Many people asked: "Can you still be friends after divorce", Shen Junyi and Zhan Yanni said with practical actions.
Speaking of Shen Junyi, he is a respectable old drama bone, who has become famous for "Wulong Mountain Bandits" and has always appeared in front of the public as a tough guy.
However, his feelings are reprehensible, abandoning his ex-wife, living with Jani for 8 years, and now he is alone and lonely.
And Zhan Yanni is Shen Junyi's ex-wife, she was divorced after giving birth to a daughter, seeing her ex-husband living with Jiani for 8 years but having a bumpy road, supporting her daughter to forgive her father who neglected her duties, much happier than her ex-husband.
[Zhan Yanni was abandoned by Shen Junyi after giving birth to a daughter]
Zhan Yanni is a native of Beijing, her father is a senior engineer, and she is the only daughter in the family. Growing up under the favor of her parents, she graduated from the amateur acting class of the Beijing Film Academy and had countless suitors.
Born in the countryside of Guangxi Province, Shen Junyi came to Beijing to study with his father's work transfer, and embarked on the path of an actor because of his outstanding appearance.
The family lineage is quite similar and has a common profession and hobbies, and Zhan Yanni and Shen Junyi came together in one shot. The wedding of the two is also very romantic, and they were licensed to marry on Christmas Day in 1986, which is both a holiday and a wedding anniversary.
After marriage, Zhan Yanni became the little woman behind Shen Junyi, gave birth to a daughter for him, and named her Shen Olympic, which means "Shen Junyi won the Academy Award".
There is also a cute baby inside the female protagonist, and it is reasonable to say that their family of three should be happy, but at that time, Shen Junyi had 11 months a year to shoot in other places.
Zhan Yanni took her daughter to live in her mother's home, not only to endure the loneliness of the husband and wife who have been separated for many years, but also to take care of the young daughter and elderly parents, she endured the double pressure of body and mind, and the contradictions between the husband and wife were more and more.
With the deepening of the estrangement, Zhan Yanni and Shen Junyi have reached the point of being speechless, and the marriage has become devastated. in Chinese New Year's Eve 1994, when the family was happy to eat a reunion dinner, Shen Junyi filed for divorce at the dinner table.
After marrying Shen Junyi but having a daughter, she was divorced, and Zhan Yanni immediately blushed and directly carried her daughter home. After the divorce, she began to live alone with her daughter.
[Zhan Yanni raised her eldest daughter, and her ex-husband lived with Jiani for 8 years]
The marriage between Zhan Yanni and Shen Junyi is not a peaceful breakup, but with her daughter's entanglement, she cannot treat Shen Junyi as an enemy. When the two divorced, their daughter Shen Olympic was only 5 years old, and she would often miss her father, and Zhan Yanni did not reject Shen Junyi's visit to her daughter.
With the support of Zhan Yanni, Shen Junyi and his daughter still maintain a relationship. But once he said in advance that he was going to visit his daughter, he temporarily changed his mind.
Missing her father, she stood at the door of her home waiting for her father, and on that day, the thunder and lightning were intertwined, and the door was accidentally closed by the wind, causing her right middle finger to be clipped, although she was sent to the hospital in time to be connected, she could never play the piano.
A change of circumstances made Shen Ao very disappointed in his father, thinking that he had no sense of responsibility, and his heart became sensitive and fragile, fortunately, Zhan Yanni detected her daughter's mistake in time and gave her all her love and care.
In the process of raising her daughter, Shen Junyi also met his next relationship. The other party is the actor Jani, 12 years younger than him, and the two officially live together shortly after they were together.
Shen Junyi and Jiani have a good relationship, but The existence of Jiani has made the gap between Shen Ao and Shen Junyi deeper and deeper. On the one hand, the daughter who made herself feel guilty, and on the other hand, the beloved her, Shen Junyi swayed left and right, and finally the two chose to break up, when they had been living together for 8 years.
[Zhan Yanni supports her daughter to forgive her father who has neglected her duties]
In the process, Zhan Yanni has grown up with her daughter and has fallen in love with acting. In order to increase her daughter's chances of being admitted, she asked her daughter to apply for both the Beijing Film Academy and the Shanghai Theater Academy, and accompanied her daughter to take the exam.
When the Olympic bid to go to the Shanghai Theater Academy exam just in time for the Spring Festival, the ticket was very nervous, the mother and daughter only grabbed a sleeper, Zhan Yanni let her daughter sleep, and she squatted in the aisle all night; when her daughter took the exam, she stood outside and waited, her face was scratched red... And all this Shen Junyi did not participate in.
For the Olympic bid, her mother raised her and gave her all her love, but her father was very derelict in his duties, and the balance in her heart naturally shifted to her mother. However, entering the entertainment circle, Shen Olympic inevitably had to cooperate with Shen Junyi, once the two were in the same crew, Shen Junyi in order to make up for her daughter, accompanied her to live in a simple hotel, washed her clothes, bought fruit...
Under the efforts of Shen Junyi, Shen Ao felt the long-lost father's love, and the relationship with her father eased a lot, and seeing her father's hard work when filming and the white hair on her head, she could no longer complain about her father.
Zhan Yanni is also very supportive of her daughter's forgiveness of her father, although Shen Junyi is an incompetent father, but her daughter can reconcile with her father, why not let herself go?
By 2021, Zhan Yanni and Shen Junyi have been divorced for more than twenty years, and in the process she has also complained and hated, but time has smoothed everything out, and she is very happy to have her daughter accompany her.
On the other hand, Shen Junyi, he and Jiani lived together for 8 years, saw Thaty married a good brother, and was estranged from her daughter for many years, and her life was lonely, far less happy than Zhan Yanni.