"I told myself from an early age that children in single-parent families have no right to be bad!" Facing the camera, Cai Junru said.
Her eyes are firm and her tone is flat, but it is this sentence that makes many people feel sorry for her understanding.
Cai Junru's childhood was mixed. The sad thing is that he has an indifferent relationship with his parents, and the joy is that he has all the love of his grandmother, grandfather and aunt.
Her memories of her parents are almost bitter.
When she was a child, her father often did not return at night, and her mother often quarreled, and her mother vented all her resentment against the unhappiness of marriage on her, and every time she had an unpleasant quarrel with her father, her mother would beat Cai Junru violently after drinking.
The well-behaved and sensible Cai Junru knelt on the ground every time, holding her mother's thigh and letting her beat her.
It wasn't long before my parents chose to divorce. Her mother remarried, her father married another, and she was thrown to her grandparents. Since then, she has become a fatherless and motherless child, brought up by her grandparents and kind aunt.
Years later, when she mentioned this not-so-happy childhood, she would laugh at herself, "I'm not just a single parent, I'm not a relative at all", but fortunately, with the love of her grandparents and aunts, her childhood can be regarded as a little sweet.
Although she has the love of other relatives, no matter how close the person is, she cannot replace the position of mother.
Cai Junru also admitted that Guozhong had always longed to have her mother's love before, until she found out after understanding things, "My mother did not value me so much, I have always been too enthusiastic, and my mother is very calm." ”
The reason why she said "mother is calm" is because when she was in middle school, her mother returned to her hometown once, and when she saw her mother, she called out to her mother happily, and kept rubbing on her mother, like a cute little who wanted candy to eat.
But her mother squeezed her fiercely and told her sharply, "Don't call my mother, call my aunt", and since then Cai Junru has never shouted "Mom".
She later learned that her mother had not told her stepfather that she had a daughter.
Perhaps it is this background of growth that has influenced her personality. "Single-parent families still make my thorns more, with protective color, others touch me a little, it feels like they are going to be hurt, I want to fight back, so many things are not handled so well!" 」
If it is just an indifferent relationship with her mother, it is a big deal that there is no contact, after all, Cai Junru has not felt maternal love for more than twenty years.
But what broke her down was that her mother, who had abandoned her since childhood, had become addicted to drugs at the instigation of her stepfather, and even her half-sister was controlled by her stepfather with drugs.
The mother who was addicted to drugs not only denigrated her in front of the camera for being filial and cold-blooded, but also continued to suck her blood, emotionally and materially, she was almost collapsed by her mother.
Later, my mother drank pesticides and was sent to the hospital for rescue, and died not long after. Tortured for half a lifetime, Cai Junru also failed to reconcile with her mother, which also became the biggest regret in her life.
Although her childhood was tragic, her acting career was quite smooth. Many mainland audiences have the deepest impression of Cai Junru, that is, Baby Ning in "Liaozhai 2", with this role, she has become a costume goddess in the hearts of many post-90s generations.
After many years, many netizens clearly remember the sadistic love between Baby Ning and Wang Zifu. The so-called life is like a play, and the drama is like life. Like in the play, the "Baby Ning" outside the play is also a bumpy road.
Her first relationship was with the actor Huo Zhengqi, who was 10 years older than her, when she had just stepped into the show business circle, she was attracted to Huo Zhengqi's maturity, and the two quickly established a relationship, but finally broke up.
In 2006, when she was filming in the mainland, she and Huo Zhengtan, a good brother of the article, came together, and thought that this time she finally found the right person, but she did not expect that the two had come to an end after 4 years of love.
Only a year after the love affair broke Huo Zhengtan, Cai Junru flashed marriage to Li Wei's cousin Li Yi. That year, she was 35 years old and finally had her own little home.
Now that she is 44 years old, she rarely appears in the camera, and more time is spent with her husband and children, enjoying time with her family. In any case, she still hopes that her family will be happy and slowly heal the hurt of her childhood in the remaining years.