[Whether a child is willing to confide in you depends on how much "nonsense" you listen to him]
Many parents always complain: "The older the child, the less they talk to themselves, especially after the child reaches the fifth or sixth grade, you ask anything, don't say anything!" ”
In fact, the parent-child communication mode after the child grows up is determined as early as the conversation between you and the child when you are young.
Whether a child grows up and is willing to talk to you or not depends on how much you listen to him when he is a child.
For example, there is a conversation between a mother and a child.
The child took the picture book and said to his mother, "Mom, this should be a hedgehog, not a raccoon." ”
Mom was chopping vegetables and replied, "Ah, it's a raccoon, you're right." ”
Son: "Oh? You're not listening at all, forget it! ”
Mom explained, "You're right next to me, I'm listening." ”
Son: "You're not listening at all, you don't know what I'm talking about." ”
After saying that, he walked away angrily.
Are you the same way?
Occasionally or often?
Saying "listening" in the mouth, the heart does not know what to think, often like this, the child will end the conversation with a sentence of "or forget it". After a long time, he chose to "shut up". So how to communicate with children, come and click on the "10 Parent-Child Communication Skills That Parents Must Learn" #Communication ## This is the #幼儿教育大家说 of family education #
