The 5-year-old boy was stopped from trying strawberries and shouted, "I'll kill you", and his mother's approach was confusing
Today you teach your children to be greedy and cheap, and tomorrow your children will suffer big losses because of you
As a parent, you must not let your education harm your child's life
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Recently, the child was on vacation and clamored for strawberries
So yesterday after work, when I was passing by the supermarket, I went in to buy something to go home
As soon as I went in, I saw such a scene
I saw that in the fruit area of the supermarket, there were many customers around, and there was a fierce quarrel inside
I looked over and it turned out to be a mom who had an argument with the supermarket clerk
According to the person next to them, the reason why the two of them quarreled was because of strawberries
It turned out that this mother's son also liked to eat strawberries, so as soon as he saw the fresh strawberries in the fruit area, he ran over and tasted them
As a result, the strawberries may have been so delicious that the boy ate one after another
At this point, the staff noticed him and told him according to the regulations that strawberries could not be tried
Unexpectedly, the child's mother was very unconvinced, thinking that the staff looked down on them
So the two had an argument
Just listen to the mother shout
"Dog eyes look down on people, I can't afford it or what?"
"Besides, if you put strawberries here, don't you just let people eat them, and children can't eat more?"
"Tell you, if my son is scared out of something wrong with you today, I'm not done with you."
"A little kid has to worry about it, it's really drunk"
Seeing that there is a mother to support, at this time, the children who were originally a little unreasonable are also bold again
Then he ran over and hugged the staff's leg and shouted while hitting
"You bad guy, I beat you to death, I beat you to death"
The staff was also helpless to see the mother and son like this, but she did not back down
Instead, he said it with a straight face
"If everyone eats like you, we won't sell it."
In a word, everyone around them was convinced, and they blamed the child's mother
"How can I be so greedy and cheap"
"It's so unqualified, no wonder children are taught like this"
"Eat half a day to buy or not to buy ah, do not buy to eat, it is a bit faceless ah"
Seeing that her mother and son had become the target of everyone in an instant, at this time, this mother finally stopped being arrogant
A face flushed red, and he pulled the child out of the supermarket
In life, I often see such parents
Always love to take advantage of small things everywhere, always feel that their children are still young, and anything can be forgiven
But forgetting such behavior not only makes him lose his image, but also lays the foundation for the future of his children
Just as the so-called "greedy and cheap to eat big losses", parents must keep in mind
02
Tastings in supermarkets can be said to be daily
Many parents, in order to relieve their children's hunger, often take their children to the store to try it
A friend of mine who runs a fruit shop once told me about such a case
At that time, they had a batch of cherries in the store, and they were big and red and particularly fresh and beautiful
As a result, just after the day it was put out, a grandmother brought her grandson to the store
The little boy naturally wanted to eat cherries, so he dragged his grandmother to the shelf
I hope Grandma buys a little, and it turns out that Grandma must be distressed about money and does not plan to buy
And can't bear to refuse the child, he reached out with his back to his friend and grabbed a large handful for the child, but he didn't know that there was a mirror next to him
The friend saw it clearly, so the friend went over and said
"You can try it here, but the cherry is too expensive to try so much at once"
As a result, the old man was instantly furious and scolded
"Will you sell things, customers can't eat two, such a small child counts so much"
"There should be no one in your shop"
In the end, the two had a big fight, and the child was so frightened that she cried and the grandmother gave up
I thought it was over, so my friend quickly forgot about it
Coupled with the fact that chelizi is new, there are many customers in the afternoon, so she did not pay attention to it
Unexpectedly, a young mother suddenly rushed in after work in the evening
It was a slap on the face, and the mouth was still threatening
"It's this shop, everyone look at the face of the boss lady, usually don't know how much black money we earn, today my mother took two cherries for the child, this person will not be spared"
It was also posted online, and for a time, a friend's shop quickly became the focus
There are even reporters who come to interview for this reason, fortunately, friends are good, so many familiar customers have volunteered to stand up for her, and one of the witnesses to the incident has been bluntly said
"Now the cherry is so expensive, sixty-seven hundred pounds."
I was there that day, and the old man didn't take one or two at all, but grabbed a large handful
Don't say the lady boss, I look at it all painfully, people do business also cost ah! ”
Some people say that people who like to take advantage of small things are not short of money at all
What they lack is "morality"
And such parents often leave a very bad influence on their children
Either make the child full of shame and inferiority in the heart, or let the child learn from the model and become more and more annoying
Finally, he was taught by life and others
Someone once asked a question
"What your parents do that makes you feel the most ashamed"
The answer of the highest praise in the results is said
"I think they are greedy and cheap, the most ugly, the ugliest, the most undesirable to get off the stage"
For children, their hearts are very sensitive and self-respecting
Adults' calculations often make them feel ashamed, as parents, we must protect the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, for people to deal with the world, a little more generous, a little less calculating
03
In the book "Harvard Family Training", such a story was told
The two children followed their father to the movies and found that the children under the age of 6 were free of charge
But children over the age of 6 need to buy an adult ticket
It just so happened that one of the children had just passed his seventh birthday, but in fact, he was under the age of 6, and he couldn't see it at all
But Dad was honest with the staff
"Buy 3 tickets, kids a 7, a 3, plus me"
As a result, the staff was very confused
"Is this kid really 7 years old?"
Dad said "Yes" with certainty.
So the staff praised it
"You're so honest I can't see it even if you say he's 6 years old"
Hearing that Dad was praised, the faces of the two children were filled with pride, and Dad also took the opportunity to teach them
"Don't be greedy and cheap, so that you can live an upright life"
Many times, every word and deed of parents has a serious impact on the child's life
If you are particularly greedy and cheap, over time, the child will become more and more "stingy"
After a long time, no one wants to be friends with him
Such a child, when he grows up, will not have a big show
If parents want to educate a cheerful and patterned child, they must not worry about it in life
I have seen such a news
A mother likes to be greedy and cheap since she was a child, and after having children, this problem still cannot be changed
Take the child to the door to buy a dish, you have to follow the family two cloves of garlic, a few green onions
Often fight for a few cents and fight with others
As a result, her daughter grew up to be exactly the same
Every time I go to the hotel, I like to smooth the shampoo, smooth cups, smooth towels, etc
Even ordering takeaway will make the store give a few more pairs of chopsticks
Once, her boss gave her a job offer, but she took the ashtray of the hotel after eating with the leader
As a result, not only was promotion hopeless, but he was also completely dismissed
The so-called habit becomes natural, the bad behavior of parents
Slowly, it will penetrate into the bones of the child, and even after adulthood, it will deeply affect the child's behavior in the world
Thus affecting their happiness and life
As the saying goes, "A gentleman loves money and has a way to get it"
Parents must act right, stand straight, have morality, have a bottom line, and do not blindly greedy and cheap
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