My "humanitarian light" is not painless, but: please!

Doula childbirth, has been advocated by major hospitals, there are also mothers think that it helps a lot, have you ever asked Doxo when you gave birth? Feel the need for it?

Some insights from the Lilac Mom App planet @Momo mom.

If you ask me, what is the most valuable amount of money spent in the production process?

My answer is not the painlessness that many have called "humanitarian light", but: Please!

What was the origin of the matter? And listen to me in detail.

Talk about the cost of my request for doula, I coordinate Hangzhou, born in the Affiliated Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital of Zhejiang University, the cost is 1500, at your own expense.

No painless hits

The lead music must be arranged

After being pushed into the delivery room, there was no painless wait for "one second to ascend to heaven", and I was greeted by 3 fetal heart rate monitoring.

The doctor grabbed an oxygen tube, stuck it in my nose, and said, you wait a little longer, we will look at the fetal heart, you can't fight painlessly in this situation!

God knows how desperate I was! My heart was still silently chanting, one two three exhalations, one two three inhalations, trying to recite the mantra of Ramaze's breathing method, but to tell the truth, I couldn't concentrate at all! At this moment, an emergency mother was sent in, from the promotion to do a good job of fetal heart rate monitoring, the conditions are in line with being sent to beat painless, she has been howling, although so, may not be good, but, the scream of killing pigs, it is really just so...

Under her screams, my psychological defenses completely collapsed. Forgetting the various popular science articles that say " don't cry, accumulate strength to go to the delivery bed " , I also began to "howl" and plead with the doctor. Maybe the doctor was too annoyed to hear me call, and asked me in passing, do you want to call the guide?

I hurriedly said, yes!

I even needed my family to sign it.

Then there was a long wait, and finally, I ushered in my dowra, a kind-hearted grandmother, I don't know why, I saw her I really calmed down a little (thanks to my crazy brushing of everyone's various production records in the week of labor, I know, the role of dowra will really help).

However, just when I thought that everything was going to be fine, the grandmother took out two pieces of paper, asked me to sign something, it should be a bill of fees or something, accompanied by the contraction of the "sour" trembling hand to sign my name, as a result, the guide turned around and left, opened the side door next to it and shouted, xxx family, come and sign! I was thinking, Oops! I've signed it, don't call your family!

In fact, the process is quite fast, but! It really hurts...

After that, it was a routine operation, telling me how to adjust my breathing, because I was mildly induced by eclampsia, and I had been paying attention to my blood pressure, fetal heart rate monitoring, and communicating with the doctor about my situation. What I want to say to you here is that don't think that there are doctors and midwives in the delivery room, but the actual situation is that there are many mothers waiting to give birth in the delivery room, and from time to time there is an emergency room that is sent in, there will not be a special doctor who has been accompanying you, at this time, the only thing that can accompany you is the dower! Maybe you can only suffer there when you die (I count the time is relatively fast, I really can't imagine how those mothers who didn't have painless fingers and slow to get through!) ）

Spawned by the conductor

The doctor adjusted the fetal position for me in the middle of the way, and soon I was able to go from 4 fingers to 8 1/2 fingers and could go to bed! I don't know where Doo did get a wheelchair, and she quickly helped me prepare the skin (eh, that is, shave) and pushed me into the delivery room. When I got to the delivery room, there were many people, there were doctors, midwives, and there were dors, three people. At this time, the dojo will tell you how to exert force, when to exert force, and when to hold your breath. The second labor was still very smooth, it only took 30 minutes, the only regret is that I did not learn to retract the force, and finally it was a bit torn.

Time: July 22, 2020, 2:02 p.m., weight: 2910g.

At this time, the baby was carried over and asked me to confirm the man and woman, ah! The puzzle was finally revealed, as I had hoped to be a female goose!

Do you think the work of the dowra is over?

No, I don't know when she went to her teammates outside to get something, took a towel and hot water to help me clean up a little, wipe my face or something, and then picked up the baby and taught me the nursing position. I also brewed a cup of sugar water, before entering the delivery room, the bile I vomited came out, the mouth was bitter, and it was much better to drink some sugar water!

Then, while waiting for me to stitch, she chatted with me, knowing that I was a child, and said, Eh, now the conditions are good, you can have a second child!

Eh... I can't go on with that!

After the baby was carried over to me to suck milk, completely unprepared to be slammed a few mouthfuls, the pain was so painful that my tears were going to fall out, at this time, the guide also personally guided my breastfeeding posture, while sucking for how long, if there is no milk, where can I go to get hydrolyzed milk and the like.

Because of my damn blood pressure, I stayed in the delivery room for an extra hour before being let out. Doo music and his teammates pushed us back to the ward. After arriving at the ward, Doula told his teammates to let her eat something, and then when you go to the toilet, you must go with her, you may faint. Sure enough, she was right!

After being sent back to the ward, the work of doxorus was over.

Although the time is short

But it's necessary

At 12 o'clock, two fingers were pushed into the delivery room, 2 o'clock was born, and at 5 o'clock was pushed back to the ward. My dope belongs to the service time is relatively short, mainly because I was born faster, but the work of the dojo is still very important.

1. Stabilize the mother's mood and teach you the technique of labor force by hand.

2. One-on-one care for the maternity, which in public hospitals basically if there is no doo music, you have to take care of yourself.

3. Help you take care of your baby, such as teaching you how to feed, dressing your baby, and wearing diapers.

4. Direct your teammates to cooperate and advise you on follow-up precautions, which is also very important, because I was born during the epidemic, only my teammates came to the hospital to take care of me, and it is always good to have a more professional person to advise.

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