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Jia Pingwa once said such a thought-provoking sentence: "People can be ignorant, but they cannot be boring." ”
It is a failure to call a person "boring" in Western countries. It can be seen how important fun is to a person.
Think about it, if you live a long life without fun, or live with boring people all the time, how difficult it is to live. The whole day is either a trivial gain or loss, or an insensitive indifference, which is really a big scenery.
The interesting person is the "pistachio" in life, who knows how to find or create fun in life, and he can always bring joy and happiness to the people around him.
Interesting people deserve all the good in this world.
People who talk interestingly are often popular
People who talk interestingly are intelligent, optimistic, humorous, and emotional.
The writer Yu Dafu was more afraid of the inside, and sometimes stuffed the money into the sole of his shoes in order to hide some private money.
Once, he invited a friend to a restaurant to eat, sumptuous and beautiful, and drew money from the soles of his shoes at checkout.
When my friend saw this, he asked in amazement, "How do you hide money in your shoes?" ”
Uddhav pointed to the banknote and said, "This thing used to oppress me, and now I want to oppress it in reverse." ”
Friends laughed when they heard his explanation.
One sentence not only resolved the embarrassment of his hiding money, but also became a classic story.
Lin Yutang is also a person who talks particularly funny. When he was teaching at the university, on the first day of school, he actually brought peanuts with shells to the classroom to distribute to students, and at first the students did not know what they meant and did not dare to eat.
Lin Yutang said, "To eat peanuts, you must eat shells to have strength." Peanut rice is also called long fruit, everyone's first day of class, I invite you to eat long fruit, I wish everyone immortality! In the future, I will not name names in class, but I hope that the students who have eaten my immortal fruit will have a long life and not skip school, then they are very fortunate, and they are lucky to have three lives. ”
The students laughed and listened to the lessons inspired by the teacher's humor.
Another time, Lin Yutang went to attend a speech, and it was nearly noon when he gave the speech, because the person in front of him had spoken for too long, and the audience was drowsy and listless.
He stepped up to the stage and said, "A gentleman's speech should be like a lady's skirt, the shorter the better." ”
The audience laughed and the atmosphere immediately enlivened.
People who talk interestingly tend to have high emotional intelligence and are good at observing and understanding others, and such people are often also liked and loved by the people around them.
People who think interestingly, life is more interesting
Interesting people are people who understand the true meaning of life, and people who know how to enjoy life.
I saw a story on the Internet: a couple after the 80s was tired of staying in a reinforced concrete room and wanted to try another life.
They resigned from Ali, bought a bus, and designed and transformed it into a fully functional, comfortable, warm and convenient motorhome with bookcases, wardrobes, wine cabinets, projections, sofas, beds, bathrooms... Everything is available. After the car was changed, they began to travel the world and live a nomadic life.
They went to Qinghai to see the blue and emerald green sky at the same time, to see the dazzling Milky Way, to see the light purple moonlight; to see the ancient city of Subash in southern Xinjiang, where only desert and broken earth walls were left; to Turpan to see the vast wind and sand; to hemu to see the world of impressionist snow...
Everywhere they go, they can find different beautiful scenery, as well as different beauty, and their mood is also open and peaceful. Their attitude towards life is therefore joyful and grateful.
Of course, they also have to live, they work while traveling, mainly to help others transform their motorhomes. They have the ability to solve problems at any time and can do some carpentry and car repairs.
They like that, it's been a few years now, and they want to live it anymore.
People who think interestingly can always create more beauty in life, and life is more interesting than others.
A lifetime is too long, we must learn to be an interesting person, to be with interesting people, to do interesting things, in order not to live up to the Shaohua of life, in order not to waste this life.
People who do things interestingly, live more easily.
Philosophers say that humor is not a mood, but a way of seeing the world.
The "old naughty boy" Zhou Botong in "The Legend of the Eagle Hero" is a martial artist, but he is a child mentality, crazy and crazy all day, and loves to play pranks. Because of his appearance, the fight and kill the bloody jianghu can always have a little more cheerful comedy.
The modern version of the "old naughty boy" Huang Yongyu is even more than Zhou Botong. He went to study for a driver's license at the age of 50; went to Italy at the age of 70 to study sketching; at the age of 80, he made a cover model for "Fashion Magazine"; at the age of 91, he taught the goddess Lin Qingxia to be a wild child; at the age of 93, he also drove a red Ferrari to drag racing... He turned his 90-year-old life into a post-90s life.
