After the birth of the child, parents will place certain expectations on the child, hoping that their children can be healthy and happy, have a high IQ, and have online emotional intelligence.
As children grow up day by day, from infants to toddlers, to kindergartens to the first step towards independence, to the school age stage, parents' hopes for their children will continue to change.
After reaching the school age stage, parents will pay attention to their children's academic performance, care about the child's ability to accept in the learning process, in the final analysis, whether their children are smart in learning, whether the IQ is high, if they encounter children's homework will not be done, even if parents tutor children can not understand the situation, parents will have headaches.
However, sometimes the academic performance of the first and second grades of primary school does not represent the future, as long as the child's IQ is high, even if the academic performance is not good at the beginning, the grades will slowly go up in the future.
How to judge whether a child's IQ is high or not? In fact, before the child enters the primary school, you can see from the five signs that the child is not highly intelligent.
The first sign: the child's imagination is rich and his thinking is active
Parents in the process of accompanying their children, we will find that some children's imagination is very rich, sometimes children imagine things that surprise parents, once doubted what is going on in such a small head?
If parents find that their children love imagination and have a rich imagination, then parents should be pleased, because imagination is part of intelligence, and rich imagination has a certain role in promoting the development of children's intelligence.
This is because imagination is the basis of abstract thinking, if children like to pile up all kinds of castles on the beach, or like to use plasticine to make a variety of shapes, in fact, this is the process of learning image thinking.
Image thinking will be very helpful for children's future learning, which is reflected in the fact that some children will use numbers to represent objects, and some children will use letters to describe speech and so on.
Imaginative children, although sometimes will make parents angry, because no matter what the child does wrong, they can make up a variety of reasons to prevaricate the parents, and even make up colorful stories to shirk responsibility, so that parents feel that the child is lying, dishonest, as long as it is not a matter of principle, parents can tolerate it.
The second sign: a small age but a wide range of interests
Generally, children with high IQ tend to have a wide range of interests, which is because they are good at observing everything around them, and use their brains to think, and when they find various problems in the process of thinking, their curiosity will become heavier and heavier, so they want to explore.
I remember when Dabao was in kindergarten, a few good friends who played with her showed such a problem, there was a little girl who was cute and beautiful, but she was not interested in anything, several parents took their children out to play, Andie always looked listless, always said boring.
After entering elementary school, Sweetie's academic performance has been in the middle and lower reaches, and now that the fourth grade of primary school is still the same, Sweetie's mother is very anxious.
And another little girl Ran Ran is different, she has been energetic, full of interest in everything, along the way to ask this and that, the things seen on the road are also very interested, very fond of questioning and thinking, the little girl entered the primary school after a top grade, is a veritable primary school bully.
The third sign: the child is a "whisperer" and has endless words
Many parents complain about how their children are a "small talker", since they can talk, the small mouth does not stop, even if no one answers her words, the child himself can sit there and talk for half a day, talk to himself, say what he answers, and be happy.
Some children often talk to themselves to the toy in the process of playing with toys, and parents will worry about whether their children will be psychological problems. In fact, in psychology, this stage of the child is called the "animistic period", when the child likes to treat everything around him as a living being.
Therefore, the child will keep talking to the toy, and there are questions and answers, very engaged, one is the necessary stage in the child's growth process, and the other is that it is also good for the child's IQ development.
In fact, children who love to talk and talk to themselves from an early age will master more vocabulary than their peers, and they will have a stronger ability to accept language in the future, master language faster, and have stronger language logic ability.
The fourth sign: not simply listening, but like to question and think
Parents like obedient children, parents want their children to do what the children do, do not want the children to do, the children do not do, feel that such obedient children are at ease.
In fact, those children who like to question and rebel against the instructions of their parents are more conducive to the intellectual development of their children, because in this process, children are processed by their own thinking, they have their own ideas and opinions, curiosity is heavy, and do not want to blindly obey.
Just like children like to ask 100,000 whys, parents should actively respond to children's questions, rather than fooling the past, because in this process, if parents can actively answer children's questions, they can develop children's curiosity, curiosity is getting heavier, and children's thinking ability will become stronger and stronger, which is of great help to children's intellectual development.
The fifth sign: when things happen, they will be reversed
In the process of taking children, we will find that when parents communicate with their children, some children have a strong ability to think divergently, and can give examples of one and three, while some children are relatively rigid, one is one or two is two, and will not diverge thinking.
In fact, children who can give one example and three times often have a relatively high IQ, which is because it requires a strong thinking ability, requires the brain to run quickly, and connects various information for processing, which requires a higher IQ to achieve.
Friend Xiao Ai is a primary school teacher, she said that the children with outstanding academic performance in their class are very capable of giving one example and three things, and these children often have good grades in each subject, and to a certain extent, the IQ of these children is also higher than that of other children.
The sixth sign: there is empathy, empathy is strong
Empathy ability, or empathy ability translated as empathy, refers to the ability to empathize with the ability to empathize with the situation of others in order to feel and understand their emotions.
To put it simply, empathy refers to the ability to go deep into the feelings of others, to understand the ability of others, to try to understand the feelings of others, that is, to imagine, to think in empathy.
Generally speaking, children with high emotional intelligence will have strong empathy ability, and children with high IQ are actually more empathetic ability, which is because the real high IQ likes empathy when encountering problems, and this process of empathy thinking is actually a kind of empathy.
epilogue
Children with high IQ often represent excellent academic performance, and they are often able to go to a good university through study, and then naturally find a high-paying job that they like and a job that they like.
Therefore, parents want their children to have a high IQ, and on the one hand, IQ comes from heredity, and the education of the acquired culture also has a certain impact on IQ.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's words and deeds in their children's early childhood, understand the child's growth psychology, guide their children's behavior in time, and seize the opportunity to develop their children's intelligence.
If your child already has the above 6 signs, then congratulations, you are raising a highly intelligent child.
The above 6 signs of high IQ, how many do your children account for?