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In today's materialistic society, people can choose a wide range of goods, enough to make people dazzled. Moreover, online shopping and quick payment are very convenient, and people's attention is attracted by the first time of the goods, they can decisively place orders, which can be described as spending money like flowing water.
In real life, many people shop, and even never consider their savings, only relying on a momentary impulse and inflated desire to buy, arrogantly paying.
I originally hoped to make my life happier, but I didn't expect to increase the pressure of life.
Behind a person's desire to buy, most of them have to bear the pressure of money such as "credit card" and "huabei".
Someone said: "People don't have to toss themselves so painfully, there is nothing wrong with the Moonlight Clan, young people should enjoy the beauty of life, don't be too aggrieved." ”
It is true that everyone has a different understanding of life, and some people are happy to enjoy the life of the moment and believe in the principle of "having fun in time";
Some people have firm ideals, believe that life is "bitter first and then sweet", and are willing to restrain themselves and not indulge their desires excessively.
People have their own attitude towards life. However, for a middle-aged person, learning to exercise restraint is responsible for life rather than acting according to his own preferences.
As the saying goes: "When a person reaches middle age, he cannot help himself." ”
A middle-aged man, the shoulders carry not only their own life, most people have married and had children in middle age, must assume the responsibility of marriage, the obligation to raise children, and the duty of filial piety to parents.
As they age, their physical function is not as good as it gets, and their stress naturally increases day by day.
A mature middle-aged man, the pressure on the body and mind is self-evident, if you do not know how to plan your life reasonably, it will only make the pressure of reality more and more heavy.
When people reach middle age, if they want to relax the rest of their lives, they may wish to try to slowly put away their desire to buy and reduce the pressure on their lives.
01: The greater a person's desire to buy, the heavier the burden of life
People encounter countless goods in life, especially for a middle-aged person, when shopping, the pursuit is not only their own quality of life, but also care about the selection of things for their families.
Xu Mei is a two-child mother who spends time shopping in the live broadcast room every day.
Most of the things bought are for children, husbands and parents, snacks, clothes, supplements can attract her attention and stimulate her inner desire to buy.
It is reasonable to say that a woman who is meticulous in shopping will not let herself suffer losses in price, and can pick good things for her family, and life should be happy and easy.
Xu Min's real life is just the opposite, she went to the home for three days to take the courier, the piled up items are not at all practical, occupying the space at home, making the environment appear narrow at the same time, but also provoking family dissatisfaction.
Her husband hinted that she had spent too much money unjustly, and Xu Min was also sullen in her heart, and she was obviously spending money for her family, but she was disliked instead.
You know, a person's life is inseparable from chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, especially in marriage, two people work together to manage, in order to maintain a good balance of life.
If a person does not know how to control his desire to buy, on the one hand, it will increase the economic pressure of the family, on the other hand, it will also make life chaotic, thereby reducing the happiness of life.
02: When people reach middle age, they must balance the desire to buy and the actual needs
There is an old saying that goes: the human heart is not enough for the snake to swallow the elephant.
The desire in people's hearts is endless, and if they let their desires grow freely, they will not only blind their hearts, but also break the balance of life.
I have seen the book "Two People's Little Home" recorded by popular bloggers, in a space of thirty-eight square meters, every item in the home is used to the fullest, so that this home is full of warm and happy atmosphere, which can be described as a sparrow although small, all the organs are complete.
We live in a society that is constantly changing, and the goods available for people to choose from are uneven, ranging from good things that make people feel comfortable to complicated and useless miscellaneous things.
What people have to learn is not to suppress their desires, but to rationally examine their own needs and pick out the most suitable items for themselves.
If people do not have desire, society will not progress, everyone is working towards a better life, the key is to know how to control desires, reasonable control of their wealth.
When people reach middle age, they must understand rational consumption, maximize the value of the items they buy, and make reasonable expenditures while satisfying their shopping desires, so as not to squander the money.
People live in the world, money is a necessity of life, but also a person's life.
People must not only learn to make money, but also be good at using money to create a happy life for themselves.
In middle age, every penny we earn is not easy, and we must spend it reasonably. In addition, you must save as much money as possible, and the more you save, the more secure your life will be in the future.
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