Rich Life 17/3000 Q: What is the strongest fortress in your life?

This is the 712th article of the diary of the rich man who stepped on the pit

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Rich Life 17/3000 Q: What is the strongest fortress in your life?

A: The strongest fortress in life is your family. This family includes your parents, relatives and spouse.

First, your parents are the people who love you the most in the world

The vast majority of parents have the same heart for their children, and they are eager to bear all the suffering for their children, pay everything but finally have to let go. With wrinkles on his forehead and silver sideburns, parents are always worried, planning, paying for their children's future, and continue to prepare for the next round of the cycle. As children, you really should ask yourself every day, have you done filial piety to your parents?

Some of them are not good, they may also be broken jars, no ability, they are completely indulged, and those who do children can only do their best.

Second, can make good use of family resources is a cattle man

One of the points emphasized in The Alien: A Different Revelation of Success is that success has a great relationship to opportunity, culture, and environment.

No one can succeed out of thin air, to face up to their surroundings, family background is not a matter of one person, but the whole of people's connection with society.

Do a good job of external observation, one of which is the family and the luck. Our family is the foundation of our own birth, and the resources that can be provided to us are the foundation of the novice at our fingertips.

All those in the family who are entangled in this dispute are internal friction, and the best state is to gather together and twist outward into a rope, and everyone works together to make good use of the family resources.

For example, go to a larger city to buy a house for your children, so that the children of the younger generation can save more energy and contact more urban added value.

This is a generational effort to increase the gold content of the womb lottery.

Third, the longest confession of affection is a lifetime of companionship

Acquaintance is fate.

Getting along is love.

Falling in love is a matter of two people.

Marriage is a matter for two families.

Family is a lifelong affair.

Even if the other party has a thousand shortcomings, a thousand kinds of not, only because of love, so you can spoil, a love is not to fight for yourself, burn out the passion of life.

Love is not simply chai rice oil salt, parents in the short.

Love is to put you on the tip of the heart, not harsh, not insulting, with action to pull each other a hand, hand in hand, inadvertent tacit understanding, work together to make the family life better.

Love is the growth of equals and equals. From walking, to cycling, to cars, to airplanes and yachts. Not because of the possession of money, but the touch of not forgetting the original heart, every item has the fragrance of love.

Do not force because of love, have each other's independent field, respect each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, love your stubbornness and persistence, and appreciate your independence and publicity.

It is rare to meet such a person, who can support each other and move forward together. Live as a team, every day, face the difficulties, and strive to move upwards.

Be happy and share it with a smile. Uncomfortable, help dry the tears, hand a cup of warm water to heal together.

Honesty and contrast, heart and heart, love in the heart, love in action.

It is really difficult to know how the vast sea of people will meet another person and how they will be interpreted later. Parents can no longer guard well, and how can they not worry. Money and family lineage are only foreign objects that can be manifested for a while, and what kind of person a person is cannot be known for a short time.

In my experience, don't think about changing your partner, but mainly think of ways to change yourself, it's best to help each other together and become better selves.

The marriage partner is the most important partner in our optional life, there is no one, we need to trust each other, it is a collection of many factors, including but not limited to feelings, interests, bloodlines, companionship, care, etc.

Fourth, about marriage

There is a saying on the Internet that appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, fit in character, long on kindness, and loyalty to character.

Throughout the ages, it has been said that marriage should be the right door, because marriage has always been a matter of two families, living habits, human exchanges are there, the gap is too large, inadvertently is to experience misunderstanding and hurt.

When looking for a marriage partner, we should consider appearance, academic qualifications, family relations, personal abilities, material wealth and character.

Husband and wife are independent personalities, but they form a common family interest collection, they support each other, achieve each other, accompany each other, they are the most important partners in life.

Marriage can start on the Internet, and there are few successes.

The initial contact for finding a marriage partner can be established through various channels, such as the introduction of classmates, friends, colleagues and relatives and friends, and even various links on the Internet.

But if we really want to get married, a deep understanding of a person cannot be limited to just one way, we need to observe it all and consider it carefully.

To make a person your marriage partner, then you need to check out:

1. Physical examination report. At the very least, do a marriage test or a regular physical examination.

2. Social relations. If the family situation is, why do public officials and military personnel eat popular in the blind date market? Because the state has reduced the cost of screening, there is a guaranteed bottom, and the upper is not capped, right?

3. Credit reporting situation. Having money and a car is an appearance, and the amount of debt depends on the credit.

4. Individual ability situation.

5. Personal wealth situation. Especially when it comes to litigation, there is a website that can be checked, "China Judgment Documents Network".

If you really fall in love and get married, these are all to help clear mines, and it is necessary to understand a person.

Of course, no matter how we choose, the trust in the relationship between people cannot be absolutely certain.

Everything we do in advance is just to increase trust and reduce the difficulty of screening by identifying some things.

But we can't avoid making mistakes ourselves, and once we recognize mistakes and losses, then we should have the courage to stop losses.

Life is determined by oneself, and the future is in the hands of oneself.

A good marriage must give you more connection to the world than being isolated and closed.

Thousands of miles of marriage are tied, and good times are in front of us.

I wish every reader a match made in heaven.

Fifth, conflict lies in the blurring of borders

Brothers are on the wall, and the outside is humiliated.

The biggest family conflict is that you want to control others or other people in the family want to control you, and everyone may be able to control only a part of themselves, and the others can't do anything.

Happiness and troubles are always difficult to distinguish, it is difficult for officials to break housework, and everything is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.

The reasoning is similar, but only after going through things do you know the original appearance of things.

The management of family life requires two people to work together to make a difference, as long as it is not too far away from the principle of things.

There is a lot of chatter, in fact, I am still on the road, I can only say that there is no way to bless and woe, only people confess themselves. Hard work, self-reliance, a scene of its own.

The present life is something you have created with your own previous efforts.

May everyone be happy, may the family be beautiful.

If you don't enjoy it, don't complain, from attitude to action, you can strive to create a happy life for your future self.

Happiness never stops at the material level of abundance, but comes from a firm and self-sufficient heart.

Sixth, home and everything

Family alignment is important, and the focus is on setting the right goals.

Where a successful family is, it must be a family harmony.

There are also few examples of marital discord and family happiness. Like those business family disputes that have made headlines in entertainment, no one wants to fight another battle after a day of work.

Don't we work weekdays so that our families can live a better life?

The focus is not on the amount of money, but on being able to help each other when there is a problem, and in the usual accompaniment and quarrels.

The most important thing in a family is the process of being able to work together to share thinking information and work together to strive for a better life.

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