The recent disappearance of a girl, I think everyone has heard about it, how do you feel?
More people will feel creepy and even feel incredible, how much hatred and hatred is a pillow person, how cruel is the means?
Regardless of the cause of the matter, through this incident, it has given women a big wake-up call: choose the good and live, and regret when it is good.
It is said that the missing lady and her current husband are reorganized families, both of them have a not very good past, and there are still many problems in the rebuilt family, which may be the cause of the matter.
As for the truth, it is not something we should pursue, but we should sound the alarm bell for ourselves from it, women must not be relied on casually, nor can they choose casually, when you feel who to live with, you must polish your eyes, see the character clearly, and then make a decision.
Some things, if you can't understand it for the time being, in fact, it doesn't matter, you may as well give time a little time, and the question will be answered.
Choice is much more important than business, when you find that the other party has not been very good signs, especially the problem of character, do not wait, or think again, the more you give yourself a lot of humility, the easier it is to give the other party some indulgence, and the last person to be hurt is only yourself.
I believe that the original intention of each encounter is not to tear and hurt each other, but to run to happiness, but the ups and downs along the way, as well as stumbling, who can say what the ending will be?
A woman who has experienced a failed marriage is not embarrassing, nor does she have to be kidnapped by the world, as long as you look up to yourself, self-respect, self-respect, self-love, live a wonderful and independent life, no one can belittle you, or cheap you, the key to this lies in your self-awareness and positioning.
The most pitiful woman, should be the front foot just divorced, the back foot to find someone to introduce the object, first of all, this way of life, is very wrong, blindly relying on others is also a very risky behavior, many facts tell us that no one is the end of your happiness, only you yourself is the romance of life; secondly, a wrong marriage, absolutely not a person's problem, both sides have responsibility, as a woman should be more responsible for themselves, can not end casually, can not start casually, must be careful to choose.
In the management of marriage, it is inevitable to encounter problems of one kind or another, but the premise is that you have to ensure that your choice is right, not to love other people's economic conditions, not to rely on it casually because of loneliness, and not because you have to ask for people, you should like and be happy from the heart.
After divorce, the best destination for women is never to remarry, but to love themselves.
Giving up the people who have loved with the heart, letting go of the happiness that is seriously maintained, is a kind of bravery, but also a kind of strength, from a certain moment on, women should stand up on their own, rather than relying on anyone, or complaining about whom.
Divorced women, the best destination is not to remarry, but these "three words"
【01】
Stay healthy and alive
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Love yourself, the first task is to live healthily, no matter how the marriage is, how haggard the previous marriage has become, you can't damage your health, even if you are very sad, please take care of your body, as long as the green mountains are there, not afraid of no firewood.
Once you don't even care about your own health, if you want to meet a good marriage in the future, is it still possible? People can't love you well, because you don't love yourself, so how can you expect the love and care of others?
The world is very cruel, through your sloppy appearance, appreciate your beautiful inner people, in fact, there are not many, maybe there are, but it is really too rare, especially after you have experienced a failed marriage, this label will be invisibly labeled, but it does not matter, as long as you can see yourself, no one will hurt you.
Loving yourself is actually living well, living healthily, and giving the future a fresh vitality.
Confident in love
Loving yourself is a kind of confidence and strength.
No matter who you will meet in the future, and you will be obsessed with people, it doesn't matter, as long as you can love confidently, or be admired by people calmly, this is enough, as for the result, you can only follow the fate, do not have to force.
Once you miss the previous marriage, or give up a marriage, once again close to happiness, please be a little more rational, follow the fate, do not force and eager, the more enthusiastic and active you are, the more people think that you are a drag, on the contrary, if you do not care, yourself wonderful, happy, happy every day, but attract the other party's obsession.
Confident love is the charm of you to win cherish and companionship.
As for the future, whether the other party chooses to stay or leave you, you look down, there is no need to be so calculated, since you are wonderful and happy, why do you still care about an accidental companionship?
【03】
Have the courage and confidence to break up at any time
Loving yourself is the foundation of happiness.
People who have too little experience will be reluctant to let go, reluctant to turn around, reluctant to leave, it seems that any kind of separation cannot be done.
A person, the more experience, the stronger it will be, this is not numb and indifferent, but learned to look down on gains and losses and to stay, some feelings, some love, not you force, people will stay, not you humble prayer, people will cherish, so instead of humble retention, it is better to be generously exiled, this is not a Buddhist system, but learned not to argue.
After experiencing a loss, or several losses, people will understand how love is, it is not at all by people's wishes, the more demanding, the more they do not get, the more they follow fate, the more they can embrace happiness.
Don't delay the problem between the two into extremes, many lovers get along to the end, it is not grateful and understand, but the road is narrow, tearing each other apart is the destination, you say terrible no?
With the bravery and confidence to scatter at any time, you can look down on the encounter and dispersion, who comes, who goes, are fate, do not force, do not force, the right people are painful and the beauty of companionship, the wrong people always hurt you endlessly.
Fall in love with yourself, in order to be strong and brave to face the ups and downs and storms in the marriage, to gather your heart on yourself, the heart of harming others, the heart of prevention is indispensable, cherish yourself, be good at waiting, give happiness a little time and space, probably the most complete attitude to life.