After a few years of involvement in housework, all I know is that I can see if a man really does it, just by going through two simple points. First, it is said that men who often cook, clean up the fish, will not pick the fish tendons, clean up the shrimp, will not pick the shrimp line, will not cut the potato shreds. Second, it is said that the men who regularly clean the house will clean the bottom of the sofa cabinet when cleaning, and whether they will habitually return the things in the house.
Men who have not done it cannot understand, and only men who have done it can really begin the process of entering the house in marriage. Of course, this is my personal opinion.
Some people will say that there are so many details in marriage that need attention, so many emotions that need to be maintained, and so much time that needs to be run-in, only these two houseworks are so evaluated? For me, as far as, absolutely.
The first point, as for it, is the use of heart.
The second point is whether you have the consciousness of being the master.
Doing it with heart is not only considerate of sharing each other's hardships, but also shows the thoroughness of the details of housework.
Doing it yourself and watching the other person do it are completely different things, and being able to do it and whether you will do it are also completely different things. With the heart, you will know that there is still fish tendon shrimp line, with the heart, the potato shreds will have a look, with the heart, when cleaning the room will think of the corner that will not be noticed, with the heart, will habitually keep the room tidy.
Many people think that doing housework has been hard, these are common sense that is not worth talking about, but in fact, few men can penetrate these details in a short period of time, such as shredded potatoes, without a year and a half of practice, it is impossible to become a small success. Intentions are not only attention to detail, but also means investing time and energy in the family and each other. That's the point of housework.
And whether there is a sense of being a master is more indicative of a man's understanding of marriage.
Who is the rice cooked for? Who lives in the room?
If you can do it yourself, then don't you do it? If you can also invest in yourself, then do you vote?
If you can reduce the burden on the other party, can you participate?
If the other party does not do well, can they bear the responsibility of doing better?
Not even to mention, if you treat home as home, if you treat love as love, is there a better way to express it than this?
I don't think there is. If there were, there wouldn't be many.
So for me, this is the answer I give, the more attention to details, the more attention to details, the more involved in details, will make love more solid, will make marriage more solid in the family.
Men are successful and self-motivated, men are gentle and considerate, and men are strong and humorous, all of which are important, but men are more loyal to life by focusing on the family and investing in the family.
A shredded potato may be warmer than saying I love you a thousand times.
(Like my text, please pay attention to the public number: middle-aged emotional chatters.) ）