My daughter hurried to school in London in September. Just a month later, her daughter called to say that the mobile phones of her roommates had been robbed. In the daytime, at the door of the apartment building, a black man rushed up and did not consult with anyone, grabbed the mobile phone and slipped away from the shadow. Only the empty street remained dazed. What a sight to behold in the daytime. The classmates were frightened like never before, did not eat or drink, locked in the house in a panic, and tears were spilled all over the ground.
Classmates' parents are naturally anxious, the child from small to large, coaxing during the day to shoot at night, if you turn around and don't see, it's like the sky is falling, that urgent, a sentence: the world is only big.
How can you send your child to study so far away that every day should not be done, the earth is not good?
When the child grows up so big, he has suffered such a great grievance, such a big fright?
Dad lost all his enthusiasm for work. Over and over again, the mother comforted her daughter. This seems to have no effect, the child has been accustomed to this kind of love from his parents since he was a child, saying what should be said and doing what should be done. The child is still frightened, still does not eat or drink, of course, does not go to class.
In a hurry, the parents of my classmates entrusted me with enlightenment and enlightenment for their children.
I know that fright, especially extreme fright, is prone to very serious consequences. I remember when I went to the countryside and just arrived in Xishuangbanna to work in the rubber forest, a long snake fell from a tree and hung impartially on the neck of the female Zhiqing on the side, which was a terrified tearing scream that I had never heard before. Psychology believes that this shadow is difficult to erase, and it is easy to cause schizophrenia.
I was a little nervous, and I felt that the burden on my shoulders was not light. How can the constant assumptions of the whole morning intervene effectively?
This kind of strange and contrasting conversation is easy to fall into the form, and the listener has no effect. Recognizing this, my strategy was to set up "three tries", that is, to avoid condescending positions as much as possible; to try to put myself in parallel relationships with each other, like friends; and to avoid the motivation of this conversation as much as possible.
This deliberate control creates a relaxed and casual chat atmosphere.
I talked to her about my hunting as a young man. Storytelling is my forte. Hunting is both foreign and distant for children today. This legend has scenes, dangers, tensions, and a sense of fear, which is easy to weave and easy to make. In ancient times, in the barbaric times of mankind. The role of man has always been to switch "hunter and hunter" in panic. Human genes are born with a fear response, which is actually an important factor in why people are strong and thrive endlessly. It allows us to be vigilant everywhere. "Be careful with the Ship of Ten Thousand Years".
Only those who have experienced fright and can quickly get away from the shadow of fright can go further and better.
In the end, I agreed with the classmate that in the future, if we had the opportunity, the two of us would go to a place where we could hunt together to experience this feeling.
"Okay," the voice on the other end of the phone brightened distinctly.
At three o'clock in the morning, my daughter sent a photo, and the food on the table was swept away.
It was dinner time in London. I seemed to hear two children burping contentedly in fear that was always greater than the real danger, especially for a Chinese girl who had traveled far away.
The security situation in London is said to be good. But the black man still snatched the Chinese girl's mobile phone in the daytime, making the girl frightened and helpless!
You handled it really well, so that the girl and her parents were comforted and relieved. But no, everyone encounters difficulties and obstacles along the way. Haha, you seem to have become a good "daystar", following the good temptation, step-by-step guidance education... In the future, only by being careful can we carry out the Ten Thousand Year Ship. At the same time, it also teaches a vivid and interesting important lesson to the child's life journey!