Text/Please Mommy and Daddy!
For a long time, bear children behave indiscriminately, and things that affect the order of the lives of people around them have occurred from time to time, and recently, there is such a video on the Internet that has triggered extensive discussion among everyone.
The video shows that in a supermarket in Chongqing, a parent with a child, standing in front of various colors of bulk grain, only to see the children in the video will be different colors of grain randomly mixed together, and there are not only two, supermarket staff came forward to discuss the explanation, but was asked and questioned by the parents: "You have guardianship and do not have!" ”
Netizens have said: "I don't take care of my children well, and I blame others, what is wrong with grain?" "There is a bear parent behind the bear child, the parents usually do not educate, and the child will be beaten by society sooner or later." ”
In fact, it is just a small thing, after the incident, the parents came forward to educate the children, and then negotiated with the supermarket side, solved the problem, and the matter was over, but the parent not only did not realize the child's problem, but also shirked the responsibility to the supermarket, which was really not right.
Supermarkets come and go every day, how good people will pass through bulk grain, other parents and even children, can control their own hands, why can't your children? And when children mix food, what are parents doing?
There is also a situation that some children may indeed do this out of curiosity, as a parent should also stop this behavior in time, reasonable education, teach children how to deal with problems, and this experience will also become a beneficial thing for his physical and mental development on the road to growth.
How to avoid children becoming "bears"? Prevention is key!
It is said that it is not easy to educate children, and it will be difficult to correct "bear children", but as long as children are avoided from becoming "bears" from the root, can we reduce a lot of trouble?
There are some parents in life, always inadvertently to the child to pass the wrong information, such as swear words, littering, or husband and wife between the fight is not serious, etc., the child grows up in such an environment, more or less will hear, once the child out of the range of home, these bad habits will drive him to do some unpleasant behavior.
Therefore, if parents want to better educate their children, the first thing to do is not to learn how to manage their children, but to do themselves well.
As the main members of the family, parents should create an environment suitable for their children to grow as much as possible, correct bad habits, improve lifestyles, and scientific parenting, which is what children need most.
What should parents do in the face of children's curiosity and mistakes?
After the child is born, he will have a certain curiosity about everything in life, and in order to solve the doubts in his heart, the child will naturally make corresponding behaviors, such as wearing adult shoes, hiding keys, opening toys or overturning water cups.
For these behaviors, parents should learn to guide them reasonably, telling their children that such practices will bring trouble to others, and even put children in danger.
Parents can also try to treat their children in the same way, such as hiding toys that children like, which is equivalent to a disguised punishment for children.
When the child feels troubled, parents can take the opportunity to educate, early training of the child's empathy ability, can help the child to better treat the things around them and people, before the behavior occurs, the child considers a few more seconds, may avoid the emergence of some wrong behavior.
The cultivation of a sense of rules
Some parents think that children do not understand things because they are too small, grow up is good, do not know, children do not understand things when they are young, grow up more do not understand things, and then want to discipline, the difficulty will be much more difficult than when they were young, so many "bear children" in life, are real examples.
Establish a sense of rules, you can start from the most basic things, such as going to bed early and getting up early, washing hands frequently, cleaning up the room in time, etc. Parents must guide him to do it according to the child's ability at this stage, rather than helping him do everything well, because the more you help, the more lazy the child is, once the dependence psychology is generated, it is difficult to correct.
In addition, to let the child feel the difference between home and social environment, the child may be naughty at home, the parent education will pass a few sentences, and out of the house, the rules in society will become more, and the child needs to better restrain himself in order to be accepted by society.
Children go out of the house and enter the society, generally starting from the age of 3, so it is very helpful to grasp this critical stage and pass on relevant knowledge to children in time.
How children grow up in the early stages is inseparable from the education of parents, and if parents do not pay attention to themselves, it is only a matter of time before children become "bears".
Friends, have you ever met a "bear child", and if you encounter a parent of a "bear child" who shirks responsibility, what will you do?