Introduction: The countryside is again to the "blind date season", this traditional industry is busy, villagers: all for money
Usually the countryside makes people feel the biggest feeling is that it is cold and clear, with the increase of people going out in these years, the trend of buying a house in the city has risen. In the past, the lively countryside has become more and more depressed, in addition to the New Year's Festival, the streets can still see people coming and going, and in the usual countryside, there is no pedestrian passing by.
It was only at the time of the New Year that the countryside regained its former vitality, and the usually deserted scenes began to gradually become lively. Although many people have "fled" the countryside, they still return to their rural hometowns every New Year's Festival, after all, this is their real roots. In the countryside after the year, with the return of foreigners, the annual "Blind Date Festival" will also kick off.
Marriage in the countryside, blind date is an indispensable link, even to the technology, information is very developed today, arrange blind date is still the main way to become a parent, the season of blind date is the most after the year, and the year after the year compared with the year, and significantly increased a lot. From the sixth day of the Chinese New Year to the sixteenth day of the first month, this period of time is the busiest blind date, and one of the traditional industries is too busy to eat, this industry is traditional: matchmakers.
There is an old saying in the countryside: do not mediate, do not do insurance, do not do the three generations of Chinese people. This big truth is a true description of these three things, these three are also called the typical efforts not to be pleased, being a matchmaker was originally a good thing to lead the red line to pull a marriage, but if the feelings of the two children after marriage are not good and there is a bump, the first thing will be to think of the matchmaker who matched this matter, and the matchmaker's kindness is not worth mentioning at all under the anger. Some even go to the matchmaker's house to spit out the fragrance. It can be seen how undesirable this industry has been in the past.
In the past, most of the rural matchmakers were in a wide range of popular and social fields. In today's terms, it is typical of social bovine B syndrome. Regardless of whether they are familiar with each other, they can always have a common language, and they can also get acquainted with people in a particularly short period of time. Not only good at socializing but also very enthusiastic, love to match young people, in the past to match people almost do not charge money. If both parties are willing, in addition to the high sense of achievement of the matchmaker, the man will also send some gifts to the matchmaker in return.
In recent years, the matchmaker industry has become very different from the past, the biggest difference is that many matchmakers have taken this industry as a profitable profession. And many matchmakers have a lot of local resources in their hands, which is equivalent to saying that without this or several matchmakers, you can't go on a blind date in the local area. If you want to go on a blind date, you have to pay "matchmaking money". These media gifts can be described as various, a variety of packages, including according to the number of times, the number of charges, the marriage fees and so on. Don't look at the media charge, but before the year or year, these matchmakers will be busy in groups, and sometimes they can't take care of eating.
According to the number of times to charge the most common, that is, to arrange how much to pay for a blind date, the amount of money according to the actual situation of the local situation, some fifty yuan, some more than three hundred and no strict regulations, such a fee seems normal, but some people say that there are a lot of cat greasy, that is, these matchmakers will deliberately arrange some "trust" to go on a blind date, the purpose is naturally to make money, there will be no such thing as a match. While such things are not frequent, they do exist.
There is also a way to charge is also more common, that is, the draw, the draw is calculated from the bride price, which is equivalent to the more the bride price, the more the matchmaker's draw, the proportion of the draw is also uncertain, some are drawn 10%, there are also cruel people will draw 20% or 30%. In order to get more money for themselves, some matchmakers have indeed played a role in fueling the dowry money, and some people have bluntly said that the rise in the dowry in the countryside is not unrelated to these new era matchmakers. So some people say that the current matchmaker is different from the past matchmaker, and the current matchmaker is more often for money, what do you think about this? Welcome to add a message.