As the children get bigger and bigger, they need less and less time for us, the two of them play more and more time, the previous good habits, such as reading books before going to bed, bedtime stories, slowly disappeared, the two of them are most looking forward to after taking a bath is to play pillow slides on the bed, the two people play happily, the person who reads, began to brush the mobile phone on the sofa, the storyteller, every time dragged until the last moment will return to the room, turn off the lights and sleep.
"Habit" is like practicing the piano, sometimes it needs to be forced, although the children want to play with the pillow themselves, but if they are forced to read the book, it is not impossible, but the child has more ideas, such as he does not like to read while reading and recognizing words, but the reader requires him with a strict attitude, he must first read the first line himself, he will read the next. Children don't like to be oppressed, they don't like harsh attitudes, they don't like to learn words. So they will choose to give up, as long as the readers do not force it, they are happy to play freely.
After years of getting along, the children know that their mother does not like to play with cars, so they do not find their mothers to play with cars, although they know that their fathers like to play with cars, but they still will not look for their fathers, because their fathers do not treat them as children, either they rob things or are harsh criticism, they prefer each other's company. Over time, I liked it, and without the company of my parents, I got used to it and even happier.
Every time I look at the toys they are playing with and listen to the stories told by the Lynx elves, I will want them to upgrade to a higher level, but every time I feel that this cannot last, doing it is equal to doing it in vain, and finally counting. Children are grown up, but still children, we should not stop discipline of them, but discipline does not mean harsh and broken thoughts, should always find a suitable way to get along with them, discipline can be carried out in daily laughter, can make them happy we are happy at the same time. What should I do? Did someone give a trick?