and idyllic cloth girl.
Aunt Xue admired Xiuyan and eventually pointed her out to Xue Tao. Life is like a dream, and the Red Chamber is like blood. The Grand View Garden was scattered, and Xing Xiuyan became the best woman to go to and do. Bad cards are played well, all because she faces the unfairness and turmoil in life with a light state of mind.
The truly optimistic person is the truly profound person; the outside world is the manifestation of the mind.
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