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There is an eternal question in love, is love at first sight true love, or is it more long-lasting?
Some people think that love is about feelings and fate, and long-term love is just a trade-off between the pros and cons. Some people think that the long-term love after careful consideration is reliable, and the so-called love at first sight is simply to see the color.
Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, as long as it can make you happy, it is love.
For most people, love at first sight is a kind of luck that can be met but not sought, and long-term love is the warmth of the small pieces of ordinary life. With some relationships like this, it is easiest to have a long-term relationship, and your happiness may be on your side.
One: Classmate relationship
From school uniforms to wedding dresses, it is the beauty that countless people dream of.
The feelings of the student era are the most simple, at that time we have not yet seen the reality of society, and we still have beautiful fantasies about love in our hearts. On campus, interpersonal relationships are relatively simple, there are few people in contact, and the students who get along day and night are almost all of our social circles.
In a simple environment, everyone's personality seems real and cute. Many people develop a beautiful relationship in the day-to-day battle together.
The feelings in the ivory tower are always particularly pure, there is no material requirement, there is no fear of reality, that is, simple two people attract each other, love each other, and carry through the best time.
Even if they did not develop into couples at school at that time, they will naturally have a sense of closeness to their classmates in the future. With the blessing of such feelings, the development of classmate relationships into couples is a natural thing.
Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan in the TV series "Ode to Joy" are like this, since the student era, Wang Baichuan has been silently crushing Fan Shengmei, regarding her as a goddess in her heart, after entering the society, learning that she is single, the first time to start the pursuit.
Two: hometown relations
There is a saying: When a fellow sees a fellow, two tears flow.
Foreigners who are also struggling outside the country meet their fellow countrymen, just like they have met their relatives. No matter how far apart your home is, whether you know each other before, as long as you can talk about the relationship between your fellow countrymen, it is like becoming a comrade-in-arms in the trenches, you will become kind and warm.
People who work hard in other places are always easy to become lovers with their fellow countrymen. When a person is alone outside the country and can meet a comrade-in-arms from home, a psychological sense of security and belonging is a catalyst for further relationships.
More importantly, due to the natural geographical advantages, it is always easy to beat other competitors and embrace beauty.
Two fellow villagers always have a lot of topics, the hometown of the restaurant, once attended the school, have been to the scenic spots, one by one are the two people's common memories of the hometown, chatting about the day will not worry about the embarrassing cold field, always familiar and relaxed.
In such an atmosphere, the relationship between two people becomes more natural.
Also in the TV series "Ode to Joy", Qiu Yingying and Ying Qin are fellow countrymen, and during the New Year, the two can go back to the New Year together, and the psychological distance and the actual distance are far closer than the average person.
Three: colleague relationships
Working hard in the steel forest, most of our daily energy is focused on work, and we spend more time with colleagues than our families. In such a situation, it is natural to have a long-term relationship with colleagues.
People's feelings are enhanced through getting along. No matter how deep your feelings are at the beginning, time and space are the cruelest executioners, and it can slowly kill those who once had deep friendships.
When you're sick, ten thousand words of booing and asking for warmth are not as good as a cup of hot water delivered to hand. Distant family members may not necessarily find your vulnerability and collapse, and colleagues who spend time together will certainly find out.
In the same company, facing the same boss, it is natural to have a little bit of hatred. Or the seniors in the company, the superiors and subordinates in the position, and some help and care given in the daily work, which are the basis of the gradual development of feelings, so the colleague relationship is often the most common type of long-term affection.
Get along with each other day and night, look down and don't look up, and the attention and concern for each other can be conveyed at any time. If the other person is also interested in you, then it is only a matter of time before the relationship is determined.
Love at first sight or long-term love, people's pursuit and yearning for love are correct. The most important thing about love is not how it is generated, but how you maintain it. At first sight, it is rare to see, and long-term companionship can also be expensive.
Focusing on yourself when no one loves you, and letting yourself have the ability to hug someone when they love you, this is the attitude that should be faced with love.
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