When I brushed the short video two days ago, I accidentally saw a mother who gave birth to 6 babies, and the life of "children and daughters" was very happy.
The mother said in the video that "if you want to have a son, you will come to the son, if you want to have a daughter, you will come to the daughter", as if winning the lottery, over the years, the mother has given birth to a total of 3 sons and 3 daughters, and put together 3 "good" words.
In the first child, Bao Mom wanted a boy, and indeed gave birth to a male baby.
The second child wanted a "little princess" and gave birth to a daughter.
I wanted another girl in my third child, and it turned out to be another daughter.
When the fourth child wanted to make up two "good" words, he gave birth to another boy.
In this way, the five and six were also born one after another, and they were a man and a woman, which completely complied with Bao Ma's wishes.
In the video, 6 children sit together in rows, mom and father sit on one side, the family looks super high, the atmosphere is harmonious, and the video can also be seen that the children's clothing and living environment are exquisite.
In this regard, some netizens said that "there is a mine at home", and some netizens were envious of their real names, "This is called the wish to do it, envy".
In fact, when it comes to having babies, situations like this "big family" are a minority after all, and many young people's attitudes today are relatively negative.
According to the National Bureau of Statistics, the net increase in the mainland's population in 2021 was only 480,000, creating a new 60-year low and falling below triple digits.
Many people may not have an accurate concept of this, we can take the data of the previous two years to compare: in 2019, the net increase in the mainland population was 4.67 million people, in 2020 it was 2.04 million people, and in the case of consecutive years of double decline, negative growth seems to have become an inevitable trend.
Why don't today's young people love babies?
As for the problem of the decline in the fertility rate on the mainland year after year, the National Health Commission believes that it is mainly caused by four reasons:
1. Results of the intergenerational influences of past population policies
Due to the impact of family planning policies in the early years, the size of women of childbearing age has declined in recent years, resulting in a decrease in the new population.
2. The concept of marriage and childbearing has changed
Compared with the older generation, today's young people are self-conscious, more rational about fertility issues, and begin to think more about the meaning of marriage and pregnancy, unwilling to blindly marry and have children.
3. The cost of parenting is too high
Nowadays, most young people are facing the reality of fast pace of life and high pressure of life, under the premise that economic pressure is difficult to bear, it is difficult to bear the cost of raising a baby, especially now that the cost of childbirth, education, medical treatment and so on is high, resulting in some young people will want to be born but dare not have children.
4. Impact of the epidemic
Due to the unprecedented impact of the epidemic, some young people have also suspended their birth plans.
In fact, if we pay attention to observation, it is not difficult to find that many young people today do have a heartfelt resistance to fertility, especially in the recent Spring Festival, many young people are annoyed by the elders' "marriage promotion" and "birth", and late marriage and late childbearing have almost become a common choice for everyone.
It is precisely for this reason that the mother who gave birth to 6 babies above is particularly "different" and is envied by many netizens, after all, the life of "children and daughters" looks so happy, and it is fully able to bear the economic costs brought about by raising a baby, which is "unattainable" for many young people.
From another point of view, the pressure to have a baby may not be so great
Although raising a child does represent a lot of financial pressure, in fact, pressure is also a driving force, and the economic pressure brought about by having a baby may not be as terrifying as some young people think.
First of all, psychologically speaking, after having a baby, it will make parents invest more energy in the work to a large extent, so as to achieve greater economic benefits, and the difficulty of raising a baby will be reduced.
Secondly, compared with raising a baby, the cost of having two children and three children is not equivalent to doubling, on the one hand, because of the richer experience in parenting, you can take fewer detours, on the other hand, some of the baby's resources can be shared, so the cost of having two children and three children may be less than some young people imagine.
Finally, there is national policy support, in order to stimulate fertility, some parts of the mainland have introduced a birth allowance subsidy policy. For example, in 2021, Linze County, Zhangye City, Gansu Province, issued relevant documents to subsidize families with one, two and three children to 2,000 yuan, 3,000 yuan and 5,000 yuan respectively, and the second child was given 5,000 yuan per year, and the third child was given a childcare allowance of 10,000 yuan per year until the baby was 3 years old, and in addition to these "real money" subsidies, the government also has certain funding measures in terms of children's enrollment and house purchase, so as to help young people solve the current urgent needs.
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
Although many young people today have reduced their enthusiasm for childbearing, they have their own considerations behind them, but in fact, if you think about it carefully, the cost of childbirth may not be as "scary" as imagined.
Especially for young women, once the golden age of childbearing is missed, it will not only be more difficult to give birth, but also have a relatively high risk, so if conditions permit, such a life event as having children and having children should be completed as soon as possible.
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