Fu Mingxia is the "Diving Queen" and has won three Olympic championships.
Fu Mingxia entered the national team at the age of 11, participated in the Olympic Games at the age of 14, won the women's 10-meter platform championship, and was the youngest Olympic gold medalist.
There are bitterness and tears behind the scenery, and only Fu Mingxia's parents know everything.
After retiring, Fu Mingxia, like most athletes, got married and had children.
The difference is that Fu Mingxia married Liang Jinsong, a wealthy businessman who was 26 years older, and this relationship was opposed by her parents.
Years later, Fu Mingxia proved to her parents that the person who chose her was right.
Fu Mingxia, born in 1978, to a rural family in Wuhan.
There is also an older sister in the family, and the arrival of the second child has increased the pressure on the family.
In order to support their two children, parents work outside, and that little salary cannot support a family of four.
Parents are first tight to the child, but the child is still because of insufficient nutrition, poor physique, often sick.
Fu Mingxia and her sister have to run to the hospital several times a week, especially Fu Mingxia, who often has a fever and is more stressed by her parents.
Every time they took the medicine, half of the money their parents earned was spent on it, and Fu Mingxia's parents worried about it every day.
When Fu Mingxia was 5 years old, her parents were on their way to the hospital with their two children when they saw an advertisement on a telephone pole.
It says that the sports school is enrolling, interested in enrolling.
Fu Mingxia's father had a clever move: entering the sports school is good, you can let your daughter exercise, improve physical resistance, and spend less money.
He consulted with his wife and agreed to sign up for his two daughters.
No matter what you study when you enter the sports school, you will definitely have to suffer hardships, and Fu Mingxia and her sister are not very happy.
The father solemnly told them: "Now society is hard no matter what it does, and if you suffer a little now, it will be easier in the future." In our family's situation, if you want to live a good life, you have to suffer hardships, and it is not okay to rely on your parents' little salary.
In the future, when you enter the sports school, it is a glorious thing to win glory for the country."
Fu Mingxia and her sister were told that their blood was boiling and decided to go to sports school.
At the beginning, Fu Mingxia and her sister learned gymnastics together, because she was physically tough and difficult to have a good development, and was introduced to learn diving.
In order to let his daughter learn to swim, Fu Mingxia's father tied a rope around his waist to help his daughter practice. In the evening, her parents took turns sitting on her knees and pressing her legs.
Kung Fu did not pay off, Fu Mingxia grew up rapidly, was brought to Beijing by coach Yu Fen, entered the national team, and began a diving career of Kaihang.
In 2001, Fu Mingxia announced her official retirement.
After retiring from the army, she was full of beautiful fantasies about the future and chose to enter Tsinghua University to study, and her parents were very supportive of her decision.
Fu Mingxia's parents have no expectations for their daughter, hoping that she can find a like-minded person to marry and have children.
I didn't expect her to meet someone who would work together for a lifetime so soon.
In the same year, the annual Hong Kong "Outstanding Leaders" Awards Ceremony was held in Hong Kong, and the organizers invited Fu Mingxia as the guest of honor.
At the event site, Leung Kam-song appeared as the Financial Secretary of Hong Kong, sitting next to Fu Mingxia.
Although the two did not know each other, Liang Jinsong had long admired the great name Fu Mingxia, a diver he admired very much.
The two sat together without much communication, and since most of the people at the scene, Fu Mingxia, did not know each other, and one person was very bored.
Liang Jinsong sensed that her mood was not right, so he took the initiative to talk to her.
He took out an electronic notepad and asked Fu Mingxia: Would you like to play games with me? Fu Mingxia replied: I will not play games.
He said: I can teach you.
Liang Jinsong patiently told her how to play the game, learned that the two people began to play together.
Fu Mingxia was a bit stupid and was out of the first set. Liang Jinsong not only did not get angry, but also made her happy in Mandarin.
After the event, Fu Mingxia and Liang Jinsong were still unfinished, and they left contact information for each other.
After returning home, Liang Jinsong often sent messages to Fu Mingxia, telling her: If you need help, just say it.
Fu Mingxia was sometimes confused, and Liang Jinsong enlightened her and planned for her future.
At that moment, Liang Jinsong exuded charm, and she became fascinated with the man in front of her.
Leung Kam-song is a wealthy Hong Kong businessman who has broken through the world with his own efforts.
And he also had a marriage, and his ex-wife was a college classmate, after marriage he was busy with work, flying around the world, and his ex-wife filed for divorce.
After the divorce, Liang Jinsong was preoccupied with his career, and he delayed his personal feelings.
This time, he met Fu Mingxia and was moved, and wanted to marry and have children with her.
