For a married man, one of the most headache problems is undoubtedly family conflicts, especially the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, often making five-foot men fall into a dilemma: the left is to give birth to their own biological mother, the right is their loving wife who gets along day and night, encountering the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the escalation of family conflicts, is indeed a dilemma.
And a distant relative of my classmate's colleague encountered such a thing, this man's surname is Lang, the eldest in the family, nicknamed DaLang, has become a family. Da Lang's family is rural, some rural people may be less educated because of lack of education, for filial piety to their parents are more indifferent, but Da Lang is very filial to his parents, he has some delicious things can not forget to send a copy to his parents.
This caused dissatisfaction among his wife, who often said that he only had his parents in his heart and did not know how to love his wife, so the eldest lang was a little unhappy, and he said earnestly: "How come I don't know how to love my wife?" Delicious is not less than you, but also bought you so many good clothes from a certain number of people, only in the New Year of the year I bought clothes for my father and mother once, and in the winter I give you a warm bed every day, where do not know how to love you? ”
The wife said that the big lang, just sprinkled the anger on the mother-in-law, a little thing will collide, the mother-in-law is also a straight son, the mouth can not hide the words, the result is that you say a word to me, choke each other, and finally directly scolded.
As a result, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were equally divided, and neither could subdue the other, and finally the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law all sprinkled their anger on the big lang. Da Lang's mother said: "Son, your mother has lived such a long time, and she still has to be scolded by a junior every day, it is really a living nest, you don't care about your wife, is it so easy for me to pull you with a handful of shit and a handful of urine?" I see that you are married to a daughter-in-law and forget your mother. ”
The wife was also aggrieved, saying that marrying the big lang had fallen into eight lifetimes of mold, everything was biased towards the father, he was an outsider, he was angry, the more the wife said the more aggrieved, and finally he actually cried up, crying while crying: "Don't drill into my bed in the future, you are so good to your mother, go to your mother in the future, be a filial piety son." ”
This makes Dalang embarrassed, you know, in the countryside to get married, the woman wants the bride price is very high, often about 100,000, so the rural people marriage is relatively stable, easy not to say divorce, because the divorce to find a daughter-in-law, the cost is too high, the average person can not afford two marriages, so relatively speaking, the rural marriage is more stable, and the rural people are also better for the daughter-in-law, afraid of being bad for her, she divorced or ran, so in fact, the rural daughter-in-law is favored than the urban daughter-in-law.
The war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has led to an escalation of family conflicts, the mother does not recognize her son, and the daughter-in-law says: Live with your mother! This puts Da Lang in a dilemma, almighty netizens, how do you think Da Lang should deal with this family conflict? Write down your suggestions below, and let Da Lang see it and study it well.