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When the circle of friends first arose, many people were happy to share their lives and moods tirelessly, feeling that the distance between them and their friends was closer, and it was more conducive to showing their own style, but later, there were more and more WeChat friends, and people's hearts became more and more complex, and gradually they did not dare to send it.
They actually love life, but they dare not show it to others, for fear that some people will over-interpret or have ulterior motives and add trouble to themselves in vain.
If a person gradually does not like to send a circle of friends, do you know what this means?
From a certain point of view, people who don't like to send a circle of friends usually have two psychological characteristics. Either way, it shows that he is a man with increasingly mature ideas.
One: It means that many things have been seen through, the good and bad of life, and I don't want others to know
I like a sentence that Zhang Xiaoxian said: The so-called decency means that some things do not have to be said, and some things do not have to be done.
Born as a human being, it is always necessary to experience a lot of difficulties, sadness, disappointment, frustration and other emotions, and it is always difficult to restrain the sadness of the heart when you are young. Even if no friend is willing to listen, he will spit out his bitter water in the circle of friends.
However, as you get older, you will slowly understand the troubles of life, and you don't have to let everyone know, because there is no empathy in this world.
Don't bother a person who doesn't like to send a circle of friends, they are already maturing and will not take out their hearts to anyone. Women, in particular, when they see the truth of life, they will no longer have unrealistic expectations for feelings.
The more excellent a woman is, the more she knows how to ask for it inward, even if she is sad, she will carry it herself, and she will not easily open her wounds and vulnerabilities with others.
They do not feel that they cannot be loved and cared for, but they understand that life is their own, and only by knowing how to give rationally and leave love to those who are truly worthy can they experience beauty and happiness.
In life, there are many helpless emotions that can only be digested by themselves. Your fears, losses, others may see and give a little sympathy, but it will not help you share, nor can it save your destiny.
The way to send a circle of friends is only a short relief of inner dissatisfaction, and it cannot make you happy again.
In the feelings, advise you not to easily disturb a woman who does not like to send a circle of friends, if you really moved your heart, please take it seriously, otherwise no matter what you do, it is difficult to move the other party.
They will no longer love desperately, but will only open their hearts to those who treat them sincerely.
Two: It means that the mind has become mature, and whether the life is good or not lies in the heart, not in the circle of friends
A person who is really happy often rarely sends a circle of friends, and they will spend more time on visible things.
Some people's circle of friends seems to be living a good life every day, often traveling, or getting together with friends, etc., but in fact, life is very bad, and all the good is just a disguise.
And those who don't post WeChat dynamics know how to spend their precious energy on meaningful people and things.
If you have a lover by your side, someone who understands you to talk about your pain, and someone who can bring you positive energy, then you no longer need to seek comfort in the circle of friends.
Truly happy days are not in the circle of friends, but your own personal feelings.
Don't underestimate the quiet people in the circle of friends, they are not having a bad life, they choose to disappear, but are too immersed in the current life.
Mr. Yang Dai said: "We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, and in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. ”
Don't bother a person who doesn't like to send a circle of friends, maybe you are curious and want to inquire to see if the other party is doing well. But no matter how you ask, it's hard to get the answer you want.
Life is originally your own, and has nothing to do with others, you think that posting daily things in the circle of friends is a good performance, but others do not feel so, what you have to do is not to spy, but to respect.
Some people's values are different from yours, and they will think that a happy life is not in the circle of friends, but whether they can live well in the present moment according to their own wishes, such a state is free and meaningful.
Instead of declaring on social media that you are doing well, you should take your life seriously and make everyone envious of a sense of accomplishment in actual life.
Truly mature people have long understood that life is always their own, do not need to care too much about the feelings of others, and do not have to prove their value by sending a circle of friends.
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