Consciously or unconsciously, a friend always felt that a colleague was constantly looking at himself and occasionally smiling at himself.
In this regard, he felt that the other party must like him, so he painstakingly added the other party as a friend and began to take the initiative to send messages to the other party.
He thought that since the other party was interested in him, then when he took the initiative, the other party would be very enthusiastic, and the other party would definitely walk together very smoothly, but he did not expect that the other party was just very cold, and did not even know who he was.
When he said that he felt that the other party was often looking at him, the other party did not think about it at all, and said that there was no such thing.
It turned out that everything was just an illusion on his part, and he didn't seem to want to admit it.
Between men and women, it seems that there are always times when we feel confidently that the other party likes ourselves and has our own hearts, but in the end, the truth is not so, and the reason for this phenomenon lies in ourselves after all.
When it comes to gender relations, you won't have a way to judge them accurately. Many times, I will inexplicably feel that a certain member of the opposite sex, or several members of the opposite sex, is interested in me.
Whenever you are close to the other party at this time, the other party will often tell you very clearly that the other party does not have any special feelings for you.
Originally, when the other party clearly told you, you should clearly realize that it is your own cognition that has deviated, but unfortunately, because of your own delusion, you have no way to face the reality, but will only feel that the other party is unwilling to admit it.
Of course, when liking a person, everyone will desire the other to like themselves as well. People who are in love, no matter how rational they are in their daily lives, at that moment, they will only become particularly emotional, unconsciously, and even deceive themselves in various ways.
Too much unrequited love, that is often the case, their own various inner dramas, after all, will only be a touch of delusion, there is no way to become a reality.
The opposite sex should keep their distance, which is the right thing to do, and even so, on many occasions, they will still intersect with each other. Or because of work, or because of a party, or because of something else.
When a member of the opposite sex gives you some warmth, maybe it's just that the other party is like this, and it's good for everyone, but in your opinion, you may still feel that the other party likes you, so it will be so to you.
There are always times when there is some friendliness, which is just very ordinary, but it will be considered like by you.
Two people get along, some actions, it will also seem more ambiguous, especially when you observe between you with ambiguous eyes, the more you think like this, the more everything will often seem to be true.
Emotional things, sometimes feel that the other party likes themselves, that will be true. But there are always times when there are some likes, but just self-righteousness.
Thinking that the other party likes themselves, in fact, the other party just treats you as a passerby and does not want to go further.
This illusion is indeed more torturous, but when you meet a person, you like each other more, and you feel that the other party likes you, you don't actually have to think too much, you can still try. After trying, if it is not an illusion, you will get a good relationship.