Liang Jinsong is 26 years older than Fu Mingxia, and when he met her, he was already 49 years old, afraid that she would not accept herself and did not directly confess.
In the end, meticulous care touched Fu Mingxia, who did not care about age, and was with him.
After being together, the two were quite low-key and did not choose to have an open relationship, but it did not affect their feelings.
When Liang Jinsong was not working, he accompanied Fu Mingxia, took her out to play, bought her luxury goods, and so on.
When Fu Mingxia was a child, because her family was poor and frugal, she did not accept expensive gifts.
It didn't take long for Fu Mingxia to adapt to such a life, and her relationship with Liang Jinsong quickly warmed up.
Finding a suitable day, Fu Mingxia took Liang Jinsong back to his hometown in Wuhan to meet his parents.
The people in the village are very much looking forward to what kind of boyfriend such a good person will bring home. Unexpectedly, he was an old man who was more than half a hundred years old, 2 years younger than Fu Mingxia's father.
The people in the village did not understand Liang Jinsong, and there was some gossip.
And Fu Mingxia's parents did not believe that such a good daughter would marry such a person, and resolutely disagreed with this family affair.
Fu Mingxia told her parents: I have grown up, I used to listen to your arrangements, and my feelings must listen to my own.
Her parents were so angry with her that they couldn't speak.
Seeing that she did not move her daughter, Fu Mingxia's parents looked for Liang Jinsong.
Fu Mingxia's father wrote to Liang Jinsong: We are about the same age, I hope you can understand my heart as a father, for Xiaxia's good, I will break up with her.
Liang Jinsong saw that the letter was not angry and patiently replied to his father-in-law: I am about the same age as you, and I should get along better. You know that I will accept me, I will love Xiaxia as much as you do, and I will honor you with her.
Fu Mingxia's parents had no way, and her daughter could not be contacted.
Eventually they made a compromise and agreed to such a marriage.
In 2002, Fu Mingxia and Liang Jinsong finally cultivated the right fruit, registered their marriage in Hawaii Lightning, and prepared for the wedding.
The two were both happy and excited, and invited friends and family to participate.
Fu Mingxia's parents, on the other hand, were unhappy, and their hearts felt as if something was wrong.
Although Fu Mingxia's parents tacitly agreed with their son-in-law Liang Jinsong, they were always worried about their daughter's married life, afraid that she would suffer hardships and sins after marrying, after all, they all said that once they entered the rich, they were as deep as the sea.
Maybe Liang Jinsong just played and dumped his daughter that day.
Hong Kong is so far from Wuhan that it can't go home at any time, and my parents can't help you.
Liang Jinsong knew his father-in-law's and mother-in-law's worries, so he told them that he would definitely treat Fu Mingxia well. But my father-in-law and mother-in-law were not at ease.
After the wedding, Fu Mingxia wanted to leave the place where she had lived for more than twenty years, and her parents were reluctant to give up their daughters and shed tears.
Fu Mingxia suppressed tears, saw her parents unable to hold back, and cried with her parents.
She comforted her parents: I am married and your daughter, and I will come back to see you often.
Parents are much relieved to have this sentence, but they know that the number of times their daughters come back in a year is very small.
Fortunately, there is a phone, Fu Mingxia can not go back to her hometown, just with her parents video. And Liang Jinsong also often entrusted people to send things to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and his life was not bad.
After marriage, Fu Mingxia and Liang Jinsong lived together in Repulse Bay, and there was a nanny to serve the two at home, and they lived happily.
Fu Mingxia was bored at home and wanted to go out to work, but Liang Jinsong did not agree.
Liang Jinsong alone earns money to support his family outside, which is enough to make the family live a good life. She gave up on that idea.
Fu Mingxia was not decadent, learning to cook, and when her husband was at home, she cooked herself.
And Liang Jinsong also loves her very much, every time he comes home from a business trip, he will send gifts to his wife, and the feelings are very good.
In 2003, Fu Mingxia became pregnant, and Liang Jinsong was reluctant to let his wife cook. He also slowed down his work, spending time at home with and caring for his wife.
Liang Jinsong has always liked children, but he has not had time to work all these years. This time he finally wanted to have his own child, and he wanted to give birth smoothly and smoothly.
Sometimes, Liang Jinsong worked outside for several days and was always worried about his wife at home. He thought of a way to take his father-in-law and mother-in-law to live together and take care of Fu Mingxia.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law were very happy. Living around them, not only can you help, but also rest assured that your daughter is not thinking about whether her life is good or not.
Fu Mingxia was even happier and finally reunited with her parents.
