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I have seen such a famous saying: "See life as a mission to complete, and move forward." ”
Really, sixty-year-old people are not finished, just quit the workplace and start a new journey.
Wu Yuren, a retired physics professor at Tongji University, is in his seventies and is still "playing" with physics, showing what he has learned all his life through experiments and other means.
She said: "Maybe it's an old lady who appears on camera, everyone thinks it's quite fresh, friends sometimes ask me, I think it's very embarrassing." ”
Human life and energy are limited, but one's spirit is infinite.
Smart old people will not let themselves be comprehensive, but master the methods of configuration, so that life is in a relatively balanced state.
Low life, mentality, and high spirit are the best life experience for the elderly.
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Low living, thrifty and thrifty.
"Outside the long pavilion, beside the ancient road, the grass is green and blue..." When Li Shutong and his friend Xu Xianyuan were separated, he wrote this song, which is still being warmly welcomed by people.
When Li Shutong was young, he made achievements in drama, painting, education and other aspects, but when he was old, he chose to retreat and became a master of Hongyi.
One day, the educator Xia Junzun came to visit him, saw that there was only a plate of pickles and a cup of water in front of him, frowned and asked: "Is it salty, is it light?" ”
Master Hongyi said, "Salty has a salty taste, and a light taste has a light taste." ”
People are old, and life needs to be simple, not to pursue a luxurious life. No matter how rich you are, don't spend it; no matter how much you like to socialize, give up.
Take the initiative to fade the prosperity, in order to enjoy the taste of family gatherings, feel the comfort of life returning to nature.
Everyone in the world yearns for Tao Yuanming's life, thinking that he lives in seclusion in the countryside, that is, drinking and writing books, never having troubles, and does not know that he still has to rely on farming to maintain his life. And have fun. There are poems as evidence: open up the wilderness in the south, and return to the garden.
After looking at the lives of celebrities and looking at your own lives, you will understand that a good day is not something you buy for, but a real experience.
When you minimize your expenses, you will find that even if you only have a thousand yuan a month, you can have two hundred left. Excess money can maintain good health and leave it for children to do something.
Don't look at the window, there are a variety of goods, but you really need something, not much. Let's say you buy a bracelet that costs thousands of dollars and don't actually wear it for a few days. If you wear it often and still show it, it is easy to be remembered by thieves.
Do not buy things at will, do not be fooled, do not eat and drink, this is the self-discipline that the elderly should have.
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The mentality is equal, and the tolerance is great.
Around us, there are often such old people: everything is not pleasing to the eye, the son's work is not good, the income is too low; the daughter-in-law is not filial enough, always helping the mother's family; the grandson is very naughty, and it is not a learning material at a glance; the neighbor's house is too noisy, and they are panicked across the wall.
Everyone has a different understanding of society, if you force others to agree with you, it means that you are difficult to be strong in your attitude.
Zizhi Tongjian. There is a story in the Eighth Tang Dynasty.
Someone asked to see Tang Taizong and said, "Please get rid of the treacherous people." ”
Tang Taizong did not understand and asked, "Who is a treacherous person?" ”
The visitor said, "As long as you test those around you with anger, those who try to submit to you are treacherous." ”
Tang Taizong smiled and said, "Turbidity is its source and seeks the clarity of its flow, and it is impossible to get it." ”
As a high-level person, he deceives himself and then blames others for cheating, such a routine is to give up his roots and disrupt the order.
In the same way, an old man, at home is the generation of grandfather and grandmother, you actually have a very bad attitude, then don't expect young people to give you a good face and will be filial to you.
The best life of the old man, there must be a "shun" word in it.
Yishu once said: "The sign of a person's true maturity is that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, for the simple reason that everyone has their own difficulties, and you don't necessarily understand their lives." ”
Looking at others is not pleasing to the eye, in fact, it is not good for your own mood. After the age of sixty, don't make such childish mistakes. With a flat mind, measure people with the ruler of morality and family rules, and look at people with encouraging eyes, the world will become better, and the family will have more warmth.
Even if you encounter a bag of garbage when you go out, you will happily clean it up instead of swearing. Think about it from another position, young people are very busy, they have more free time, and picking up garbage is to help others. Different angles, different endings.
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The spirit is highly matched, and it comes with its own noble spirit.
After the literary scholar Liu Zongyuan was relegated to Yongzhou, he lived a hard life, but instead of depression, he read books and watched the scenery and wrote articles.
"I doubt whether the Creator has existed for a long time, and the more I think it is, the more sincere it is. And blame it for not being listed for the middle state is Yidi..." The creation of nature has placed such a good scenery in a remote place, and for thousands of years, it has not shown itself, but it is a pity, a pity.
Borrowing the modification technique of metaphorical people, under liu Zongyuan's pen, it is about to come out.
After more than ten years of hard days, he left behind the masterpiece of "Eight Records of Yongzhou", and posterity admired his talent even more.
In life, we are often exposed to such a word - bottoming out.
At some point, a person's life has reached the lowest point, that is, a new beginning, is an invisible force, pushing themselves.
Therefore, the day of retirement is the beginning of adjusting roles, developing hobbies, studying hard, and studying seriously. Old age, old eyes dizzy, this is the beginning of thinking about life. Idleness at home is not idleness, but the beginning of "breaking, giving up, and leaving".
Teachers can teach and educate people, and old people can read and educate people. Educating people is also educating oneself.
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Tagore wrote in his poem: "Do not try to fill the blank space of life, for music comes from the depths of that void." ”
The most beautiful thing in life is not "flawless", but leaving a little flaw that people can't let go.
A stone, removing the excess, becomes a sculpture; a family, throwing away the excess, can make the window clear; a life, letting go of the superfluous thoughts, will become calm.
Sixty years have passed, the hair is white, but the heart is still warm, the body is still tough, the spirit is still full, this is the best match.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.