A daughter with executive power

Usually the daughter sleeps at eleven o'clock.

But often at this time, hungry, he can't help but order takeout, destroying the weight loss plan, making his daughter very annoyed.

It is said that Liu Xuezhou posted a long article late at night, "Born light, but also clean", and then swallowed drugs at the beach, lonely and desperate to die, my daughter was eating barbecue with her younger siblings, playing games, playing hilarious, laughing and laughing.

The daughter is seventeen years old, two years older than Liu Xuezhou. The younger brother was fourteen years old, a year younger than Liu Xuezhou.

Why is it said that Liu Xuezhou is a very well-behaved and very sensible and strong good child, compared with the above two references, that is the difference between the bully and the scum.

Oh, it hurts me to death.

My daughter is also overwhelmed by lamentations, thinking that fatherly love and maternal love are not born great, and some people are born without humanity. It is also pitiful to this ill-fated peer.

Last night, my daughter spontaneously proposed to adjust her sleep schedule, from eleven o'clock to ten o'clock.

It was almost time, my daughter urged us, and got into bed early.

When I went to bed half an hour late, I found that my daughter had already slept, and there was an English book on the pillow.

Therefore, with regard to formulating rules and implementing them, it is really meaningless to make chickens fly and dogs jump, lose both sides, and have no positive effect, and waste all their efforts.

My conclusion is to love and accept the child unconditionally, let the child relax and be happy, feel the beauty of life, love life, have dreams and goals and actions, and let him automatically and spontaneously "willing" to do a lot of things.

The child is willing, the most important thing. Parents do not nag and preach, and children will take the initiative to move forward.

The child is unwilling, and it is useless to whip hard.

My daughter is now in a state of pure self-discipline and self-motivation:

Regarding studying, I was asked, can I repeat my studies in my senior year of high school? Say that you want to study hard and take the art exam. I said yes. After passing the academic examination first, the college entrance examination can be tested until the age of 100.

Regarding consumption, this month I only bought cat food cat litter and bought a new concept English online course. Didn't spend any other money. For the first time.

She herself said that she would save money to learn piano and take art exams.

Thought is the most important, and thought determines life planning and choices in the present.

About life: In order to become more beautiful and healthier, my daughter insists on exercising, working normally, keeping her mouth shut and walking on her legs.

I am very satisfied and grateful, and I feel that my daughter's state at the moment is perfect and I don't need to improve anymore. I always remind myself that I can't be too greedy.

A netizen said that her daughter complained to her that when she was sick and uncomfortable, her mother cried hard. When I got better, my mother began to make various requests again, and began to do it again.

Dr. Wang Yi, a doctor of psychology, said that it is the endless demands of parents, and the expectations of a mountain are higher than a mountain, so that children dare not get better.

Many netizens have summed up their experience, saying that when the child is seriously ill, he thinks that the child only needs to live. The child has improved, and I want to force the child to do it. As a result the child seconds back to before liberation.