Be kind to your children, whether there is a chance in this life or not, in fact, it is already doomed!

Be kind to your children, whether you have a chance in this life or not in the previous life is predestined, see through the four fates:

I believe that everyone is familiar with the saying of "reincarnation", although I don't know whether it is true or false, but from ancient times to the present, such legends have never ended. In this regard, the Buddha found the answer for us, it is not accidental that the child reincarnated into your home, and others can become your child and recognize you as a parent, this is all fate at work, why does the child reincarnate into your home? Why not throw it into someone else's house.

If you have no connection with your children, you will not know each other even face to face, for example, if your children are abducted and sold when they are young, they will never see you again. In life, such examples are innumerable.

Regarding the idea of reincarnation, the Buddha told us about the four kinds of fate, and that different fates will make the situation between parents and children different.

The following is a detailed introduction to these four kinds of child relationships, you who have become a mother or a father should see clearly. What kind of reason does your child recognize you as a parent, good or evil?

The first kind of karma: retribution

In the past life, you were kind to your children and you were very lucky. In this life, the child is reincarnated to repay your kindness to him.

Children like this tend to be more carefree, smart and cute, obedient and sensible, and very filial piety. In your later years, your children will also be taken care of in an orderly manner.

That's why we want to advocate for a wide range of good relationships. The more favors you give to others, the more you will be rewarded in the future.

Two kinds of fate: resentment

In the previous life, you and your current child were the kind of enemies who died and did not interact with each other, and the reason why the child would reincarnate and recognize you as a parent was because he came to complain or even take revenge.

You may not believe, which child is here to take revenge? If your child is disobedient from an early age, the eldest one has a subjective opinion and will go around causing trouble, making your family not like home, because he has run out of money.

Children like this are here to complain. Maybe you think that this is all the result of no good education, and now there are more disobedient children, and it is difficult to take revenge? So why is this happening?

This has to ask you whether you are happy to be charitable in life or always think about taking advantage of others when you are more, I believe that many people will think about how to take advantage, for money is too calculated, the reason is the same.

Three kinds of karma: debt collection

In your previous life, you owed your children a debt and did not pay it off. In this life he will come to you for debt, and if he has enough, he will leave you. The more he owes, the more he will ask.

Usually, the child who owes less is usually away from you because of certain things at the age of three or four, such as accidents, diseases, etc. If you owe too much, then leave you until your child is eleven or twelve years old or even after graduating from college, leaving you in pain.

Four kinds of karma: debt repayment

Naturally, those who collect debts will also have debts. A fate like this is somewhat similar to repaying favors, but the difference between the two is still quite obvious.

If the child owes you a debt and owes a lot, then when he grows up, he will give his parents a superior life and let you enjoy your old age in peace. And if you owe less, after you grow up, you will naturally not give you too much, and every month you will have to pay a pitiful amount of living expenses, and sometimes parents will stick to your children.

The Buddha said that if you have no fate with your child, he will not come to recognize you as a parent. It can be seen that whether you give birth to a boy or a girl is actually destined early, whether the child is out of the way, and whether you listen or not has a fixed number.

If you want to transform your bad karma into a good fate, then you must teach your child the corresponding ethics, morality, etc., so that you can hope to resolve the unjust debts you have accumulated.