In the age of forty, some women are more and more beautiful, some women can only grow old, in our impression, women to forty years old seem to have nothing to do with peach blossom luck, bloated, fat and blessed, how to look as if it will not attract men's attention.
However, some women are still charming even at the age of forty, and there will still be men who flock to them. In the relationship between the sexes, when a woman reaches middle age, she can also have "peach blossom luck", and the fundamental reason is very simple.
Confidence and openness are the "labels" of women's charm
There is a blogger on the short video platform, who has not met a good person before, originally thought that the person he chose would shield himself from the wind and rain, but he did not think that all the wind and rain after marriage were brought to him by this person, and the child was left to dislike the girl, the milk powder money was not given, and he punched and kicked her.
At that time, the blogger was very unconfident, because there was no financial resources, she could only accept it, and later, she felt that she could not spend her life with such a person, so she proposed a divorce, and at that time, the man was also convinced that the woman was just a matter of will, and finally because she had no money, she would come back to ask for herself, and she agreed.
However, the woman made a few credit cards, began to live stream goods on the Internet, everyone admired her courage, coupled with the high quality of her goods, so more and more people supported her, her money was more and more saved, with children to buy beautiful clothes, eat delicious meals, people are more and more confident.
The ex-husband watched the woman get better and better, so he proposed to remarry, but the woman did not agree, because now she is confident and generous and frank, how can she be committed to someone so unworthy?
Ma Weidu said: "Each of us will definitely encounter obstacles in our lives in terms of physiology, psychology or surrounding environment, and the ups and downs in everyone's heart must be overcome by themselves, no matter how others help you, you need to cross this obstacle yourself." ”
Woman's self-confidence is her best business card, self-confidence, temperament is different, temperament is different, heterosexual attraction will come, no matter what age a woman is, as long as she lives like a beam of light, there will be peach blossom luck.
The mind is quiet, content and happy, no desire and no desire
Many times, the reason why we feel unhappy and the reason why we feel bored is actually because our hearts are occupied by some messy desires.
We felt that we were not young enough, our cheeks were not full and round, and how wrinkles looked so distracting, so we began to spend a lot of money trying on these irresistible things, only to find that they were useless, the wrinkles were still there, and the cheeks were still not as smooth as those of young people in their twenties.
It's just that all beauty will fade with the passage of time, and time is fair to everyone, so how can it be restored to its original state because of a few pieces of silver?
So, all anxiety is meaningless, all unrealistic desires are meaningless, so why don't we try to accept it if we can't change it?
When people reach middle age, the best state of life is to be lowly equipped with their own life, high with their own souls, to accept their aging calmly, to be content and happy.
What about forty years old, and what about middle age, even if they are white-haired?
As long as we temper our state of mind, as long as we accept our own aging calmly, as long as we reduce our desires and enjoy the present simply and calmly, then the temperament that emanates from the inside out will naturally be haunted by the dreams of the opposite sex.
Be high-profile and never please or flatter
No one will take an appreciative attitude towards a person with a low posture, because whether it is a man or a woman, in their bones, they all appreciate those who are like the flowers of the high mountains.
It will not be bent to meet, it will not be deliberately flattered, it will not be humble, it will not be generous, no matter at any time, it will not be because of a person to seek perfection.
When a woman is overwhelmed by a sweet word from a man, or because of a man's presence.
When a woman is manipulated by a man and completely follows the rhythm of a man, when a woman becomes very active, then, for a man, her attractiveness will be reduced.
Because men generally have a desire to conquer, no matter how old they are, the more they can't get it, or it's not so easy to get, the more it will stimulate their competitiveness.
Those who can get it with their bare hands will feel less scarce because it is too easy.
As emotion expert Zuo Yan said: "When a woman becomes more and more enthusiastic about men, men become more and more indifferent to women, this is because men feel that women have no challenges for themselves, so they will be like this." ”
Therefore, when women do not lower their posture, when women are not willing to bend and seek perfection, then in the hearts of men, she is full of attraction, then naturally there will be peach blossom luck.