One day you will find that the only people who don't care about the door are the poor

Text/Zhuang Xiaomeng

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The biggest misconception of women is that rich men never care about women's material conditions.

"He's so rich, how can he care if a woman has money?"

That's the self-righteous logic of a lot of women.

When everyone says this sentence, they may wish to ask again: "He is so rich, why do he have to work hard to make money?" ”

After asking this question, everyone will come to a conclusion: no one in this world will be too rich.

First-line male stars have fame and wealth and careers, why should they choose first-line female stars as wives, why don't they look for 18-line actresses?

Let's talk about the well-known business tycoons, why are their wives all strong women, and there is no full-time wife?

The kings of ancient times were already the most powerful people in the whole world, so why did they still choose the daughter of the powerful vassal as the queen?

With the power of civil and military officials in their hands, why should they rack their brains to consolidate their power through marriage?

After reading these social phenomena, everyone will understand that the rich people are the most concerned about the right door, it does not matter when they are in love, but once it comes to talking about marriage, they will definitely find a partner who matches the conditions.

It is the poor who really don't pay attention to the door, and they don't have too many requirements for their other half, as long as they can live a life.

First, the rich people care about the right door because they are afraid of losing money

Although the ancients often said that suffering losses is a blessing, no one wants to suffer losses every day, or even suffer losses in major events, because this is a matter of a lifetime.

Not to mention who lives to help the poor?

It is human nature to think for oneself, and it is also a matter of course for the rich to be afraid of suffering losses.

If they marry a poor woman, they will suffer in the following two aspects.

01 Loss of material conditions

Do you really think that the rich can't spend their money? To know how dazzling such things as wealth is, how risky it is, some people start at the top of the pyramid and lose everything overnight.

The old man often says that he is poor for no more than three generations, and that he is rich for three generations because wealth itself has a lot of liquidity.

If a family wants to protect its wealth, it must rely on the strength of all people.

In other words, there can't be a single person in the house who eats idle meals.

A rich man marrying a rich woman can achieve the result of a strong alliance, and marrying a poor woman is equivalent to marrying a person who eats idle food.

One specializes in making money, one spends money exclusively, and in the process the rich will always suffer losses.

It wasn't the scariest thing, the scariest thing was that when his career was in crisis and his life was at risk, his wife didn't help him.

The most beautiful relationship between husband and wife is to support each other, not to work hard and enjoy on the other.

In the eyes of the rich, marrying a poor woman is equivalent to raising a parasite, and they will not do such a thing.

02 The loss of the next generation

You must know that marriage is not a matter of one person, but a matter of two families, and even two generations.

If you marry a woman with the right door, the next generation can enjoy double benefits, and if you marry a poor woman, the living standards of the next generation will drop significantly.

As rich people, their vision is naturally more long-term, they will not be limited to the present, but will think for future generations.

In such a situation, they naturally do not choose women whose economic conditions are too far from theirs, after all, this will not be of any benefit to the next generation.

Second, the poor hate the right door because they can't take advantage

The poor don't care about the door to the door, not only that, they also hate the door to the door right in many cases, they always feel that the door to the door is a feudal idea, imprisoning a lot of love.

But why does love have to be based on the wrong door? According to the logic, the prince and the princess are the most suitable pair, aren't they?

It can be seen that love is just a pretense, and there is another reason why the poor hate the door.

They are at the bottom of society, no matter who they marry, they will not suffer losses, but once they can climb the high branches, they can change their fate through marriage.

But if people with good conditions pay attention to the right door, then their ideas will be disappointed, and it is natural to be unwilling in such a situation.

The reason why they hate the door is not out of hatred for feudal ideas, but from the shame and anger after they can't take advantage.

Third, in the face of marriage, everyone is an egoist

In fact, in the face of marriage, each of us is a refined egoist, because marriage is a major event in life, and everyone hopes to find the best other half, so that we can spend the second half of our lives safely and steadily.

Therefore, when everyone talks about marriage, the first thing they consider must be their own interests and the influence of this matter on themselves in the future.

The rich pursue the combination of the strong and the strong, and the poor pursue one step to the heavens.

The rich hope to find the other half of the door-to-door pair, so that the result can be achieved 1+1>2.

Their wealth can be defended, and their abilities can be combined with two swords, so that their family will become more and more prosperous.

Poor people know that it is difficult to change their fate by relying on themselves, so they always want to ascend to heaven through marriage.

So there is a phenomenon that the poor do not care about the door to the door, and the rich care very much about the door to the door.

Because the rich think differently from the poor, the poor's desire to change their fate through marriage often fails.

Based on this, everyone should understand the simplest truth, a person wants to change his fate, do not hope for others but through his own efforts to achieve.

There is no such thing as a free lunch in this world, and you can fight for whatever you want, but the premise is to use practical actions, not sit back and enjoy it.

No one is here to save you, and the only one who can really save you is yourself.