An 89-year-old leftover woman talks about a recent blind date

I was eight or nine years old, female, and my family introduced two men years ago.

One is done in the factory, the monthly salary is said to be about ten thousand, the county has a house, there is a car, the family feels very good to call me to chat, first add VX to chat for a while, and then about to meet, the other party is short and upright with a beer belly, but I am not the appearance of the association, so I also think there is nothing, when I met I took the other party to eat a ninety-dollar meal, and the other party chatted to know that he was renting a house, two or three hundred rent. I am not a person with good conditions (rural, did not go to college) but I still feel as strange, people who earn tens of thousands of dollars a month live in two or three hundred old houses? He said that he was reluctant to spend seven or eight hundred each to share a couple of rooms and a hall of elevator rooms with friends, I was speechless, saving is a traditional virtue, but how do I think this is not called saving but called cutting! Will a person who is so critical of himself be good to others? So I didn't have any thoughts about him, am I wrong?

The other is to do sales, divorced, I don't care much about divorce, I also talk to him VX, but this is basically I send him a message, send a reply, I don't send a message he doesn't send me a message, alas, probably not interested in me, but I haven't seen wow, now back to the New Year, also didn't send a message to me, the two families are not very far apart in the same town, but also did not ask me to meet.

For the blind date of the man, I especially do not understand those I do not send messages to you you do not send messages to my men, I think I also have a big problem, I am not good at chatting, may also be too boring to say, but really can not understand the addition of VX and do not look for you to chat with the man, but also add a hair ah.

These two men, feeling that the first one was inappropriate, the second one didn't look at me, and I had already blocked them. Do people say I'm doing it right?

(A friend's real experience)