What kind of inspiration can the Gu Ailing phenomenon give to our education?

Gu Ailing's success in the Winter Olympics really makes the Chinese people proud, let the world pay attention, of course, but also let the parents envy, look at this 18-year-old little girl, and then look at their own family's princess, many parents either sigh long and short, or nagging, full of envy of other people's children, but in the current domestic education social background, parents and friends do not want to think about what inspiration Gu Ailing phenomenon can give to our education?

The author is not a parent, but the author likes children, but also often see their relatives and friends for the child's "deep love", the main expression is reflected in the thrifty use of children to find a variety of cram classes, so that children from primary school began to devote themselves to the college entrance examination after 12 years, it can be said that in order to make up lessons, parents are really painstaking, in the context of the country to reduce the burden on children, so that children have a more healthy and happy learning and growth environment, parents spit out fragrant "even make-up classes are not allowed, what can our children do", Therefore, all kinds of make-up classes put on the cloak of art classes, interest classes to continue to make up lessons, the author personally communicated with children and children and big and small children in depth, many children have a very clear understanding of their learning status, they think that the role of make-up classes is minimal, almost no help for their own performance improvement, make-up classes are to understand the parents' painstaking hearts, so even if they are deeply resistant and know that they are useless, they have to accept and be forced to participate. What kind of mentality do children carry because of this? I, for the sake of parents, can even go to make-up classes, if in this case, parents reprimand the child, some children's mentality will collapse immediately, "how do you want me", these are parents and friends are easy to ignore, parents come out early and return late to accompany the reading, but also feel that I have a good learning environment for the child, sacrificed their own life, "how do you not understand my hard heart." Next, we saw a very tangled state of life, the children were tired of the pressure of schoolwork to look up, see the mobile phone will be lifelessly trapped in it, parents lose all the time and energy and money for the child to make up lessons, in exchange for the child's homework performance is mediocre.

There are many people who say that Gu Ailing has good genes, a good family background, and good economic conditions, and the conclusion is that we can't learn! Is this really the case? We can't learn From Gu Ailing in our own home, can't we learn a Gu Ailing-style growth education? It's not hard!

First, get enough sleep

What does Gu Ailing think will benefit the most when she was interviewed? Get enough sleep, 10 hours of sleep a day! What about our children? Especially for middle and high school children, don't say 10 hours, guarantee 8 hours to do it? Where has the time gone? Learn! Why do you use so much time to learn, one is to make up classes, the other is that the efficiency is gone, why the efficiency is gone, the child is very smart, the parents will find make-up classes after the homework is done or the homework will be considered by the parents to be not doing the right thing, where there are still 10 hours of sleep!

What is the concept of 10 hours of sleep? Go to bed at 9 o'clock and get up at 7 o'clock, which seems to be ruined in our parents, but Gu Ailing's growth experience tells us that 10 hours of sleep can make a person have a healthy and excellent foundation in the body, mind and psychology! The foundation is broken, and then crammed education has no meaning, perhaps, our parents should learn to be open-minded, if the children can complete their homework in advance, give the children some of their own time, at least 10 hours of sleep to return to the children!

Second, motivation is not pressure

Gu Ailing was admitted to Stanford University, only 18 years old Gu Ailing can be admitted to one of the best universities in the world, but another educational secret revealed by Gu Ailing when interviewed is that Gu Ailing's mother has never asked Gu Ailing to take Stanford, the child himself disappears and thinks that the father is Harvard, the mother is Stanford, then he should take Harvard or Stanford, but the mother gives him a stress reduction, "Don't think that Dad is Harvard, Mom is Stanford, you must take Harvard or Stanford", hey, Does this speak out of the mouths of our parents? If your own children said that I was inspired to go to Tsinghua Peking University, dear parents, what would you say to your children?

The ideal is the driving force for success, but it should not become the pressure of the child, the Gu Ailing phenomenon teaches us that the child has a beautiful vision is worth encouraging, but definitely do not let the child say the vision to let the child's best vision become the pressure of the period when he should be most happy and happy! The ideal of Harvard or Stanford is beautiful, but the way to make this ideal can be realized is certainly not "you must achieve" and "you have to achieve this way", but "you don't have to achieve it", the goal ideal of the children's growth period is originally engraved with the most beautiful, then parents have to turn the original beautiful things into the pressure of growth, the ideal of beauty becomes gray, will the children still be willing to chase such dreams? It is more important for children to learn life easily and happily!

Third, learn time management

Gu Ailing is a ski world champion, is now an Olympic gold medalist, a young girl, people are envious, but she was admitted to Stanford University, parents and friends, will you allow your own princess to play, how can Gu Ailing have time to learn while playing and can also turn play into his own career, while playing well, people still learn well?

Gu Ailing said again, it is time management that benefits himself, what does it mean? Everyone should think about it, Gu Ailing sleeps 10 hours a day, and there is also a pressure of schoolwork, how does she take care of it? The concept of time management is naturally formed, Gu Ailing said, in order to have time to ski, she has to ride for 4 hours, she will go to the car to complete the homework, and have a full time to ski on the weekend, children will of course work hard to speed up learning for their own interests, improve learning efficiency, and this interest has promoted the improvement of learning efficiency, it is really fun to learn and pay equal attention!

Fourth, excellent relatives role models

Parents are the role models that children have the most contact and learning, as parents of fathers and mothers, you can see how Gu Ailing's mother and grandmother educate and guide children in learning, interest, time management practices, and more is to think, in the family with children present, what are our entertainment projects in our spare time! You look at the mobile phone, the child also feels that they can also, you watch TV, the child also feels that they can also, you play mahjong, the child also feels that they can also; in turn, you read, the child will follow the reading, you go running, the child will also run with you, your guidance is the direction that the child thinks is right, so don't take the rest as an excuse to watch TV, watch mobile phones, and play games when there is nothing to do!

Take the child out for a walk, run, play ball, dabble in some beneficial things, the more positive the parents live, the child will learn to live with positive energy, otherwise, after the child is caught in the game, you want to pull him out of it is too difficult, so, the author observes this matter from the perspective of a bystander, the deepest feeling is that our parents have negative energy and now there are a lot of enterprise institutions that are randomly guided in order to make money is to hurt our children, what is the child, they are a blank piece of paper, A flower that has not had time to bloom, how you define them, how they grow, failed education will have unsuccessful children, as parents, we must first do a good job of ourselves, set a good example for children, this is the power of example!

The above four points, is the author of this has not been fortunate to become a parent of people's feelings, I hope that parents and friends calm, recall and reflect on whether they have the right love for their children in education, wrong love, doting will often make children very tired, and even go in the opposite direction of your expectations, Gu Ailing phenomenon enlightens us to take the correct family education or guidance as a precondition and compulsory course for parenthood!