Although the name of the movie is Called Oak Boy, the name of the book is actually Called "The Boy Who Spoke to Oak Tree". Personally, I think the name "the boy who spoke to the oak tree" is more interesting.
I always felt that the four words "Oak Boy" seemed to be written casually after removing the main predicate.
The movie is actually a long process of growing up, the story is indecisive, and from it, we can see the fragments of each of our life growth. Whether we have experienced war or not, our lives will have a kind of small, boring time that fills our entire life.
This is the time of the male protagonist. The fate of the male protagonist is very bumpy, the story takes place in the Second World War, the male protagonist's father is a Jew, and is a violinist. The father of the male protagonist met the mother of the male protagonist in the process of fleeing, but the male protagonist's father did not quit for some reasons, and the male protagonist's mother found herself pregnant with the male protagonist when she was heartbroken.
The male protagonist was placed in the house of his mother's younger brother.
Become someone else's child.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > (i) "Treat children, we want to release their nature!" ”</h1>
In the movie, the male protagonist especially loves to read, but whether it is the adoptive father of the male protagonist or the adoptive mother of the male protagonist, he does not like to read and does not like music; the male protagonist's parents and relatives are all carpentry and housework, and they simply cannot accept a person learning music and reading idle all day.
Everyone is a new father and mother. The adoptive father and adoptive mother have no culture, they think that as long as they hear it, the child will definitely have similar interests with them, but what they did not expect was that no matter how to cultivate, this child does not seem to be born for farm work, this child When he first listened to the concert, he felt that he had found a form of releasing his life, this form is music, and the child feels that music makes his life shine and makes his life meaningful.
The adoptive parents felt like, "Oh, no, we can't let this child follow in his father's footsteps." ”
So desperately stopped.
As a result, there is no use in preventing it, and this child still loves music very much, and loves music even more than he loves his own life.
This incident made me think that in fact, when educating children, we should still be like our great educator Confucius, "teaching according to aptitude." "To understand the actual situation of students and teach from the actual situation, be good at discovering students' interests, hobbies and create conditions to make each student's different strengths play as much as possible."
For example, some children do not love sports at all, she feels that letting herself run ten laps on the playground will simply kill her own sad children, I think there is no need to force children to do things they do not want to do, in the case of ensuring the health of children, you can properly develop students' interests and hobbies.
For example, this child loves art very much, and the works he paints are not only well matched with colors but also vivid, so why don't we enjoy it?
It's the same for the kid in the movie, for this kid, music is something he can't give up in his life, so why should we force him?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > (2) People should still be kind! </h1>
When the male protagonist was studying, he met a Jewish classmate. The classmate's mother was mentally abnormal, so the adoptive mother of the male protagonist took the child to her own home and raised it until the child grew up.
Although the adoptive mother has no culture, as a woman, the adoptive mother has raised two children, which is still very great. On the issue of adoptive mothers treating two children, I think that we should still be kind as human beings, and good people will eventually find their own attribution.
When I was with my sister before, her kindness often shocked me.
For example, when we go to the supermarket together, I will withdraw with lightning speed after weighing the dishes, and then my sister can catch the old lady who bought vegetables during this period saying to herself, "How many dollars a pound of leeks?" Words like that, and then patiently answer each other's questions.
For example, the patient will not know the process of seeing a doctor because she is a farmer, and she will also stay for two minutes to explain to the patient in detail what time it is most appropriate to come, and she does not have to wait for time.
At this time, I think that there will always be someone who will be quietly kind in a place where we can't see.
I remember seeing a survey, Henan Province is the province with the highest seat yield, when I take the subway, I often see many people on the subway to give up their seats to others, and then stand silently on the side; sometimes I also give up my seat, but it depends on whether the bag I carry that day is very heavy!!!
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > (iii) the poetic meaning of life! </h1>
In the movie, the male protagonist says: "Do you know what fog is? ”
The adoptive mother said, "What? ”
Male protagonist: "Fog is the sadness of the sea, it is as endless as the whole sea." ”
Then when I saw this sentence, I felt that the temperament of the male protagonist was melancholy, with sadness, with the kind of depression that belonged to the reader.
The male protagonist in the movie often talks to the big oak tree, not knowing what the boy and the oak tree are talking about, but the boy is chatting with the oak tree. We ordinary people, who in the end will be idle and chat with oak trees? But our male protagonist did it, and the male protagonist liked to chat with the oak tree.
Life is originally boring, and sometimes we can't do anything about it, but sometimes, we can artificially add some poetry to our lives.
I remember that I followed a blogger on Douyin, he was a boy, but he updated his daily life after marriage with his wife and children, such as shopping online with his wife and children on the wooden floor on the balcony, sprinkling a circle of pebbles around; for example, he would accompany his wife to pedal the bicycle when the child was asleep, and his wife would accompany his wife to pedal the bicycle when he was doing yoga, so that his wife had a little motivation to persevere...
This kind of poetry of his not only fulfilled himself, but also fulfilled his wife, and I think that if you live with such a person, you must be very happy and happy.
Finally, I hope everyone can be happy.