A family of four lives in a large villa, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law saw how good Liang Jinsong was to his daughter and accepted him from the bottom of her heart.
From 2003 to 2008, Fu Mingxia gave birth to a daughter and two sons for Liang Jinsong, who was finally a child and daughter, and Liang Jinsong was very happy and gave his wife a gift in a big way.
Fu Mingxia's parents were relieved to see their daughter and The Liang Jinsong family of five living happily together.
At home, Fu Mingxia's parents do nothing, there is a nanny, and the children are also taken care of by Fu Mingxia. They wanted to leave Hong Kong and return to their hometown to live without adding chaos to their daughter and son-in-law.
Over the years, they have rarely returned and missed their hometown life.
And Liang Jinsong did not agree to the departure of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, living together for so many years, completely a family, able to support this big family.
If you are homesick, go back and live for a few days, me and Mingxia can't do without you.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law were very touched to hear the words of the son-in-law, and they were determined to stay and live together.
Liang Jinsong also allowed his father-in-law and mother-in-law to live a happy life in their old age, and they also had their own measure of life.
Fu Mingxia's parents often play with their children, but they never interfere with education.
When her daughter learned to speak, Fu Mingxia began to teach her daughter to read, memorize ancient poems, and teach her children to speak Mandarin.
Sometimes, parents are distressed by their children and want to say something but can't help but not say it.
Liang Siyu will also not listen to his parents, and when the family gathers, he once fights with children.
Fu Mingxia will patiently educate her daughter, and while letting her daughter learn, she will not forget to let her play happily.
She will often organize family activities, and will also let Liang Jinsong put down her work, accompany the children to play, and interact with the children.
Later, Liang Jinsong went to a certain age and chose to spend more time with his children and wife.
In 2021, he will become an independent director of China Construction Bank.
He has more time to accompany his children, not only to play with them, but also to accompany them to do public welfare, so that they know how to have a kind heart.
When the children are busy with school, Liang Jinsong is busy with work.
And Fu Mingxia would party with the rich wives of Hong Kong, eating and drinking together.
Although Fu Mingxia's parents are close to their daughters, they enjoy the world of two in their later years, not all day with their daughters and son-in-law.
When the two sides are free, they will have a meal together and go out on a trip together. When they don't have time, they will find things to do on their own, and they will not let their daughters and sons-in-law worry.
When life in Hong Kong is boring, they want to go back to Wuhan, and they will tell their daughter and son-in-law directly and buy them tickets to go back.
Back at home, the whole village's attitude towards Fu Mingxia's parents has changed greatly, changing the face of disgust in the past.
Fu Mingxia's parents didn't mind the previous events and were very good to the people in the village.
Before leaving, Fu Mingxia bought many things for her parents to take home and asked them to share a point with the villagers.
The people in the village are very grateful to them, as long as the old two go home, they will go to them and bring them food.
Fu Mingxia's parents will have gifts in return.
Fu Mingxia's life is getting better and better, living the life of a rich person, and relatives who have not been in contact for many years have also come to the door.
Some are sincere, some want to borrow money.
And Fu Mingxia didn't care about anything, she would lend money to her parents. If the amount is not large, there is no need to pay them back.
Because Fu Mingxia went out from here, she also wanted to contribute to her hometown and do her best.
With her help, relatives and friends are also having a good time, and they are very grateful for the help of their family.
Husband Liang Jinsong also supported his wife in doing so, telling her wife and father-in-law and mother-in-law that if there is a need for his help, it will not be tired.
Today, Fu Mingxia is 44 years old, Liang Jinsong is 70 years old, has been married for 20 years, and the eldest daughter has grown up.
It is said that on the day of her daughter's adulthood, Fu Mingxia and Liang Jinsong held a grand ceremony, and Liang Jinsong also gave her a mansion.
The two youngest sons are also very good, and the parents are proud of their three children.
Although Fu Mingxia is married to a rich man, life is quite low-key and happy.
At that time, Fu Mingxia's parents prevented this relationship because of age problems, and after marriage, they were always worried that their daughter would not be happy.
Liang Jinsong used practical actions to reassure his father-in-law and mother-in-law about the marriage of his daughter Fu Mingxia.
In fact, Fu Mingxia wants a very simple, happy and beautiful family, Liang Jinsong can satisfy her, but the age is not equal to outsiders.
Fortunately, Fu Mingxia has always insisted on her own choice, and only now has a happy life.
As the saying goes: don't listen to the old man and suffer losses in front of you. On the issue of feelings, it is still necessary to feel with your heart whether the person you choose is suitable for you.
The major events of life cannot be decided by others with two words.