Thirteen years ago, a 13-year-old British boy became famous overnight and even set a Guinness Book of Records.
The boy was from England and was named Alfie Patten. He was born into a large family with a total of 9 siblings. The burden on parents to support such a large family is not light. Usually busy with work, they are "free-range" to their children, and there is not much discipline.
Olofi had a playmate named Chantelle Stedman, who was two years older than him. The two are neighbors, playing together from childhood to adulthood, which can be said to be "green plum bamboo horse". Cinder's family situation is similar to Thatofi's, the family has 5 children, her parents do not work, and the whole family lives on relief.
One day, while the two were playing, Xiandelle suddenly said to him, "I'm pregnant, congratulations on being a father, I want to give birth to our baby." ”
Although this sentence had a certain impact on O'Lofi, he quickly calmed down. Maybe it doesn't matter how young he is, he thinks that having a child is a family, and he and Xiandare happily reach a consensus together, give birth to the child, and the two people raise it together.
Xiandelle's pregnant belly gradually became apparent, and the parents of both sides also discovered this matter. However, the parents were not angry, but quickly accepted this new life in surprise. Maybe in their view, one more child is not a big deal, anyway, raising 9 children is raising, raising 10 is also raising, not bad for this mouthful of food.
In October, she gave birth to a small baby at the age of 15, and Olofi was successfully promoted to father. Becoming a dad at the age of 13, O'Rouffe "became famous in one fell swoop" and set a Guinness Book of Records for "the world's smallest dad".
One: O'Lofi became famous at a young age, and his fate changed
He was a child himself, but he became the father of another child. Olofi became famous overnight and became the focus of attention of many British media. During the time when the child was born, many reporters came to cover the report every day.
Usually unknown, suddenly became famous. Faced with a flood of flashes and lenses, O'Roufi's father smelled a "business opportunity" from the crowd of people flocking to the crowd - auctioning off a line of "intelligence" and selling it to whomever paid the highest price.
It has to be said that Olofi's father was very "successful", and it was not long before he earned the first pot of gold from his son and young grandchildren. In the beginning, O'Lofi's mother denounced her father's behavior, and she denounced how his father could "betray" his children for a little selfish gain.
But not long after, after the mother ate the sweetness, she also took the initiative to join the ranks of the father, and the couple "made a fortune" through their son.
As more and more reports became known about Olofi, his life was seriously affected: not only did he go out and be pointed out, but he was also ridiculed by his classmates at school. Unable to stand the pressure of public opinion, he had to seal himself off and take care of his children wholeheartedly.
Two: Things have reversed, but the boy's life can not go back
Seeing that Olofi became famous, his parents also made a lot of money for it. Many boys in the neighborhood could not sit still and stood up one after another and said that they were Xandelle's boyfriend. As a result, there are 7 or 8 people who come out before and after to claim their children's "fathers".
Disturbed by these people, O'Lofi finally decided to take the child to the hospital for identification.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the results came out, everyone was stunned - the child's father really had someone else! The child who changed O'Roufi's fate had nothing to do with him.
It turned out that Xandelle was too precocious, and although she was only 15 years old, she had several boyfriends. After Sendelle became pregnant, she didn't know who her father was, so she randomly pointed to one. The identification revealed that the child's father was another 15-year-old teenager.
The result almost broke O'Lofi. If it was just a farce, he could still get back on his track and live a carefree life. But now, his life has changed dramatically, and he can't get out and face the outside world.
Three: After 13 years, what is the life of the boy who "likes to be a father"?
The bee pupae population has faded, the Sendel family has moved out of the house, and Orofe has dropped out of school. 13 years later, when everyone mentions the 13-year-old boy who is "happy to be a father", he has grown into a young man in his twenties.
However, his life began to turn gray at the age of 13. Today, he has no job, wanders around, and is even convicted of stealing.
The once childish white and pure teenager, to now a decadent "uncle" with a vicissitudes, his world has been changed by an unrelated child.
This story, people sighed.
Fourth: How important is the guidance of parents for children who have no discernment?
If we don't instill the right values in a child after we give birth to him, he may be confused and make mistakes.
When a child makes a mistake, things get worse if the parents don't make amends in time.
And when they find it profitable, parents not only do not help their children out of the predicament, but push a child who is not able to bear it. The child's life is ruined.
When the child has not yet been able to bear the ability, the duty of the parents is to teach him step by step, to stand behind him and care for him to grow up. Instead of treating his life as a child's play, let it develop into an unpredictable situation.
In this case, if your life is changed, why is Olofi alone?
If 15-year-old Sentelle is in love, if her parents can guide her correctly, how can she become a single mother at a young age?
As a girl, if her parents taught Shender self-love and taught her to respect life, how could she make such a dramatic scene at the best age?
Parenting and choice, sometimes, directly determine a child's life.
Children grow up, they will be confused, will be overwhelmed. What parents have to do is to guide them in time.
We can't keep an eye on our children's every move all the time, and we can allow them to make small mistakes. But we need to tell our children what the general direction of life is, and be wary of making some big mistakes that cannot be repaired.
When children encounter the reef of life, what parents have to do is to face them bravely with them. Help your child to actively solve problems and reduce harm, rather than turning a blind eye and even profiting from it.
What do you think of this 13-year-old boy O'Lofi?
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