He was even more playful about life and death, and he even wanted to hold his own memorial service before he died to hear how others praised him.
He solemnly consulted with his wife about what to do with the ashes after death: suggest or pour the toilet; divide them into small bags and give them to the guests attending his memorial service to take back to plant flowers; or wrap them into buns for everyone to eat... All kinds of funny thoughts make people cry and laugh, but it can also be seen from his relief and indifference to the fear of death.
People who do things interestingly, because they are more transparent and open-minded in seeing everything, they also live more easily and comfortably.
People who live interesting lives, life is more abundant
Interesting is not only the dexterity of language and the agility of reaction, but also the attitude of life that loves life in the depths of the soul. They can make a mediocre and boring life blossom.
My girlfriend works in the Pearl River Delta, and although the salary is not high, it is better than the work is easy. The family population is also simple, only one daughter is born, a family of three, seemingly ordinary, but more colorful than ours.
She has pots of green plants on her desk, a few smart little fish in the pots, flowers and plants on the balcony of the house, and ivy on the walls of her bedroom.
She has a wide range of hobbies, singing, dancing, painting, cooking... Proficient in everything. What amazes us the most is that she has done a lot of handiwork, shampoo, cream, lipstick, perfume, clothes, all kinds of snacks... All of them are handy, and the quality of the products has been unanimously praised by everyone, so she also has a fixed number of customers.
She says she loves to do fun things that are a pleasure in doing them.
Some people say that living interestingly is the highest state of human nature. In our eyes, she has already lived out to the height of life.
Writer and dramatist Wang Zengqi is also a very interesting person. He enjoys cooking, and in his later years he became more and more fond of cooking himself.
He once said he didn't like to go to department stores and preferred to go to pyrotechnic markets. He likes to buy vegetables himself, and when he buys them, he is excited to pour them out. After cooking, he felt very happy to watch his family enjoy eating the dishes he made.
People who live interesting lives never feel that life is lonely and unbearable, they can always find things they like in the long years, and they can always live ordinary days to the fullest.
People with interesting souls tend to have a good life
As the saying goes, a good-looking skin bag is the same, and an interesting soul is one of the best. Su Dongpo is one of the most interesting soul figures in the world.
His life was not smooth, he was degraded again and again, if he was replaced by others, he would be depressed to death, but he lived a life of wantonness, passing on to ancient and modern times.
This is mainly due to the fact that he is not pessimistic in the face of bad luck, does not remember revenge, has a broad heart, can see through, and understands humor, so he also eats well and sleeps well.
He was a natural optimist, and when he was relegated to Huangzhou, he had no relatives and no one to speak to. But he did not sink into depression, but found a way to find fun. He told ghost stories in the streets and alleys to talk to people, most of the stories were made up by himself, and when he made up the words poor, he would smirk, and everyone laughed, so he became acquainted with everyone.
He is also a veritable foodie, due to economic reasons, although he can't eat the taste of the mountains and the sea, he can always find ways to make ordinary ingredients into an unusual way to eat. For example, the "Dongpo Meat", "Dongpo Elbow", "Dongpo Fish", "Dongpo Cake", which have been handed down to this day and are full of color and flavor...
He also grows his own vegetables, comparing the tender cabbage to lambs. He likes to sing poetry and paint, drink tea and make wine, talk about Zen, like to dream, and believe in constellations.
He said that he could accompany the Jade Emperor on the top and the beggar in the BeitianYuan, and there was no bad person in the world.
Yu Guangzhong also said that if you want to find an ancient person to travel, you should find Su Dongpo, he is a person who can make everything interesting.
The fun soul can make people feel extremely relaxed, warm, and full of positive energy at any time. Interesting souls can withstand the long years and often live well.
An interesting person must be popular, then his life will be better and better, his mood will become more and more comfortable, and the ending will naturally not be too bad.
Interesting, difficult to say, simple and simple, do the following points, it is more or less an interesting person: maintain goodwill towards others, keep optimistic about yourself; full of love for life, full of gratitude for life; good at finding bright spots in the ordinary, good at adjusting your mentality in difficult situations.
May you be a fun person for the rest of your life and enjoy the beauty and happiness of this world.