It's the first week of work in the New Year, and the "tool man" Xiao Yang has once again run - opening a new feature to talk about why the zodiac signs are still single - feeling that saying this sentence is very similar to the elders who will urge marriage when they come home for the New Year. The emotional situation of contemporary young people is probably: when there is no love, bored and lonely and pitiful, I want someone to accompany, Uncle Alex, when will our constellation have peach blossoms. Trying to find some opportunities? Tired and don't want to move, good trouble or forget it. A little someone took the initiative to approach, immediately bounced away, save your life silly Mo Laozi. That's it? Really only single anymore. Every time I say that some zodiac signs are more prosperous, I mean that there will be some opportunities that can be grasped, not including falling from the sky and you push out hard and can't push away how to stick to your good sweet love opportunities. So the main purpose of my writing this topic is actually to hope that if you want to fall in love, you still have to make an effort, don't reply to me: sure enough, it is me, our constellation is like this, rushing to the duck for good luck, and then there is no then, everything is counted, and I wrote in vain.
Old-fashioned idol dramas often write that the hostess is born grassroots but strong, optimistic and positive. We often spit on the good soil at the same time can not help but follow up, I used to like a movie Me Before You, but also this kind of reckless and straightforward small town girl with enthusiasm to impress the paralyzed rich and handsome setting, I like the heroine's personality and attitude, optimistic and bold to face the choice, grasp different possibilities, and even manually create opportunities, which sounds very chicken soup, but a lot of things do happen between your heartbeat or action.
Without further ado, let's start with the first issue of this series, a feature that begins with Pisces.
Created an illusion of over-perfection
The idol drama I mentioned earlier is actually for Pisces. Pisces, especially the younger Pisces, are really very easy to bring into the clichéd idol drama, and if you think about it, you have this fantasy for a long time when you were a child, and the perfect object will fall from the sky and revolve around you alone. Other constellations may as well, but Pisces is particularly easy to immerse in, very seriously. When you grow up a little, you realize that more reality will wake up from this unrealistic romance, and The Pisces will mature, but it is likely that they will turn to other fantasies that do not match their own. The average person may not understand the importance of brain supplementation to Pisces, and the more they are not satisfied in the real world, the more they may fantasize.
Most of the time Pisces feels that this is okay, that is also OK, not very determined, it is easy to be affected by the people and environment that are in contact with the moment, for example, recently watching a literary and artistic work, thinking that this protagonist is good, suddenly want to become such a person, or the object of this protagonist is good, and suddenly want to find an object according to this standard. Pisces may have fantasized and rehearsed many times in their minds before many things were experienced, including falling in love. The later this object appears, the richer and more specific the Pisces' fantasies about it may be, and they will draw some parts from the various influences of different stages. There is already a comprehensive hypothesis about this so-called "good" object, or "good" feelings, and if this person cannot appear, it is better to lack than to abuse. Then he fell under the spell of the maternal-fetal solo.
The key is practice to test the truth, if you don't try it, maybe this emotional model is not suitable for you, and the conditions of this object are not compatible with you, and may not even exist. Pisces has always clung to a wrong standard of mate selection, so that many Pisces are also determined to live and die at a glance, and will not give anyone a chance to take advantage of it, because you just don't meet his very specific and beautiful imagination. Pisces really can't lack the opportunity to fall in love, if you have never been in love, there must be too many people pushing away. Or those who don't fit your imagination, you can't see them at all. Is there no one to chase? No, Pisces hearts don't like = no.
Make yourself confused by others
This part is the main problem that I think Pisces has, and it is also the problem that I want to talk about in the title. I can say that many Pisces are very suitable for the advantages of being a love object, Pisces is gentle and cute, understanding, will be likable, easy to get along with, willing to sacrifice for the object and know how to be romantic. But pisces in love reputation is not good, not I want to label you, the most said "scum" is Pisces.
I think Pisces is a constellation that is particularly susceptible to rejection in a medium-distance relationship. When they are in social relationships with others, when they are friends, when they are colleagues, they will get along very well, not aggressively, and be a particularly good companion. But they really love someone and see that person as their own intimate relationship, and Pisces is also very good, will give very specially, just like the spring breeze has been blowing your kind of satisfaction. The problem is the middle distance, to put it bluntly, during the ambiguous period of feelings, they are waiting and hesitating, and at the moment when you two plan to push open the door of love together, they are destroyed by pisces themselves. Many Pisces created a lot of confusion during this period, leaving a "slag" handle.
