Parenting is easy to overlook some of the problems

Hello audience members, I am Brother Xiaowei. Now there is often a saying that boys are poor and girls are rich. So is this educational concept correct? And with the continuous development of society, the rapid progress of science and technology, there are a lot of emerging things, such as television, computers, mobile phones, especially mobile phone children are easy to contact, so many information contact channels and emerging things will make parents have a lot of problems that have not been encountered in parenting education before and easy to ignore, and then Xiao Wei Brother analyzes these problems one by one for everyone.

The first thing to talk about is the mobile phone, because the mobile phone is basically available in every family, and the child is the easiest to access. For mobile phones, it is recommended that parents do not let their children know the boot password, and children play mobile phones we can unlock with fingerprints. Be wary of kids when the payment password of the phone is entered. The purpose of this is that many children often have poor self-control, and it is easy to charge money to buy virtual items such as skins and equipment when playing games, causing great losses to parents. Such news abounds online. Fortunately, the country has now come out of the policy of refunding money for minors' games.

The second problem that is easy to ignore is that if there is a ground socket in the home, be careful that young children touch it with their hands or poke it with sharp objects to prevent electric shock. There are also marbles, batteries and other things to prevent young children from putting them in their mouths. It is also necessary to train children from an early age to remember the phone number at home and tell him that there is something to find the police uncle. In case of loss, it does not give the hateful traffickers a chance to take advantage of it. Brother Wei also lost his way twice when he was a child, and he still remembers this kind of thing vividly, and he was almost abducted by human traffickers. It is really favored by Heaven, good luck. Then parents should also pay attention to the children imitate some behaviors in cartoon film and television dramas, and there are cases of children imitating animation plots jumping from upstairs and falling, which must be safely guided to educate children not to imitate the behavior in cartoons. The previous article of Xiao Wei Brother has introduced some anime suitable for educating children, and everyone is interested in reading it.

For parents with children going to junior high school, the most worrying thing is the problem of their children's early love, so how to solve this problem? First of all, parents should establish prestige, which is not to say that filial piety is produced under the stick, thinking that the child's early love is idle, and it is good to beat it. On the contrary, your child will become more and more reluctant to communicate with you. And you think that he is good to him and he does not understand, in fact, both sides will feel wronged. The right thing to do is to respect the child, lead by example, and promise the child that you must do what you want, so that the child will feel that you have credit and an image. Then the child's own pocket money do not take, into the child's room, whether your home is a boy or girl to knock on the door, so that the child will feel that you respect him, willing to communicate with you, only if he is willing to communicate with you you can persuade him not to fall in love early. Then we have to let the child understand that junior high school is dependent on the support of parents, and at this stage there is no ability to give each other a future. So there is no point in falling in love at this time. It is also necessary to cultivate children's concept of rational consumption and prevent children from developing the habit of excessive consumption by doing credit cards, so as to eliminate the potential dangers of online loans, campus loans, and naked loans. After all, teachers teach knowledge in school, children's morality still needs to be cultivated by parents, and many schools in terms of moral education are very insufficient, such as many schools to arrange seats for students according to grades.

Finally, let's talk about whether it is correct for boys to be poor and girls to be rich. This sentence can easily be misleading if it is only taken literally. If boys are really poor, in the current materialistic world, they will inevitably lead to inferiority, autism, and it is very likely that they will develop a door-picking and stingy personality when they grow up. For example, what if many children exchange snacks with each other at school and their children don't have the money to buy snacks. True poverty is the appropriate reduction of their material standards and the cultivation of self-discipline, financial management and perseverance in boys. This is because boys grow up and enter society and face many problems such as buying a house, buying a car and supporting a family, and the pressure and responsibility paid are much heavier, and they need to mature faster. If the girl is really rich and has no concept of financial management, spending money and relying too much on materials, then does the man have the financial ability to support consumption after becoming a family. The real wealth is to take more daughters out to play, broaden their horizons, increase their experience, and cultivate independent and assertive thoughts. Otherwise, the girl is too simple, and it is easy to be confused by rhetoric under the sugar-coated shells of the stupid children, causing irreparable tragedy to her life. And if a boy really likes a girl, then he will certainly try to lay a material foundation for him, not just rhetoric. Liking a person starts from appearance, from talent, and loyalty to character.

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