Spring Festival is a festival full of joy! Dress up in new clothes, eat good food, and reunite with the elders of the family. If the child does not understand the etiquette of the Spring Festival and makes a big fuss when eating with adults, it is likely to be in an embarrassing situation for parents. Now let's learn about the Spring Festival etiquette related to children.
First, the rules of action
The special problem during the Spring Festival is that children are often excited when they enter an unfamiliar environment and receive more stimulation.
Parents should use some methods to enhance his control, but it is by no means a reprimand, and it is also a strong emotion, but it will aggravate the child's emotional fluctuations. You can use some agreed small movements to quiet the child.
Second, see people call no less
Grandparents, uncles and aunts are commonly used to call children basically can not make a mistake, for the more common relatives, polite babies will be called. However, there are more guests during the Spring Festival, which depends on parents teaching in advance how to call the guests who are about to meet.
Because some of the names of children are usually used less, they are more oral when calling. If you wait to meet with the guest before teaching the child to call, the child may feel awkward and refuse to open his mouth, if you and the child "rehearsed" before meeting the guest, the child is very natural to call.
Third, the words of blessing should be said more
Some babies can't say a lot of words, and parents can teach their babies to greet them with gestures in advance: holding their fists, seeing friends and relatives smiling and greeting.
Older babies can teach them to say auspicious words and greetings such as "Wishing you prosperity", "Happy New Year", and "Safe Years".
Fourth, about receiving red envelopes
1. Accept the red envelope to thank you
The elders give money to the elderly, which means that the child has a safe and secure year. When the elders give the red envelopes, the babies should take them with both hands and say thank you to the elders.
If the baby is too young to do it, parents can hold the baby's hand, take the red envelope with both hands, and then take the baby together to say "thank you".
2. The red envelope cannot be dismantled in person
Toddlers under the age of 2 will not know what the red envelope is, just tell him that when someone else gives him, he must say thank you, and then put it in his pocket or give it to his mother.
After the baby understands a little, tell them in advance, take the red packet, never open it in front of the guest, the best thing to do is to immediately put the red packet in the bag of the parents or the baby's own bag.
Fifth, about the etiquette at the table
At the New Year, in the face of a table of delicious food, children will inevitably be tempted to eat small mouths. Usually, adults are more accustomed to children: what children love to eat will intentionally let children eat more. However, if there are guests present in the New Year, it is necessary to educate children to be polite.
Before eating, you should tell your child well: "Everyone likes good things, so there are good things on the dinner table, you don't want to eat them all by yourself, you have to leave something for others to eat." Children who are too selfish are not liked. ”
6. Hospitality etiquette
1. Treat guests kindly
When there are guests, parents should guide and encourage children to greet guests kindly and actively, after guests enter the house, older children can do some simple hospitality work, such as: greeting guests to sit down, giving guests snacks, etc.
2, adults do not interject when they speak
When talking to adults, let the child understand that quietly doing his own thing is a good child, and walking back and forth and casually interjecting is disrespectful to the guest.
7. Guest etiquette
1. Take the initiative to greet and say thank you
Lead the child to someone else's house as a guest, after entering the door, parents should guide the child to take the initiative to arrange the shoes after saying hello. Remember to ask your child to say "thank you" when they are entertained.
2, other people's things do not move randomly
The nature of the child is curiosity, especially in an unfamiliar environment, it is impolite to tell the child to move other people's things casually, and if you want to play with toys or read books, you must get the consent of the owner.
8. Communicative etiquette
Don't be stingy about sharing. When there are small guests, generously take out toys to play with small guests, which will make the young guests extra happy.
When the guest leaves, the parents can lead the child to send the guest for a while, and the parent can say to the child: "Say goodbye to the ××, and come again when you have time!" "Even if parents teach their children to say it, speaking out of their children's mouths will make guests feel happy. After such a hearing, the child will surely become a polite little master.
9. Telephone etiquette
1. There are questions and answers when answering the phone
The basic etiquette requirements for answering the phone can be used by parents to learn from when educating their children: when the child answers the phone, they must learn to say polite words such as "hello", "please ask", "please wait".
When answering the phone, the voice should be lighter and not shouted; when answering the phone, there should be questions and answers, and when answering questions, you should be generous, you cannot not respond to the other party's questions for a long time, and you should not throw the phone away when you do not know how to answer.
2. Pay attention to the time when calling
Pay attention to the time of the call, the call time should not be too long, and do not choose too early or too late time to call, so as not to affect the rest of others.
When adults call, children should not interject or grab the microphone; when hanging up the microphone, they should take it lightly, do not drop the microphone, or hang up the phone heavily; when answering the phone, learn to say "goodbye", and then hang up the phone, do not just hang up the phone after you finish speaking.
In this lively and festive Spring Festival, the children are one year older, have parents already taught their children the Spring Festival etiquette?
Don't underestimate these rituals, it can make your children love and blossom!
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