I have several friends and Pisces through a long period of ambiguity, feel that everyone is good, in the end are not a problem, they do not give you a clear explanation, either slowly fade out, or you find that they seem to have other ambiguous objects, or are constantly making trouble, I am not happy but I just don't say. It is particularly angry as if it is almost a foot in the door, and the previous efforts have been in vain. Pisces, who handled it a little worse, may have clearly started a relationship with one party, but in his heart, he is still standing outside the threshold and watching.
There are many reasons, maybe you just cut to the Pisces imagination at some point, they are willing to come close to you, and then start to compare themselves with their own fantasies and find that you are not like that at all. Or maybe some sort of broken feeling of yours attracts Pisces, who by nature want to save you and heal you, and rush in to find that they can't bear it at all. Or in addition to those unrealistic imaginations, there are also some practical requirements for Pisces, such as a stable life, a positive environment, and a small blessing that can be touched, and you have not passed these investigations.
Anyway, it is for various reasons that pisces have gone down, and do not know how to deal with it, run away, even if the pisces themselves launched the crush first is likely to encounter this situation. You have to ask what Pisces is, they can't say it themselves, it just doesn't feel right, if you insist on saying that it may be a detail, many times it is a particularly small place for Pisces to hesitate. They will form a big knot because of these things that outsiders don't care about at all. It's not good to say it, so simply avoid the problem. And Pisces is actually quite pessimistic about feelings, it seems to believe in love, because the expectation of love is too good, always do not believe that it will happen in their own body, every time they want to fall in love, it is almost a little bit. I think the Pisces themselves will also be distressed by the ambiguous state of their own, scratching their hearts and scratching their livers is unbearable, but they are particularly on their heads, they can't quit, and the pain they eat for love is not bitter.
I thought that no one loved sunglasses when they wore them
I've heard a lot of Pisces slogans: We don't talk about love p no. We are bent on making money, falling in love. Are you sure? I don't believe it. Basically, the Pisces who have been hurt and have a particularly bitter relationship may become two kinds of people, one that feels that I no longer believe in feelings, you big liars, I want to blacken and deceive everyone, and stand on the peak of emotions. The other feels that I am very obstructive on my head, my intellect does not agree with myself in love, I brainwash myself repeatedly, I am single and I am happy. Pisces is two fish, one to sensibility and one to reason, and randomly play, feel that reason has the upper hand when they can do anything, seal the heart lock love to avoid all problems.
I want to remind Pisces that many pisces I know think they can be rational, and even disagree with the emotional labels attached to their bodies. In fact, you can't control this matter, it is difficult for you to control your two fish, and I think the feeling of "love" is very important for Pisces. In the whole process of growing up, emotions are an important part of Pisces, and early lovers are Pisces, or obviously mother-born solo, but very early on your crush moment. It can be said that a lot of your entire growth process has come from emotional exploration. Pisces can only use your rationality better when there is a place for feelings and a strong sense of security. Pisces comes with the kind of happiness because of paying, which will not change, but it feels like it didn't get good results before, and now I want to raise the threshold for paying. So it's actually bad to deliberately not let yourself start a relationship or give a real heart. It doesn't allow yourself to be happy for a long time, and it's easier for you to one day fall uncontrollably into an unhealthy emotional relationship. Those who feel that they are particularly comfortable in their emotions now, because they are completely unmoved, are a predator posture of Pisces, in fact, are often the most likely to be slagged.
I think it's good to write Pisces first in this series, because the pisces that value love relationships the most in the zodiac signs must have Pisces, and other zodiac signs may be possible, and you Pisces say you don't want to fall in love I really don't believe it. Love for Pisces is a figurative representation of ideals and beautiful things, and Pisces can never escape the expectation of beautiful things. Maybe you can do it neatly and neatly to leave a person who is not suitable, but you can't leave the emotion itself. Your brain replenishment ability can be transformed into a variety of confrontations against regrets in life, and feelings are also a great source of energy for you. This love is important, so it can't be so simple, it can't be so thin. But we still have to balance reality more or less, and I hope that you will find this most comfortable boundary sooner.
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