If it is a true love, there is no need to get married, marriage is the "graveyard" of love, who wants to sleep together in the beginning. The twilight of the love period, the sun and the moon, the piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and hops, this kind of love is so happy, why choose to get married.
Choosing marriage is a compromise, accepting chai rice oil and salt is feeling that there is no love under human nature, hoping to use the marriage contract to restrain each other in order to achieve the calculation of weighing the pros and cons.
How many people use marriage as an investment, and use love as a cover to satisfy ulterior motives.
As long as a person loses interest in love, then marriage is his bottom line. I've played and played, young and crazy, young and beautiful have been converted, as if the rate of return is getting less and less.
When the pretense of love can't be played, the ass naturally can't sit still. In the end, there is only one purpose, and that is to get married. Deeply invested in a time, anyway, people are old and yellow, have become negative numbers, and may encounter a wealth miracle.
The next step is to go through a cutscene. Whether you are willing to marry so-and-so (are you willing to marry so-and-so), love her and be loyal to her, whether rich, poor, young, old, you are with her to live with her, spend a whitehead. This is the sharing of humanity that is carried away by love, to compulsively satisfy the fantasy of love.
This degree is to tell you that love is something that can be bought and sold with money. Having a good marriage is first of all a pile of money, and this calculation method itself is a process of learning and understanding.
If you say that buying a house you are worried about the mortgage, driving a car you are wary of the wear and tear of the tires, flowers and wine is a fantasy, and even the strongest love will become a "snail dwelling".
Why most people want to get up early and be greedy, in fact, he wants to work hard to maintain this marriage. If you want the marriage to increase in value steadily, you first have to have money, at least let the other party feel that they can still live, this is human nature.
People who rise in the times often use value to transform love, and the family itself is an economic unit. The GDP of love is first of all an investment, the list is clear, how do you have gains. The law of economy is input, output, and gross domestic product, and if you can't do a value-added guarantee for property, then there will be cracks in the love of "Deser".
Love and human nature must not be encouraged together, it must be in conflict, just as money and time cannot be perfectly combined.
What is love
I like you, you like me, and there is no selfishness in both of them. Even if one day, you don't like me, I still like you, but my heart does not blame myself at all, because I like you, as long as it is you, it is the appearance of love.
At first sight, I like you, which is also the category of love, but it is credited with hormones. Like your character, like your looks, like your head, like your feet, this is also the category of love, this is unilateral love.
I thought about getting married, I thought about having children, I had several in my heart, and they all held hands and ate with themselves. 可偏偏有一个人待在你心里，你随时都愿意看他走过的风景，“洱海月映着苍山雪”，这就是你内心的爱情，“无疆，它可以超越物种，超越一切”。
Feelings are afraid of two hearts, there is a reason to be afraid of no points, one person is afraid of loneliness, two people are afraid of being disappointed, deep affection is most afraid of ruthlessness, and true heart is most afraid of thin and cold. "Breaking the piano and breaking the strings" is the artistic conception of love, the beauty of the mountain flowing water is the big waves and sand, and the love in reality is rare in a thousand years.
What is human nature
Confucius said: "Sex is similar, and habit is far away." "I think that the attributes of man, he has no congenital and acquired nature, are all malignant.
"Rich and true, no money is not true", we see many people go to worship the Buddha and ask for sutras, that is just a appearance, under the appearance often shows the ugliness of human nature.
Bless me with wealth, great wealth, and even more bless me with five million, this is a common language, this is also a noble ugly picture. If everyone says this, what do you think a Buddha should do, not asking right or wrong, responding to every request, can you be counted as a Buddha?
A Buddha can only pursue laws for things, or for someone. That is, what you do, you can get something. Then you told the Buddha about this ugly thing, in fact, it is to push away your own cause, to lose the cause, where is the result, is it useful to temporarily hold the Buddha's feet?
When people only think about survival, development, love is only a kind of "parasitic desire", do you think that shallow morality and ethics can restrain him?
Infiltrating human nature into love is equivalent to a story.
On a certain blind date show, there was a male guest who longed for a real love, he made a disguise, he said a lie, he changed a cruel reality.
His opening statement goes like this: I don't have a house, I don't have a car, I'm a nine-to-five office worker. But I have dreams because I have a stable job, I have a height of 1.75 meters, and I believe that I can have a love relationship by my own efforts.
Before this passage was finished, there were twenty-four female guests in the audience, and only one female guest remained. It seems promising, in exchange for the bloody facts.
The female guest said, I leave a lamp for you, I just look at your idle appearance, unwilling. You have such a fixed salary of thousands of dollars and talk about the dream of love, and you have no ability to pretend that it is so high. Another female guest also interjected, she has no ability to talk about what nonsense... Later, the host said that this was actually a guest with a net worth of more than 100 million, and it was estimated that those women's intestines were remorseful.
Dogs can't change eating – that's people. Stubbornness, partiality, arrogance, which contains the ugliness of human nature, containing blood and tears, love and hate, which cannot be taught by saints, and the Tao Te Ching is worthless in the face of selfishness.
Life has love that is perfect, life without love he also has the same life, greedy ingredients can not do the insistence of faith. Breathing and life and death are only a matter of moments, and the love season is withered, and the gully that cannot be crossed cannot be trusted.
Without touching the hardships of life, feelings must be better than money, stepping into reality, the selfishness of human nature will definitely corrode feelings. In reality, why are so many people willing to be emotional fools, a love debt is only the beginning of the first love. When you see through people's hearts, the inexplicable love entanglement of a lifetime is still single in the end.
The biggest lie in love, "love you for ten thousand years", "love you to the end of the world, the sea is rotten, accompany you to the end of the world"... The temptation of this grand blueprint, when the mask comes off, what you see and expect is all awkward, and the biggest chip of human nature is love. People who can warm each other to perform passion are only a perfect combination of human nature and love, in fact, love is an exchange of animality and sociality.