The whole screen is saying that Gu Ailing's family has a good education, and then all kinds of praise her mother will cultivate.
I think 60% of Gu Ailing's success is because of good genes, and 40% is education.
Her mother Gu Yan did venture capital on Wall Street in the 90s, graduated from the Department of Chemical Engineering of Peking University in China, and graduated from Stanford in the United States, with high INTELLIGENCE and high vision.
Her father is more mysterious, and a while ago she rebunked rumors that she was not the fifth elder of Google, but with her mother's wisdom and vision, she would definitely not choose too bad.
So it's not a prejudice, people are born unequal.
A good skin bag plus a good brain, and a good mother who is particularly smart and capable, opens an education, and has strong financial resources, and originally won at the starting line.
These people who are born with stronger hardware than ordinary people, the software configuration is particularly advanced, and family education cannot be realized by ordinary people.
Can a sparrow compare to an eagle?
The starting point is good, the child's self-discipline and internal drive, like to solve difficulties, constantly challenge the high difficulty of the fun planted, and then it is to watch the eagle fly in a high direction.
When Gu Ailing was a child, she asked her mother what was the best university in the world?
Her mother did not hesitate to recommend the best and most difficult Stanford, and gu Ailing was admitted to the school (out of 1600 points, she "only" took 1580 because she was late).
This type of person is smart, hardworking, and very planned, so they have the ability to challenge difficult things.
And sports is a necessity for a strong physique, the better the sports, the more energetic, the more refreshing the surfing of life can be.
When it came time to participate in the Winter Olympics, Gu Ailing already had confidence after self-control and constantly challenging and achieving a personal life goal, so he would bravely "hold the silver medal" against his mother's fate and complete the 1620-degree rotation to get the gold medal.
I chatted with a friend the day before yesterday, talking about the successful high-level people, and found that the water is "the brain turns very fast, the body is particularly good, can often not sleep and like chicken blood."
And we ordinary people are "must go to sleep, can not stay up late, meeting for more than four hours and then the brain fainted"....... We can't just think that she is the same as Gu Ailing just by looking at the sleep item.
The following is Gu Yan's interview in 1998, from which we can see that she is originally bold and careful, forward-looking, and definitely a fighter among the elite.
Seeing here, will everyone feel hopeless, our starting point is not high, the baby does not work hard, urge to move, no head?
In fact, I don't think it is necessary to be so pessimistic, although our ordinary people's hardware is like that, but I think that the ruler is short and long, and 360 lines are out of shape.
No one knows what special craftsmanship our ancestors have, perhaps hidden in the child's talent, this talent may not be obvious, but twenty years later, it may also become a popular skill.
That is to say, to understand and cultivate the child's real interest in that aspect, to look at the long term, do not consider the immediate gains and losses, let him at least have a skill.
Refuse to expect too much from the child, let the child strive to do every little thing well from beginning to end, and cultivate the child's self-confidence in the process of achieving small goals.
In addition, the whole family exercises more together and has a good physique, in order to support us ordinary people to have the energy to live well and do what we want to do.
Dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes, and sons born of rats will punch holes.
What about being a cute little hamster?