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My baby will be in school tomorrow, going to a small nursery, and the preparation has been done for a week, more accurately, it has been preparing for it for many years.
I sent a circle of friends, the content is to hope that the child successfully enrolled in school without crying or making trouble, many mothers left me a message saying: The child will cry on the first day of enrollment, it is impossible not to cry.
Another mother said that her baby did not cry on the first day of school, but then it was the one who cried the most.
I looked at these messages, unconvinced, but also did not argue, I do not believe that children must cry when they enter school, my ideal state is that children will have a contradictory reaction to enrollment, but the emotions are not so intense, smoothly through the early stages of enrollment.
I believe that if you prepare in advance and let your child have a full understanding of "enrollment" in advance, your child will not have too many mood swings.
With these adequate communication preparations, the child smoothly passes through the early stages of school
Good friend Xiao Zhou talked to me about the child's enrollment before, she agreed with my views and methods, she just followed my method to do, last year, the baby successfully enrolled, really did not cry.
Xiao Zhou said that at first, the child was resistant to going to school and was not willing to go, but the emotions were not intense, and after a few days, they became very active and very positive.
Before the child enters school, she does these preparations:
Start instilling the idea of a 3-year-old going to school two months early, and allowing the child to accept and approve of it.
The method is very simple, communicate patiently with the child directly, and let the child know about the school through picture book stories and cartoons.
In addition, the "kindergarten" thing runs through all aspects of life.
For example, when eating lunch, the child does not want to eat, but also wants to do games, Xiao Zhou will tell the baby: If it is at school, it is not good to do so, when lunch time comes, the teachers will prepare meals for all the children, each child will have a plate, each child must bring a rice pocket, and then start eating.
After xiao Zhou has sketched and painted this picture many times, it has been deeply engraved in the baby's mind, and she will describe this picture from time to time.
Sometimes she doesn't eat well, and she herself will say: After school, eat with the children, I will eat well.
In addition, Xiao Zhou also passed on the concept of "teacher" to the child in advance, telling the baby that the teacher is very gentle and kind, the teacher will also take the children to do games together, and after the baby accepts the concept of "teacher", it will be easy to accept the teacher.
In addition, after the baby has been set for school, take the baby to the school in advance to feel it, try to take the baby as many times as possible, and be familiar with the environment, which is very helpful for lifting the baby's inner defense.
Why do children cry on their first day of school?
Friend Xiao Zhou did it according to our communication method, and the child successfully enrolled in school, and she was very happy.
Next, we will talk about why these preparations are being done and what their importance is reflected in.
What will a child cry on the first day of school?
Because the baby at this time is mentally immature, they can't really understand the meaning of going to school, and the information they can perceive is that their parents force them to send them to an unfamiliar environment, surrounded by strange people, and they will have extreme insecurity in their hearts, so they will have great separation anxiety.
Because of the existence of this insecurity, their emotions fluctuate greatly, and the specific performance is anxiety and crying.
Let the child successfully enroll in school, reduce the child's emotional fluctuations, the way is to communicate with the child first, let the child really understand the "school" thing, "send to school in the morning, pick up the baby in the afternoon", this concept must be instilled in the baby in advance.
Giving your baby a good impression of the teacher is also a key part of your baby's successful enrollment.
Therefore, after the child is 2 years old, you can let the child contact the picture book of the kindergarten theme, and let the child be exposed to the nursery rhyme of the kindergarten theme, which is a good way to help the baby understand the "kindergarten life".
This is the origin of these preparations, which are to solve the child's "cognition" and "insecurity", so that the child can understand the kindergarten in advance, so as to avoid the child suddenly entering a completely unfamiliar environment and triggering strong emotional fluctuations.
When the child goes to kindergarten, these things should also be prepared
My baby is the first day of kindergarten tomorrow, these preparations have been done, the baby knows that he will go to school tomorrow, and has accepted the fact of "going to school", and the words also show the expectation of going to school.
I am still more confident in her performance after entering the school, although it is said that the school is a different environment, but the scenes that can be imagined have been described to her, and the solution has also told her: if there is a problem, find a teacher.
She had also met the teacher and the communication was pleasant.
I believe that the "first day of enrollment" is still relatively easy for her to pass.
In addition to these necessary communication preparations, there are still many things to prepare for the baby's first day of school, and I am not experienced in this regard, so I was caught off guard.
There are three things that your baby must prepare before entering school:
1. Name stamp
Small nursery and kindergarten babies, self-care ability is relatively poor, children to bring a lot of items and clothing to school, in order to avoid confusion, all items and clothing must be marked.
This requires waterproof name stamps and waterproof name stickers and subsidies.
Waterproof name stamp has no specification requirements, it is recommended that mothers buy it online in advance and print it on the baby's clothes later, so that after the baby enrolls in school, personal belongings will not be confused with other baby's items.
2. Name cloth sticker
The name allowance is sewn onto your baby's quilt, mattress, pillow and bag.
Some schools uniformly distribute bedding, pillows, and school bags, which must be distinguished to avoid confusion.
Even if the school does not agree to the purchase, parents should mark their children to avoid confusion.
3. Waterproof name sticker
Waterproof name stickers are more useful, and all of your child's personal belongings, including water cups, including lockers, including wet wipes, paper towels, etc., should be affixed with waterproof name stickers.
This is also to instill in children the concept of distinguishing their own belongings from other people's objects from an early age, maintain personal belongings, and do not move their own belongings casually.
4, 1 inch photo and 2 inch photo
When my baby entered school, the teacher let me prepare a 1-inch photo, a 2-inch photo, and a family photo.
Of course, different schools have different requirements.
Family photos are for school activities, and a photo of the baby will be posted on the baby's bed so that the baby can identify his bed.
In addition to the above essentials, some schools will also require parents to prepare wet wipes and paper towels for the baby's personal use.
In addition, after the baby enters school, he should also prepare a variety of clothes, generally at least 2 sets of intimate clothing, a pair of shoes, two pairs of socks, a set of coats, and a meal cloth pocket.
Make these preparations in advance before the child enters the school, which is still very helpful for the child to successfully enroll, and parents should take the child's enrollment seriously, make communication preparations and article preparations in advance, and remove obstacles for the child's smooth enrollment.