10% of life is made up of what happens to you, while the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens. In short, the failure of an event is often not the thing itself, but the emotion that was once out of control. When encountering things, the first thing you think about is not the way things are handled, but the emotions burst out and make yourself angry, which will not only solve the problem, but also push things into a worse situation. The most intelligent way to deal with a thing is to be slow, quiet, and peaceful.
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In the "Aphorisms", it is said: "Slow down the matter and do it urgently, but Min is meritorious." Urgent matters are postponed, busy is more wrong. The meaning of this sentence is that for things that are not in a hurry, we must solve them quickly, because doing things with quick thinking will make you do more with less, and for urgent things, you must calmly solve them, otherwise you will be in chaos and do more wrong.
The ancients said, "The foolish man is full of anger, and the wise man is angry." "Stupid people encounter things, speak with emotions, and tell people, know how to deal with emotions first and then deal with things." If things are slow, they are round, and when they are slow, they are clear. I think of a report about a well-known entrepreneur. Saying that this entrepreneur rarely loses his temper with his subordinates, whenever an employee makes a mistake and causes losses to the company, he will report to him at the first time, and he will always go out and walk first, calm his emotions, and so on, and then let the employees go to the office to talk in detail, he will do this because he wants to digest his bad emotions first, prevent himself from saying angry words, and make things unmanageable. Only when things are slowed down can the heart be pressed and the attention is focused on dealing with problems, so that things can be resolved satisfactorily.
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There is a saying in the "Cai Gen Tan": Quiet in silence is not true stillness, and the situation of movement is the true state of sexual nature. After the mind has calmed down, although it is in the midst of a kaleidoscopic struggle, it will be clear what happened. Like it's okay. The more "great enemies are present", the more we must stop the water. Only by quieting yourself down can your thinking become clearer and you can quickly find a solution. How wide the heart is, how wide the road is. Don't take everything too seriously, the psychological burden will not be so heavy, and people can live easier. Painstakingly doing it, this is a real cultivation, but also a manifestation of concentration. If there is still this ray of light in the predicament, and if you can live your life into a beautiful poem, this kind of life is the peach blossom source under the real silence.
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Ann is also safe with the situation, also at ease with the status quo, and also safe and sound. There is a saying in the "Book of Rites and Universities": "Quiet and then can be safe, safe and then able to worry, worry and then can be obtained." When encountering things, do not panic, understand the essence, in order to make the right decision. When the direction of life is not clear, if you want to improve the height of life, you can't help but read the "Classic Essence of Chinese Sinology" to make your life more abundant.
There is nothing good or bad in the world, and the results are all caused by our own thoughts. Knowing how to be slow, quiet, and peaceful, to calmly deal with the world with a posture different from others, and to deal with problems with rational thoughts is the way to push life to a higher level. If you want to see more content, you can continue to pay attention to the grand view of Traditional Chinese Studies, and you can leave a message and communicate together!