Middle-aged and elderly women over the age of 50, will they have extramarital affairs?

Many people will think that extramarital affairs are the standard for young people, and older women will no longer have men. So will women over the age of 50 still have extramarital affairs? Listen to the truth of the three middle-aged and elderly women, Ms. Yang, I am 56 years old this year, my husband is two years older than me, and he is 58 years old this year. My husband and I have extramarital lovers, and this is something that we both know. My husband had a good relationship for many years, and when I first gave birth, he was completely tired of me and hooked up with a divorced single woman who had been good for 30 years. No matter how much I make trouble, my husband just doesn't want to be separated from him. Since my husband's heart can't be pulled back, I want to divorce him. But he was neither willing to break up with the women out there nor agree to divorce me. He said that he wanted the kind of life where the red flag at home did not fall, the bunting flag fluttered outside, he said that even if it was for his son, he would not divorce me, marry a woman outside, let other women be the stepmother of his son, she was not dissatisfied with me, in addition to losing freshness to me, he had a high evaluation of me, he said that I am good for my in-laws, my daughter-in-law is his good, and my wife is good for my son. My mother rushed to this point, he was determined not to divorce me in this life, he asked me to accept the fact that he was having an affair, saying that as long as I did not mess with him, he would rely on me for everything. As a glass-hearted woman, I can tolerate anything about my husband, but I can't tolerate him being unfaithful to me anyway. I felt that his infidelity was like a knife stuck in the tip of my heart, stabbing me from time to time, casting a huge shadow on my life, and I was determined not to allow such a thing to happen to me for a long time. If the husband's extramarital affair is likened to a tumor, if the tumor can be completely eradicated, in order for the child to have a full family, I am willing to complete our marriage, if the husband does not cooperate and let the tumor exist for a long time, then I would rather give up marriage and return to singleness. When my husband was determined not to correct my mistakes, I had to go to court to sue for divorce. My lawsuit for divorce alarmed both parents, especially my mother, who rushed from her hometown to our small home despite the long distance, and begged me in tears, telling me not to divorce, my mother lost her mother from a young age, she said that for a child, maternal love is absolutely something that is indispensable or lacking, it is better to have a begging mother than to be an official father, he loves the pain of not having a mother around since childhood, so he firmly disagrees with my divorce. At that time, my son was only five years old, and he was a single baby of three generations of my husband's family, and even if my in-laws fought hard, it was absolutely impossible for me to allow my son to take away. My mother was distressed about my grandson, and in order to prevent me from divorcing, she even gave me an ultimatum, saying that as long as I divorced, he would no longer recognize me as a daughter. My in-laws also threatened me with my son, saying that once I got divorced, they would not let me see my son again. Under the pressure of my relatives around me, I finally compromised with reality. My husband is still the same as me, I have to meet with my lover every day, and the internal medicine tumor is always rooted in my heart, so that my life is gray and dark, and I can't see a trace of improvement. In order to decompress myself, I finally chose to be someone else's lover. Although this kind of behavior has been felt very shameless by me, and I have also hated women who have interfered in other people's families, but many things are really unavoidable, I have several lovers, I can't stand the emotional emptiness, because as long as I am idle, I will think of the harm my husband has done to me, and I can only temporarily numb myself and make myself forget all the unhappiness in my heart when I am with my lover. When my husband stays up all night, I will meet with my lover and find a psychological balance. My husband knows the things about me as a lover, but he doesn't care, anyway, he doesn't love me anymore, he doesn't care who I'm with, she just needs me to take care of the family and children, as for the rest, he doesn't care at all. Although I know that being a lover is an immoral thing, only in this way can I find a little psychological balance, find some fun in life, and let me be loved and understood by men like a normal woman. Some loyal advice can be given to this woman in the comments section below