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If you like someone, you will be willing to have a bond from then on.
I always thought that I would be confident and bold to love, but later I found that the more I loved someone, the more cautious I would be.
Before meeting you, he was debauched and loved freedom; until he met you later, he had more consideration for everything.
Feelings are sometimes like this, love to the extreme, will start to become afraid.
I am afraid that I am not good enough to give you a good life; I am afraid that I will say the wrong thing and make you angry; I am afraid that I will not do well and make you feel insecure.
Because he cares too much about your feelings, he is always careful about everything about you, hoping to make you feel this unique preference.
In fact, men have your proof in mind: fear.
01 Afraid that I am not good enough to give you a good life
Someone said:
"Before, I hated material girls, but after meeting you, I began to hate myself who had no money."
Indeed, the man who has you in his heart will be very afraid that he is not good enough, cannot give you the life you want, and is not worthy of all your good.
Maybe when he lived alone before, he had to live and live, and he wouldn't feel anything bitter at all; but since you appeared, he began to plan the future of the two people, harder than ever before, just afraid that you would suffer with him.
They all said: "What men fear most is that at the age of not being able to commit, they will meet girls who want to protect for the rest of their lives." ”
Since meeting you, he has begun to fear that he is not good enough and will lose you, so he is always trying to improve himself, hoping to give you a better life.
02 Afraid of saying the wrong thing and making you angry
I have seen such a sentence on the Internet:
"When I'm arguing, it's not that I don't want to talk, I'm just afraid of saying the wrong thing and making you angry, that's why I don't talk."
Deeply.
In relationships, not every man knows how to coax women. In fact, he very much wants to communicate with you, to be able to do something to make you happy, but he is afraid that if he says the wrong thing, he will make you even more angry.
He has you in his heart, but the words don't meet his expectations.
Feelings are like this, love to the bone is cautious, love to the bottom of the heart is fear. Cautiously, for fear of saying the wrong thing and making you angry; for fear, you will turn away and lose this life.
03 Fear that you are not doing well and making you insecure
I envy a passage:
"As long as my girl is jealous, angry, unhappy, and not used to you, sorry, even the best relationship will be broken, because she is my only one." 」
Indeed, the man who has you in his heart will care very much about your feelings and be afraid that because of his own behavior, you will feel insecure, so he will actively reject other members of the opposite sex for you and keep a good distance.
In his heart, no one is more important than you, you are his first choice, is a preference, is an exception, is irreplaceable and unique.
Because he has you in his heart, he is willing to leave any heterosexual relationship for you, just to give you a sense of security, because he does not want you to lose, so he will give you a unique preference.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"When you fall in love with someone, you're always a little scared, afraid of getting her, afraid of losing her."
Indeed, men who love you are the most timid. He's afraid you're not doing well, so he works hard; he's afraid you're angry, so he concedes defeat when you argue; he's afraid you're insecure, so he rejects all the ambiguity for you.
Because he has you in his heart, he cares very much about your feelings, always thinks about everything for you, and is careful with you.
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