Men are not as emotionally sensitive as women, and sometimes his method of liking a person may be rough and not pleasing to you, but his most fundamental purpose is actually to let you know his intentions.
If a man loves you with his heart, not only will his eyes change when he looks at you, but even his attitude towards you will become different from other people's.
Emotionally, if someone does this to you, then it means that he must really love you.
A man who loves you with his heart will have these "different"
The attitude towards you is unique
The person who likes you will not only want you to reciprocate his attitude, but will even care about his own image in front of you.
He may have a big temper and like to talk dirty in front of outsiders, but in front of you, he will deliberately relent, and his attitude will become gentle and humble.
He may be sloppy and doesn't like to clean up his house. But if you go out, you will definitely wipe the park chairs clean and ask you to sit down.
He probably doesn't like to read and write, nor does he love Keigo Higashino and Yu hua. But in order to have a topic to talk to with you, he can also learn what you like...
For someone who loves you, his attitude toward you can be tolerant, give in, and pampered. You are unique to him, and so is his attitude towards you.
Take care of your emotions all the time
My girlfriend told me at night that her boyfriend was extremely protective of her emotions when he was outside.
For example, the two of them went out shopping the day before yesterday and met a "nemesis" colleague in their girlfriend's company. At that time, colleagues quipped that her girlfriend boyfriend was handsome and handsome, so she should be more careful with other love enemies and not let her boyfriend be robbed by others.
At this time, the girlfriend felt aggrieved in her heart, because she was not tall, coupled with the overtime staying up late a while ago, there were a lot of acne on her face, and now the whole look is indeed not a good match with the handsome boyfriend.
But at this time, the boyfriend said: "My girlfriend looks so beautiful, I am afraid that she will provoke me to make a love enemy." ”
This sentence made the girlfriend feel warm in her heart instantly, and there were not so many inferior feelings.
She said: "It's nice to meet someone who really loves me, who will always take care of my emotions, give me a sense of security, and give me full of confidence." ”
If a man really likes you, then he will know how to maintain your self-esteem and will also know how to take care of your emotions. Because he doesn't want to see you unhappy.
For your generosity, there will be no bottom line
A while ago, the "sixth anniversary Lafitegrass" incident that made a lot of noise on the Internet confirmed a good sentence: "People who love you are afraid of giving you too few things, and people who don't love you are afraid of giving you too much." ”
The whole incident was mainly a boy who had been in a long-distance relationship with his girlfriend for six years, but the gift he gave to the other party for the sixth anniversary was less than a hundred yuan of snacks, an unwashed coat, and most of the boxes of rafido.
In terms of feelings, it is not necessary to see how expensive gifts the other party has bought you and what kind of high-end restaurants you have taken. It's mainly about how he feels about you.
A man who is generous and open to you, with a clean mind and an open heart. Interacting with this person, it will not be too much of a loss.
And a man who is stingy with you is mostly calculating and narrow-minded. With him, you may have to be prepared to separate and fight with each other in the future.
Loving you with your heart is different from planning a selfish person who loves you. The former will consider your feelings and protect you. But the latter is more about loving himself and using you to achieve some sort of social acceptance he needs. Therefore, girls should recognize the true face of each other when facing suitors, and do not easily obey each other's sweet words.