Many parents believe that when the school is closed, the children do not have to study, and everyone is open to play. But parents with a heart often make good use of this precious time to interact effectively with their children in life and help their children progress faster.
Family Camp Cases:
Today is New Year's Day, I slept until very late to get up, I looked at Zeze and said: "Good morning, baby", Zeze took the initiative to respond to me: "Good morning, Mom", we happily changed clothes together, I went to the kitchen to make breakfast, Zeze played with his favorite engineering vehicle in the living room.
On New Year's Day, the kindergarten was closed, and I took Zeze to my grandmother's house to play, and along the way we sang children's songs and read poems, and the last word of each sentence Zeze could be picked up. When I got to my grandmother's house, I crouched down, put it in his ear, and told him to say hello to these relatives, and Zeze would follow me to say hello. Later, when he was asked to play with the children and play with them, Zeze began to grab other people's toys.
After coming home in the evening, I was ready to wash and sleep for Zeze, I said: "Zeze, help your mother turn on the lights" Twice before, Zeze quickly moved a small stool over, stood on the stool and pressed the switch, he pressed the switch hard, tried twice and succeeded, I said: "Wow, baby, it's so powerful!" Zeze was very happy.
Contest Dad said:
1, Zeze was reluctant to open his mouth before, and now he can say "good morning" to his mother, which is a very big progress for the child, the mother gives the child encouragement in time, strengthens the child's behavior, and the mother here does a very good job.
2. When mom and Zeze sang nursery rhymes and ancient poems on the way to Grandma's house, Mom deliberately left the last word not to sing, and Zeze could also smoothly take the last word, and the progress was very great! We can also borrow this method when we give our children language training, starting with simple words that the child can accept, so that he can slowly master more vocabulary. In the future, you can play and interact with your child more often.
3. When the mother and the child introduce relatives, crouch down, stick to the child's ear, and put themselves and the child at the same height, which is not only a respect for the child, but also a relief for the child's pressure in an unfamiliar environment.
4, when the lights are turned on and off, the mother does not interfere too much with the child because she is worried that the child will fall down when standing on the stool, but lets the child try it herself, giving the child more opportunities to exercise, and the mother praises it in time and in place!
We recommend:
1. Guide children to socialize correctly
When encountering children grabbing other toys, it is best for mothers to guide them in time so that children know that they cannot grab toys casually. The mother can tell the child: "This is my brother's toy, I know you want it, but you can't grab it, we can ask the brother", and encourage the child to say: "Brother, can I play with this toy of yours?" "Parents should pay attention to guiding their children to socialize correctly with other children.
2. Prepare some reinforcements
In addition to verbal praise, moms can also prepare some reinforcements as a reward, such as a cheese stick and some small gifts. Every time a child performs well, one can be given as a reward. For example, when Zeze grabs a toy, if he can listen to his mother's guidance and use the correct social skills, his mother can give him a small cheese as a reward.
3. In daily life, exercise children's self-care ability.
Children grow up slowly and cannot always rely on their parents to take care of them. We should not forget to exercise our children's self-care ability in our daily lives. At the beginning, you can help your child wear some simple and easy clothes, such as socks and coats, and slowly transition to letting him wear them himself, and encourage them in time to make children feel that every moment of daily life is happy and happy!